Why You Need to Be Different!

It Must be emotionally exhausting carrying around feelings of self doubt of your low self worth every day of your life right? You wake up unexcited, barely looking at yourself in the mirror and if you do, you grimmace with dissapointment at your reflection!Day in, day out, the same secret sentiments of self loathe and […]

How To Love You!

Self Love is a Relationship With Your Body Sitting at my desk with my yoga gear on, all prepped for my home yin yoga session and I’m thinking about why I am doing this. I workout, eat right and stay of ┬átrouble because that is the way I express love for myself. I have come […]

Why Women Stay With Bad Men!

Someone “made” you feel ugly? Some “made” you feel insecure? Someone “made” your worthless? All he did was express how he felt about you.. He gave you his perspective and packaged it with a sales pitch. He habitually stated that pitch until your resistance withered away. Why didn’t you defend yourself? Why didn’t YOU walk […]

3 Ways That Your Emotional Dysfunction Took Form!!

When you are born, then what you call your ‘family”
starts working on your self esteem, destroying your confidence,
shaming your tastes in food or clothing,
telling you that you look funny or flat out unattractive.

Dark Skin Women Get No Love From Dark Skin Men???

One of my viewers made a comment on my “Are Dark Skin Men The Enemy” I did that video because Sooooooo many dark skin women have sentiments of struggle and trauma around getting a dark skin man want her or keeping the relationship positive and respectful. She Stated: “I was told by a Light Skin […]

5 Emotional Issues that Happen When Fall in Love

Learn why you feel so got darn awful when you fall in love with a man and how to not become a desperate lunatic who’s crazy about a guy..

Dating Outside Your Race Black Women?

I could join you picket line…but I won’t because part of the blame, well most of it was my doing, for I chose to give men who I knew were not interest in me a chance. I knew that the guys I LIKED didn’t really like me, but I hadn’t any concrete “evidence” to substantiate […]

Butt Ugly Beauties

Awwww. Listen Linda, Listen!! I know what it feels like, what it be like to dance with self doubt. Everywhere you turn, there is another thing you NEED because somebody is saying that you have look better than what you are in order to compete with… well don’t even damn know!! SO we buy the […]

“Label Makers, Label Breakers”

Written by Salkis Re Self esteem challenges can happen in people who are attractive, in people with higher IQs, in people with money, in people who are religious etc. You’d be surprised at the type of people who really emotionally fragile out here. Don’t let appearances fool you… I remember a “Guy Friday” I had […]

Fight Elegantly!

Decisions based solely on emotion NEVER stick. You may be able to garner their pity and remorse for a little while, but eventually that person goes back to his/her old ways after their emotions have settled back down, This is why men feel sorry about about cheating when they get caught, and after the dust […]