Why Does Attractiveness Destroy US

Beautiful Black Women

Thoughts at 8:30 January 7, 2020
LONG POST FOR READERS ONLY!

When I started The Ugly Girls Club, my intention was to have a space where

women could start releasing emotional baggage and the crippling

effects that social status promotes based on looks.

I know that other women who are Guides, Spiritualist, Temple Prostitutes,

Level Up Coaches, Left Hand Path Practitioners, Christian Mothers

etc all weave vanity into their doctrine to offer you cures for the low PERCEPTION of your worth.

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They say “Love Yourself”, but you do not know how to translate

self love into actual practice because what you are fretting over

is not self actualization but your lack of sexual attractiveness and your inability to be desired by men.

This need for us to be desired by men is a survival mechanism; this I do understand.

But what has happened to us as black women is that we have destroyed ourselves

genetically and mentally with the methods by which we seek out obtaining sexual attractiveness.

And the irony now is that we are collectively unattractive

BECAUSE we have put unnaturalness into practice to acquire it.

We dismiss our mental and physical health to gain it.

And now it has become a race we seemingly have no way to win.

And I am not just speaking of cosmetics here,

I am talking about how you are using your body to acquire a sense of self worth.

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The compliments and flattery and the marketing of your backside that results in intercourse

The compliments and flattery and the marketing of your backside that results in intercourse

with men who are secretly repulsed by the ease of access to your crotch, IS THE REAL PROBLEM.

I’m talking about your BELIEF that the sexual reproduction requires

YOU BLACK WOMAN to put your life at risk to prove that you can handle sexual exploitation..

This is what chasing VANITY does.

It causes mental senility and physical neglect!
Why?
Cause you won’t go to the gym if you can’t get a bubble butt.
You won’t eat the salad if your friend doesn’t eat it too.

You won’t stop what’s causing an infection because it makes you look cute..

You need an audience and applause to inspire you to do the right thing for yourself,

AND THIS IS WHY YOU DON’T FEEL SELF LOVE NOR SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE.

When you look in the mirror, do you see health?
I want that to be your primary focus: HEALTH!
And if you do not see health in your reflection,

then you are not sexually attractive NOR MENTALLY HEALTHY EITHER!

For 2020, get totally submerged in your wellbeing. Forget the look of sex or being sexy,

as these only make you look good for sex, not commitment or meaningful partnerships nor soul mating.

GIVE THE SONS OF GOD BACK THEIR VANITY.

THEY GAVE IT TO YOU TO AS AN INSTRUMENT OF EMOTIONALLY CONTROLLING MEN,

BUT NOW YOU HAVE BECOME IT’S SLAVE INSTEAD OF MEN.

Beautiful Black Women in relationships
Salkis re is a Self esteem Coach,
Artist,
Author,
Poet
Ready to help transform the lives of black
Women worldwide!

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