How to Use Men!!

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Art by Salkis Re

“I want to get to know you.”
That’s the first thing that he says..
And you get all giddy.
Thinking that you are being honored because a man wants to “know” you.
Well you should abhor it or at least be cautious.
No. Funk that!
I’m not going to coddle you.
You Should be against familiarity of any kind!
His knowledge of YOU is not beneficial for YOU.
“You’re Two-faced.”
I think that’s what it’s called.
A phrase meant to insult and defame you,
yet it be a character trait that keeps your protective fence electrified!
I told you that authenticity is overrated.
You expose every wound to bloody hounds,
and then cry when they bite you.
This is the residue of “knowledge“, of “knowing” Alllll about you.
So what should you do?
Stop blending and mixing and stirring and kneading every part of you together.
Gather up the council in your head and assign them duties that do not cross pollinate each other.
Be a total bitch when the circumstances call for it.
Be a mother when it it she required.
Be a lover when you want passion.
Be a wife to be secure your future.
Be a healer to protect your interests.
Be what is necessary for the appropriate time,
for the appropriate situation, and most importantly,
for the appropriate recipient… .
๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ
“The Black Hat Society”
“Mistress of Words”
“Medicine Woman”
“Artist”
“Life Coach”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re
website: www.iloveherart.com

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Wishing You Were Someone Else?

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Art by Salkis Re

When you start every day and end every day thinking about the grass being greener on the other side, what is your body supposed to do with that?

You think your thoughts just dissipates after you forget what you’ve thought?

How?

How can is dissolve when your actions and the words coming out of your mouth are all carefully crafted to be in congruence with what you feel?!

Words are food just like a piece of broccoli or an apple.

Words get ingested just like any meal that touches your lips, and it can, like any food, either nourish your body or poison it.

You have to understand that you are casting spells continuously with your thoughts, and the knowledge of that fact should invite you to take inventory of what you are saying to yourself on an ongoing basis.

You wanting to be other than you are, is a result of self neglect. You thinking that you are not enough means that you have too much time on your hands.

Too much time to think about the wrong thing.

And that thinking will cripple you eventually.

It is time to consider you tonque to be your personal draftsman, the Grand Architect if you will.

Why?

Because it’s your mouth that solidifies the thoughts of your mind, for it pulls your thought out of the ethers and into the physical realm.

And once it’s made a word, YOU WILL RESPOND to it.

That’s how prayer works doesn’t it?

Do you not believe in an insult?

Have you not been hurt by the arrangement of words accompanied by strong emotion before.

What you say to others can hurt or heal them, and so it be with you also my darling..

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“Mistress of Words”African American museum

“Spiritual Healer”

“Medicine Woman”

“Black Hat Society”

~Salkis Re

 

You Got That Hotep-itis?

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“Spiritual Advisor and Artist”: Salkis Re

 

“Eeeeewhew, You Got That Hotep-itis ”
Written by Salkis Re

I would like to say something about love in your image and after your likeness. Sisters are still getting baited in by this “love my black sister shyte” All a black man has to tell you is that he loves your hair and your skin tone, and 90 percent of his “show and prove” to get into your crotch is complete??
๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ
I hear that shit all the time: “I love you hair Queen” And this is what I say: Oh! Is that right!
Because it’s of no consequence me if they love it or not, but they make it a point because they feel we need validation and “upliftment” and their emotional support to feel good about ourselves.
๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ

And the trap begins…

 

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“Is This What You Want?” Art by Salkis Re

Superficial matters(how things LOOK) will ALWAYS be contrary to what they really are. And you should NOT judge a book by it’s cover! Nappy hair and dark skin = low maintenance and low expectations.
You can romanticize about how these men revere you because you LOOK like you are more connected to Mother Earth, but the fact is that you are (to them) ๐Ÿค”Low Hanging Fruit my dear, and by low hanging fruit, I mean EASY pickings. You want out of the white man’s system to sleep in a tent and apples all day? That’s the dream these hoteps are selling you while they have YOU begging for TAX PAYER money from your family members and others who have jobs??

So better for you to be a naked beggar than use your ability to prosper?

And when your ambition is taken away, so is your expectations and your boundaries fall away too then BAM! All you are made for is to fuck and Suck all day all.

 

His NUT is coming sure and strong because you let him psycho babble you out your fucking panties.

๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ

Get over this need to direction from men who want to fuck you!! You can read just like he can, and if you don’t understand something, you don’t need to fuck him to get understanding!! Follow?

๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ
“Haul and Pull Up” like Dem Jamaicans does say!
๐ŸŒผ”Black Hat Society”

Pretty Dark Skin Women
Self Esteem Coach
-Salkis Re

๐ŸŒผ”Spiritual Advisor for Hire”
๐ŸŒผ”Medicine Woman for Healing”
๐ŸŒผ”Mistress of Words for Spells”
๐ŸŒผ”Black Girl Magic for Life”
๐ŸŒผ”ARTIST”
~Salkis Re
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