It’s a harsh but liberating reality when you’ve reached the conclusion that everything in this society is based on a lie..
It should relieve you actually.
The lie, I mean.
Because you are fearful because you believe the marketing campaigns and the propaganda of narcissists and psychopaths and the machine called “Our Society” when their ONE GOAL is to convince you that you aren’t good enough.
People spend a lot of money to manufacture your low self esteem.
A lot of what appears to be God’s Chosen are afforded to opportunity to find out the best ways in which to control your behavior, your thoughts, your creativity, your income, your style, your morals etc…
No stone is left unturned..
The Mark of the Beast is already on every persons head..
You thought it would be a cattle brand when its the phone in your hand, when its you job, when its the food you eat and who you marry..
You take back control by taking control of your emotions. You get a hold of your mind by examining your choices and what is inspiring you to make them.
Full examination of who and what you are..
Who AM I?
I am an Ugly Girl who paints beautiful girls while helping women feel better about themselves
Early rising helps bye think about the message I want to convey.
So I thought about.
And this post came to mind because of an exchange I had about relationships with a man on my facebook page
Men LOVE to tell a woman what to think..
To them, we all have the mentality of a 10 year girl who needs to be taught what to feel and what to think..
When you start trusting yourself, your own wisdom that your experiences have taught you, your eyes will become WIDE OPEN to the fallibilities of men.
Your insecurities and self doubt are how men get their needs met for little to no cost, for their mission (not all but most) is to either become the source of your confidence or knock you down a peg or two if you come equip with your own self governance…
Ok so apparently, these MGTOW men are learning terms to shame and devalue women. One in particular is “women over 40 hitting a wall”, and it means that she is “stuck” because her sexual market value is on the decline.
Let me tell you ladies something, you are going to have to burst these men’s bubbles in a “ladylike” manner.
Too many of them feel they have the right to berate your value/looks and take pleasure in doing so.
And you have remained tactful and sensitive to their feelings your entire life just for these fools to call you old and worthless??
I’m sure in your love life, you’ve given ugly men a chance,
I’m almost sure that the majority of men you’ve slept with were NOT better looking than YOU!
I’m sure that many of your sexual encounters were only worth anything because YOU knew how to bring YOURSELF to orgasm.
And you let these second rate, fifth rate mudducks set the stage for you to question your worth???
You’d better thing again!. You better scan them for flaws IMMEDIATELY when a man pursues you. And tell him that he’s too short; or his nose is to big for his face; or that his hands are smaller than yours; or that his mother should have made his slew-footed ass wear corrective shoes as a kid; or ask him how it feels to be able to see his peenus cause his gut is in the way; or that he needs more testosterone for that “struggle beard” to grow; or that his “peenus” is “just average” or below average in size AT BEST.
Long gone are the days for which you could “gingerly imply” dissatisfaction. These men nowadays are be coached by disgruntled, miserable, blue pill popping, lonely ass men to treat women like shyte because we are looking to “level up”. You have get over or should I say “cure yourself” of any idealism you have around romantic relationships and the ACTUAL value that a man can bring to your life.
Do NOT entertain emotional manipulation AT ALL!!!!
And that usually starts with them expressing what they feel about how you look, then he will call you insecure if you reject his sexual advances and cautious nature, and all this is done for you to doubt your VALUE, arrest your MORALS so that you can OPEN you legs to HIM..
These men have to know from day one that you are unbothered, relaxed, USE to *excellent treatment and hard to impress! Whether it’s a lie or not is FORKING irrelevant! You have to show “privilege”, mentally, physically and emotionally. When you are over 40 the dream is OVER: Let the GAMES begin..
Had a coaching session yesterday with an older woman who’s recently come back into the dating scene. She was very proud of her accomplishments financially and the fact that she “didn’t need a man”.
Unfortunately though, all that 😏 pride didn’t amount to a hill of beans when it came to her relationship with her boyfriend. Your *financial Independence doesn’t make you immune to disregard, complacency and disrespect in a *romantic relationship. You could be a waitress at Waffle House and display living in subsidized housing and still be Independent. You have all the money, but you’re still the grovelling and begging and beseeching him for quality time, sex and basic consideration.
Your bank statement can’t disguise your lack of 😯 emotional Independence 🙄 and this is why you can *make it rain for his ass and he spends YOUR money on a girl that grounded with standards that require him to either piss or get off the pot.
I’m hearing this story too often, and I’m telling you that it hurts you in the long run cause he’ll eventually see that you are only on point when it comes to your money, nothing else.
“Mistress of Words”