How Not to Influence People

You Can’t Get to Freedom by thinking that Life is Journey***Only poor, undisciplined, insecure people talk that nonsense about a journey!

Being a Dumb Woman IS Profitable!

Transit Time 7:32 a.m. Well I’ve been up since 4 a.m. actually. Early rising helps bye think about the message I want to convey. So I thought about. And this post came to mind because of an exchange I had about relationships with a man on my facebook page Men LOVE to tell a woman […]

Go to The Gym!

Self care supports your desires. Self care makes you feel good about who you are. Self care is a soup of oily habits that can also seal your fate! But I am not talking about soaking in a bubble bath or eating some calorically dense powdered donut. I am talking doing what I’m about to […]

How To Love You!

Self Love is a Relationship With Your Body Sitting at my desk with my yoga gear on, all prepped for my home yin yoga session and I’m thinking about why I am doing this. I workout, eat right and stay of  trouble because that is the way I express love for myself. I have come […]

The Best Way To GetWhat You Want!

Every woman should think of the “Bigger Picture”. Never make decisions based on the moment….. Always think of your future when you are trying to decide what to do. You will change. You will age. You will be less in demand sexually later than you are now. SO you must plan. Do what is best […]

Pretty Girls Want to Join the Ugly Girls Club

Hey  There UGLY GIRL!”Transit time 6:19 a.m. Feb.8.2019 Pull of a chair, let me have a chat with you for a moment!You wanna know what funny Ugly Girl? Now that I’m focusing all of my energy on YOU, women who are NOT Ugly, who are actually attractive, pretty, beautiful, are coming to me asking to […]

3 Ways That Your Emotional Dysfunction Took Form!!

When you are born, then what you call your ‘family”
starts working on your self esteem, destroying your confidence,
shaming your tastes in food or clothing,
telling you that you look funny or flat out unattractive.

Dark Skin Women Get No Love From Dark Skin Men???

One of my viewers made a comment on my “Are Dark Skin Men The Enemy” I did that video because Sooooooo many dark skin women have sentiments of struggle and trauma around getting a dark skin man want her or keeping the relationship positive and respectful. She Stated: “I was told by a Light Skin […]

“The Pressure to Look Sexy!

“The Pressure to Look Sexy” Written by Salkis Re Listen, I’ve been accused of being undercover feminist lesbian when I get into my cautionary rants; the resistance usually comes from men who feel in threatening a reduction in their prospects/prey or women who believe they are more attractive than I am which makes my message […]

There’s Nothing Special About You!

      OK… When I tell women that they are not “special”, they’re offended but this is indubitably true. A woman stated to me that she was heart broken because her man left her for another white woman. “Another” meaning he was previously married to one before that wife passed away. 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 Well you […]