Stop Being A Fuk Buddy and Get Married!

Every two years or so, you are some new guy’s girlfriend.

Doesn’t that worry you? Doesn’t the thought of being some dude’s boy toy make you emotionally uneasy?

I mean granted, you’re having fun going out to eat, bar hopping maybe, decent frequency of sexual activity, but in the back of your mind, you know this has got to end cause theres no real commitment there.

The old folks call it “Playing House”, and that’s exactly what it is: A Game. You are in an imaginary existence with a man who hasn’t decided to truly commit ALL THE WAY.

But you are sacrificing time, your vagina and more than likely your money to buy the ILLUSION of a relationship he’s giving you.

Cam Newton and his Now EX GIRLFRIEND of 6 years..

Men will suck you dry: literally!

And they gave an uncanny ability to waste your time while maintaining imagery of forward movement. But you are boxed in as a girlfriend, unable to have an absolute say about your future and direction you would like to take the relationship.

Why?

Because you are there for a good time. You are there to warm his bed or distract him from the work self improvement IF your remain JUST his girlfriend.

I Know That Marriage Isn’t The Goal for every Woman BUT>>>>>

Now, I not a total prude here. I get that marriage isn’t every woman’s goal, but the women who say this are usually those who’s phone still rings for offers of sex or situationships or Zaddy trips etc… Yet and still, when they no longer have to put that iphone on silent cause the calls start to slow down or come to a screeching halt, THEN the thought of finding that ONE life partner starts to make practical sense.

GUYS DO HIT THE WALL TOO!

You don’t want to end up like a lot of these “Hit The Wall”-“After The FactHoes out here who can’t do nothin but peddle Level Up courses that don’t even work for them!

Give these “boyfriends” expiration dates to make a decision on pulling the trigger or not because being some dude’s girlfriend for 3-5-8 years with no end game insight, will cost YOU what he can’t pay you for: which is TIME!!

Beautiful Black Women in relationships

Salkis Re is an artist, writer and Self Esteem Coach for black women. You can find her unique art pieces here And visit her YOU TUBE channel for tips on surviving in a world that has very little love for black women.

What Ugly Women Need to Be!

When you were 16, you always had a guy sniffing around you.

There was a secret crush here, a nerd who gave you his allowance money there, the annoying boy who teased you constantly cause he liked you but didnt know how to say it!

“Blacky” Original Art by Salkis Re

There was this nerdy guy who was in love with me and I didn’t understand why.
He was part of the band club at school and he’d write songs for me and offered to walk me home from school.

As unpopular, unattractive, struggle hair buns my no frills having ass was, there was a guy willing to accept it and care for me regardless of my “un-refinement”.

Fast forward to today, and you are under the indoctrinate of talk like this and dress like that and don’t say this and don’t do that, act like this snd not like that, and its harder than ever for you to be “attractive” to the opposite sex.

Why Salkis?
Because your too invested in doing so.
Your too obsessed with what men think and feel. And you’ve allowed all the let-downs from the lack of attention to show on your face.

You don’t take care of yourself BECAUSE you dont see a point in doing so BECAUSE you don’t get the attention of men.

And that part has to change. You become infectious when truly like yourself, when you dont take yourself of anybody else so seriously. When you aren’t ashamed of who and what you are.

Self Esteem Coach,  Salkis Re

Unattractive women have to embody a “letting go” mentality. Stress isn’t your friend, but PASSION will make you MAGICAL…

What you HAVE to do is find that sweet spot between “Giving no fuks and Caring About Others”.

Ugly Girl.. Be childlike again. Fuk refinement and all the pretense and emotional trappings that only serve to reduce you into a masterbation tool.
BE the ESCAPE for people who desperately want to let their guard down.

Beautiful black women
Self Esteem Coach, Salkis Re

NEVER CONFORM.
Why?
Because you don’t fit in to begin with!🤸🏿‍♀️

“The Ugly Girl’s Ambassador”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re

Why Black Men and Women Don’t Love Each Other AnyMore..

How is he able to actualize his full potential in a world where his right to freedom and the pursuit of happiness cannot be realized outside of a womans crotch?Justified, yes! Justifiable, no!

Should We Stop Wearing Weaves?

“Everybody Wants to Look Better Than They Actually Are”
January 24, 2019 8:04 a.m.

Women wear WIGS to be more attractive, and Men wear 👉WOMEN to be more attractive..

Your Self Esteem Coach, Salkis Re


Everbody trying to look better than they actually are out here..

Shaming You is a Subjugation Tactic

I’ll tell you why Shaming women is so effective, it’s effective because we WANT to subjugated, we WANT to comply, we WANT to help, we WANT fairness.

And because we are by nature inclined to comply, these campaigns to make us feel worthless and nonsensical work because women are NOT negotiators.

I have never met a man yet who felt “shame” about what he liked have , be or do!! But women are put on blast accused of being unreasonable, impractical, delusional and emotionally unstable at every turn.

This is because men know that more times than not, we want give in, we’d rather have fairness than GET WHAT WE WANT..

Please stop taking men seriously


How Sway?

Please stop taking men seriously. It’s all a game, chess moves if you will. The way to get you to become a team player is by “leading” you and to lead you he has to show you that he knows what’s best for you.

He has to establish that his goals should be yours (this is what get you to open your legs for him before it safe or profitable to do so).

This is also why “showing” that you are smarter than him or 👉aggressively noncompliant is makes you unattractive in general to men..


Have your convictions and your boundaries set in STONE..

Your “Self Esteem Coach”

~Salkis Re

Fight Elegantly!

Decisions based solely on emotion NEVER stick.

You may be able to garner their pity and remorse for a little while,

but eventually that person goes back to his/her old ways after their emotions have settled back down,

This is why men feel sorry about about cheating when they get caught, and after the dust settles,

they are back out there at it again.

Black women are getting pimped out of their vaginas by everybody,

black men, white men, even other women

people generally do not change unless they experience some

tremendously emotional event that breaks the patterns within their nervous system.

Thick Locs

 

For the most part, we are all fixed as adults. Fixed in what we believe about ourselves,

how we perceive love, how we quantify our value.

Relationships are about the decision to share a life with someone as they are,

and with your love and encouragement,

you can “Influence” them to become “Improved” partners IFFFFFFFFFFF that is what HE desires to be…..

 

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Black women are emotionally exploited by everybody because our pathologies are well known and easy to recognize

while others enjoy living with the ambiguity of their depression and low self esteem whiling concealing

pharmaceutical remedies for their suicidal thoughts properly fitted garments, scantily clad pics or perfectly

coiffed hair that serve to disguise their emotional dysfunction.

 

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Our pathology includes the admiration and support of anybody who do not resemble ourselves,

and the admiration and support of people who mock, mimic and make fun of us.

We are enemies of each other perception based on “collective” biases that are based on propaganda and indoctrination.

 

Redeem yourself. Pull yourself up from the muck and Myer….

Divorce yourself from anything or anyone who’s opinions are self serving and decide that a

feeling is not a truth unless you start living in agreement with it,

and that goes for yourself or anyone else…

 

If you need to talk with me privately, find me HERE

 

Are You A PlaceHolder???

“Place Holders”
Written by Salkis Re
 
You think you fucked the shit outta him, yet he left you.
You think you are a dime piece, yet he left you.
You think you are the most intelligent woman he’s ever been with, yet he left you.
You think you are smarter than him, yet he left you.
You have a big ass, yet he left you.
You neck and chinned his dick till your throat was sore and snot ran out yuh nose, yet he left you.
You think you have manners and self respect, yet he left you.
You have a good paying job, yet he left.
You have a degree, yet he left you.
You didn’t have sex with him for 90 days, yet he still left
He never talked about sex, then you fucked him, and he still left you.
You have a tight pussy, yet he left you.
You look better than all his other girlfriends, yet he left you.
and on and on and on…
Lightskin black women
 
ALL of you’s on this list were/are PLACEHOLDERS.
A placeholder is a woman good enough for “now” or even a few years,
some of you are even married placeholders believe it or not!
And the gag is that all of the you’s on this list knew something wasn’t right.
You felt that something was wrong, you knew it!
 
You can regulate your pussy all day long, and it doesn’t cause you are not the “one” to begin with..
You claim you have preference, but men know you are liberal with your convictions, he’s banking on it.
 
You know what gets every woman caught into the net of PLACEHOLDER???
 

****FLATTERY******

 
Appealing to your vanity.
That knocks you off your throne EVERY FUCKING TIME!
What did I tell you before?
Without vanity, and appealing to your need to be validated through it, men have NO POWER OVER YOU..
He bends time, and dodges a lot of incidentals through flattering you.
He makes you feel like you are actually in a commitment,
that he actually has genuine feelings for you all through administering FLATTERY!
Lord help us if you feel he is handsome or better than you because of money or status our whatever,
then you’ll start making concessions in your boundaries in order to impress him!
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Be immoveable.
Be unshakable.
Be unimpressible.
Be unbothered.
Be self contained.
And just observe him like he is observing you.
DO not assume that anything being said, any show of affection, gifts or money is some actually show of true feelings.
Take your time.
DO not give u your vagina.
BE fabulous, cordial, and unapologetic about your personal magic…
Be different.
Be unafraid to show flaws.
Honor the value you have for yourself at all time,
and do not negotiate your morals..
Now go back and RECLAIM YOUR THRONE!!back queens
IF you need to talk to be privately, find me HERE
 
 

Sex Should Frighten you!

“Sex and Women”
Written by Salkis Re

Listen to me my little flowers. Women stay sweet the less men are inside of them.

This something not promoted because it doesn’t exploit our emotions and if our emotions aren’t exploited, no one makes money.

Sex is a death ritual.

Sex is a  “giving up” of your soul to another soul.

Sex is A sacrifice.

Sex is  A melding together of thoughts,

emotions,

feelings,

bacteria,

shyte,

puss, and sputum(saliva/phlegm) and all his Specters too.

Sex should FRIGHTEN every woman.

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But the technology of contraception has given us a false sense of fearlessness while it promotes reckless abandon.

But guess what hasn’t changed: Your feelings!

Technology has assisted in helping us as women ACT like men.

And so the bastard children come, no father’s to shield them, no protection and guidance from men.

Why?
Because we are no longer “afraid” of the consequences of sex.

Your body is a receiver and a recorder of everything that goes into it.

black women with locs
Life Coach/Artist ~Salkis Re

Sperm isn’t designed to be inside you.

Your body sends out white blood cells to “fight” the “infection” called “sperm” because it

sees it as a foreign bacteria that shouldn’t be there.

This is why you should pray before sex.
This why he should pray over you before sex.

This is why you should be Committed to each other before sex.
This is also why you should not over indulge in sex.
Love and Light
~Salkis Re

So Who Am I?

African American art
“Artist/Life Coach”
~Salkis Re

Well, Im a black woman.

A black woman who low self worth, low self esteem and self doubt for much of my life. I never felt like I belonged anywhere, well at least anywhere I wanted to be. So I adopted an aggressive, over sensitive attitude to protect myself from being hurt by people. I tried to do things to face like skin bleaching and severe weight loss diets in hopes of transforming myself into a gorgeous woman entitled to respect and love.

I did so many things under the guise of self improvement and ended up damaging by physical body while creating more to hate about myself.

I’ve learned a lot along the way to self efficacy.  And it didn’t come from new make up techniques or having longer hair.

It really came from facing my demons and all the repetitive dialog I had in my head about my self worth.

In my awakening, a heightened level of creativity emerged.black artists

A new level of femininity and my own brand of sensuality came to the surface too.

I want to show you how to accept who you are, TOTALLY and open the flood gates to your own authentic, wild, unconventional representation of your best self. FLAWS AND ALL.

If that sounds like something that you want, please give me a shout by email: salkis@iloveherart.com

Or if you are ready to take the chance and take a plunge, book a session HERE

“Virtuous Women Get No Love”

 

Beautiful Black Women
Life Coach\Artist ~Salkis Re

 

There are many women that have morals and values,

who are ready and willing to be the subordinate for a strong man,

but often times, she does not come packaged in vanity.

The virtuous woman often times will come in a thrifty, plain looking package,

not the TROPHY woman men are often in pursuit of.

But she will cook for you,

have sex when and how you want it, take care of your children and do as you say.

BUT YOU WILL OVERLOOK HER***

You men do not want THAT woman. You say you do, but you don’t.

You want that women who does NOT want you, it’s called the “hunt” isn’t it?

So you men look for women who are better looking than you,

and those women are looking for men who are better than them.

And you spin around in your hamster wheel asking why did she do this,

or how could she do that.
Why?

Because she NEVER wanted you in the first place, that’s why.
So it’s wrong from the start,

but the nature of man is to care more about what they do NOT have over what they DO have…

“The Black Hat Society”
Life Coach/Artist/Medicine Woman
Salkis Re

Why is Everybody Single??

Women with locs
Artist/Life Coach/Medicine Woman ~Salkis Re

MOST men, no matter what age they are, want “physically” young looking women and he would be a jackpot winner if he gets a woman who is young with her own money.

Lllllllmmao! But the issue with that is that if she is young and attractive and has her own coins, she can hold out for a man who is better looking than you, who fucks better than you, who makes enough money to “handle” everything she wants and needs.

And this is why people are single!
Everybody is scouting for a partner who is better than themselves in looks or money, and if you luck up on someone who IS better than you yet wants to be with you, trust that SHE/HE is “ALWAYS MENTALLY or PHYSICALLY SHOPPING” meaning she/he is with you yet open/motivated to finding a “better” replacement.

And why is this?
Because you are a “charity case”, not a boyfriend/girlfriend they fear of losing.
Chasing women/men out of your league gets you ALL OF THAT!

So when you are seeking the “best” partner, the perfect fit, be careful that you are not signing yourself up to be a beast of burden.

And ladies,
If a man is “better” than you, you mustn’t substantiate that claim by displaying insecurity, emotional neediness, and a total disregard of your own self interests or you WILL be dragged through the mud.
Carry on…

“Black Hat Society”
Artist/Life Coach/Medicine Woman
~Salkis Re