How Not to Give a Shit! Oops! Did I Just Swear??
If you could get this one thing together, I mean this would blow this need to people please to smithereens, and
You’d have what you want out a life!
Validation and acceptance from the “tribe” was once a survival requirement.
You could have been ran out a town or burned at the stake if the important folk in your town thought you were a lunatic.
And your DNA is wired for tribal approval, which means that your brain is still operating in the vein
of “I need a group to love me so that I will gave food, protection and shelter”.
But those hunter gatherer days are long gone and you have to bribe your own mother to watch your children overnight.
You are alone…
(I get so excited saying this)
Because it means you are also FREE.
- Free to be what you want.
- Free to do what you want.
- Free to have what you want.
[No tribe is gonna run you outa town for being whomever you’ve chosen to be.]
You must get this in your thick skull!
And the irony today is this: people prefer to be around people who have a strong identity.
People latch onto self aware people like white on rice!**
So you wouldn’t be alone even if you tried because you being you will also attract others who are looking for people that they too can be themselves with.
It’s a Win-Win situation my darling..
So today’s Mantra is:
The rescue I want to see is
In me being me.
Like this “makes all the sense in the world approach”? Then if you haven’t gotten a copy of my latest E-Book, I think you should start there. If you are ready to work with me, then go here.
I’m in the mist of restructuring my coaching program and it will definitely be out of reach for many people.
I’m being more selective in who I work with so you’d want to get in before the change happens to qualify for special goodies I have planned for my loyalists. Hehe
Queen Bee, Salkis Re