Why Is It So Easy to Con Women?

Criticism leads to a need for one to defend her position. Whether it’s right or wrong is not as important as feeling demeaned by another person. This is why it’s so effective to just tell you what you want to hear. Make it sounds supportive, beef it up with praise and your “Wulls” come tumbling […]

How Not to Influence People

You Can’t Get to Freedom by thinking that Life is Journey***Only poor, undisciplined, insecure people talk that nonsense about a journey!

Why You Need to Be Different!

It Must be emotionally exhausting carrying around feelings of self doubt of your low self worth every day of your life right? You wake up unexcited, barely looking at yourself in the mirror and if you do, you grimmace with dissapointment at your reflection!Day in, day out, the same secret sentiments of self loathe and […]

DO You Feel Threatened?

          Every choice has a bit of risk. Every choice as an element of suffering involved in it.. But there is a difference between THREAT and a CHALLENGE.    Having challenges is a nutritional requirement to be challenged in life. I tell all my clients/collectors that  having challenges is a nutritional […]

Go to The Gym!

Self care supports your desires. Self care makes you feel good about who you are. Self care is a soup of oily habits that can also seal your fate! But I am not talking about soaking in a bubble bath or eating some calorically dense powdered donut. I am talking doing what I’m about to […]

You Are Ugly SO There is No Hope For You????

She states: Men love fantasy and illusion. Look at your sports, strippers, video games. They fantasy bombshell type women If a man can’t get past how you look, you’re going to have the least. Men are visual and that will not change any time soon.     My Response: Fantasy is make believe. So is […]

How To Love You!

Self Love is a Relationship With Your Body Sitting at my desk with my yoga gear on, all prepped for my home yin yoga session and I’m thinking about why I am doing this. I workout, eat right and stay of  trouble because that is the way I express love for myself. I have come […]

Why Women Stay With Bad Men!

Someone “made” you feel ugly? Some “made” you feel insecure? Someone “made” your worthless? All he did was express how he felt about you.. He gave you his perspective and packaged it with a sales pitch. He habitually stated that pitch until your resistance withered away. Why didn’t you defend yourself? Why didn’t YOU walk […]

The One Way to a Healthy Lifestyle

    Doing what you don’t want to do is usually the best thing that you should do.. This is how life goes. All the pleasurable things cause tummy aches, unnecessary loses, lies, betrayal and hardships… I have been talking about simplification for weeks now, and I guess this will be the theme for the […]

Black Women Dating Sites

If I could shake the degradation out of you, I would gladly do it. But this is something you have to feel inside of you. You have to be tired of being lied to, tired of being led to create frivolous personas based on pageantry and not any real substance.