When you were 16, you always had a guy sniffing around you.
There was a secret crush here, a nerd who gave you his allowance money there, the annoying boy who teased you constantly cause he liked you but didnt know how to say it!
There was this nerdy guy who was in love with me and I didn’t understand why.
He was part of the band club at school and he’d write songs for me and offered to walk me home from school.
As unpopular, unattractive, struggle hair buns my no frills having ass was, there was a guy willing to accept it and care for me regardless of my “un-refinement”.
Fast forward to today, and you are under the indoctrinate of talk like this and dress like that and don’t say this and don’t do that, act like this snd not like that, and its harder than ever for you to be “attractive” to the opposite sex.
Because your too invested in doing so.
Your too obsessed with what men think and feel. And you’ve allowed all the let-downs from the lack of attention to show on your face.
You don’t take care of yourself BECAUSE you dont see a point in doing so BECAUSE you don’t get the attention of men.
And that part has to change. You become infectious when truly like yourself, when you dont take yourself of anybody else so seriously. When you aren’t ashamed of who and what you are.
Unattractive women have to embody a “letting go” mentality. Stress isn’t your friend, but PASSION will make you MAGICAL…
What you HAVE to do is find that sweet spot between “Giving no fuks and Caring About Others”.
Ugly Girl.. Be childlike again. Fuk refinement and all the pretense and emotional trappings that only serve to reduce you into a masterbation tool.
BE the ESCAPE for people who desperately want to let their guard down.
Because you don’t fit in to begin with!🤸🏿♀️
“The Ugly Girl’s Ambassador”
Art by Salkis Re