Sexual energy is about -energy- not so much about intentionally looking sexy. And the truth that some of are trying so hard to look sexy that it reads like desperation instead of attractiveness.
Eye contact can transmit sexual energy, so can your scent, how you walk and how you talk..
Does proper hip to waist ratio help: of course.
But if you do not posses this it does not mean you are out the game.
A few things that will boost your sex appeal:
Ditch the -beat face- for a fresh face look.. When you wear excessive amounts of makeup you hide your natural beauty which is your fertility.
Working out will change your body composition but more importantly it will regulate your hormones. It helps to keep you emotionally grounded and it should be seen as a self honoring ritual rather than torture.
Ditch the Sugar.
Eating process sugar causes cellular death. It dries out the skin and causes it to thin and sag. It dries out the vagina too. Depression and food are linked and sugar causes you to lose mental focus and invites hallucinations like depression and boredom when your blood sugar crashes after the high.
Wash your Vagina:
A stink vagina can cause a lack of confidence too.👀 If you open your legs and it smells like tilapia and hot blue cheese, you need to douche that playground and go on a dik diet. Diks make the vagina itch and smell, so if you are fuccing several men at the same time, I know your puwsy smells like a butcher’s box. Stop believing these hoes who tell you that you are “winning” when you can get a nut from men who don’t even really like you. ISSA LIE!
Don’t be Afraid of Men!
STOP taking men so seriously too. Men are scared of being hurt and wished they didn’t have that bell pepper nose or that dark skin just like you.👀
Some wish they had more money or bigger diks but they manage to still feel entitled even with the shyte load of flaws they posses.
Understand that they want something from you, and work out what your exchange rate is- i.e. marriage/money/girlfriend/lover etc..
And I need for you to resist the conditioning of “pricing” yourself as a supposed negative concept.
Everyone around you is judging your worth.
It may be based on how you look, or you talents and intelligence, but everybody is “adding you up”.
From your employer to your boyfriend, everyone is quantifying and making assessments about your value.
SO you need to have a number in your head that you’ve reached through introspection and self evaluation.
If you feed people nourishing food from scratch, that’s worth SUMthing.
If you are extremely efficient and conscientious, that’s worth SUMthing.
If you are a healer and generous, that is worth SUMthing.
What is your worth black woman?
“The Ugly Girl’s Ambassador”
Salkis Re is an artist, author, poet, relationship expert, Pirate, Life Coach and the founder of The Ugly Girl’s Club
When she is slapping paint on a canvas, she’s helping women across the globe heal emotionally from toxic relationships and societal conditioning.. Visit her art site too iLoveHerArt.com