Why Is It So Easy to Con Women?

Criticism leads to a need for one to defend her position. Whether it’s right or wrong is not as important as feeling demeaned by another person. This is why it’s so effective to just tell you what you want to hear. Make it sounds supportive, beef it up with praise and your “Wulls” come tumbling […]

How Not to Influence People

You Can’t Get to Freedom by thinking that Life is Journey***Only poor, undisciplined, insecure people talk that nonsense about a journey!

Why You Need to Be Different!

It Must be emotionally exhausting carrying around feelings of self doubt of your low self worth every day of your life right? You wake up unexcited, barely looking at yourself in the mirror and if you do, you grimmace with dissapointment at your reflection!Day in, day out, the same secret sentiments of self loathe and […]

Being a Dumb Woman IS Profitable!

Transit Time 7:32 a.m. Well I’ve been up since 4 a.m. actually. Early rising helps bye think about the message I want to convey. So I thought about. And this post came to mind because of an exchange I had about relationships with a man on my facebook page Men LOVE to tell a woman […]

Why You Can’t Get a Man: And It’s Not Because of How You Look!

You don’t have love and you think it’s because you are an unattractive black woman with a: dark skin, big nose, overweight, uneducated, no curves etc…It’s not because of ANY of those reasons!!Yes. People you who are apart of this society will come to you with their “programmed” perceptions of your worth. So WHAT!!! Who […]

DO You Feel Threatened?

          Every choice has a bit of risk. Every choice as an element of suffering involved in it.. But there is a difference between THREAT and a CHALLENGE.    Having challenges is a nutritional requirement to be challenged in life. I tell all my clients/collectors that  having challenges is a nutritional […]

Go to The Gym!

Self care supports your desires. Self care makes you feel good about who you are. Self care is a soup of oily habits that can also seal your fate! But I am not talking about soaking in a bubble bath or eating some calorically dense powdered donut. I am talking doing what I’m about to […]

You Are Ugly SO There is No Hope For You????

She states: Men love fantasy and illusion. Look at your sports, strippers, video games. They fantasy bombshell type women If a man can’t get past how you look, you’re going to have the least. Men are visual and that will not change any time soon.     My Response: Fantasy is make believe. So is […]

You Are Leaving Him Because You Are Bored???

As I coach women lately, I’m finding that many of you are considering ending stable relationships because the man is “boring” and seems to be unable to stimulate you emotionally.   He pays the bills He pays the bills, you don’t have to wonder where food and shelter will come from. You get what ever […]

How To Love You!

Self Love is a Relationship With Your Body Sitting at my desk with my yoga gear on, all prepped for my home yin yoga session and I’m thinking about why I am doing this. I workout, eat right and stay of  trouble because that is the way I express love for myself. I have come […]