How to Use Men!!

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Art by Salkis Re

“I want to get to know you.”
That’s the first thing that he says..
And you get all giddy.
Thinking that you are being honored because a man wants to “know” you.
Well you should abhor it or at least be cautious.
No. Funk that!
I’m not going to coddle you.
You Should be against familiarity of any kind!
His knowledge of YOU is not beneficial for YOU.
“You’re Two-faced.”
I think that’s what it’s called.
A phrase meant to insult and defame you,
yet it be a character trait that keeps your protective fence electrified!
I told you that authenticity is overrated.
You expose every wound to bloody hounds,
and then cry when they bite you.
This is the residue of “knowledge“, of “knowing” Alllll about you.
So what should you do?
Stop blending and mixing and stirring and kneading every part of you together.
Gather up the council in your head and assign them duties that do not cross pollinate each other.
Be a total bitch when the circumstances call for it.
Be a mother when it it she required.
Be a lover when you want passion.
Be a wife to be secure your future.
Be a healer to protect your interests.
Be what is necessary for the appropriate time,
for the appropriate situation, and most importantly,
for the appropriate recipient… .
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“Mistress of Words”
“Medicine Woman”
“Artist”
“Life Coach”
~Salkis Re
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This is Your Dream Killer

 

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“The Humans”   Art by Salkis Re

 

“The Dream Killer Is..”

Taking control of a thing is not a passive protocol. Some of you are “waiting” for something to fall out the sky, for the great Conjunction, a shooting star, waiting on Jesus, or the Pleadians to come for you, or some shamanic rites of passage to give you ceremony to trick you into moving your arse.

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How to Stop the Disease to Please!

Pretty Dark Skin Women
Self Esteem Coach
-Salkis Re

How Not to Give a Shit! Oops! Did I Just Swear??

 

If you could get this one thing together, I mean this would blow this need to people please to smithereens, and
You’d have what you want out a life!

Validation and acceptance from the “tribe” was once a survival requirement.
You could have been ran out a town or burned at the stake if the important folk in your town thought you were a lunatic.

And your DNA is wired for tribal approval, which means that your brain is still operating in the vein
of “I need a group to love me so that I will gave food, protection and shelter”.
But those hunter gatherer days are long gone and you have to bribe your own mother to watch your children overnight.

You are alone…

(I get so excited saying this)
Why?
Because it means you are also FREE.

  • Free to be what you want.
  • Free to do what you want.
  • Free to have what you want.

[No tribe is gonna run you outa town for being whomever you’ve chosen to be.]

You must get this in your thick skull!
And the irony today is this: people prefer to be around people who have a strong identity.

People latch onto self aware people like white on rice!**
So you wouldn’t be alone even if you tried because you being you will also attract others who are looking for people that they too can be themselves with.
It’s a Win-Win situation my darling..

So today’s Mantra is:

The rescue I want to see is
In me being me.

Like this “makes all the sense in the world approach”? Then if you haven’t gotten a copy of my latest E-Book, I think you should start there. If you are ready to work with me, then go here.
I’m in the mist of restructuring my coaching program and it will definitely be out of reach for many people.

I’m being more selective in who I work with so you’d want to get in before the change happens to qualify for special goodies I have planned for my loyalists. Hehe

Queen Bee, Salkis Re