“Marrying Poor Men”
Written by Salkis Re
“Poor men” CAN’T provide anything, so they shouldn’t get married but they do.
The only purpose marriage has is share and protect current and future assets.
Now the truth is that the EMOTION of Love does not need marriage for validation
because most people can express the feeling of love without a license from the court system.
Marriage is simply the business aspect that creates the Commitment/non-emotional gesture
of a willingness to shoulder financial loss should the partner die or wake up one morning and say they don’t want you no more.
Time is MONEY.
Time is an INVESTMENT in itself. Marriage is a contract to exchange wealth between two people who enjoy sex and spending time with each other.
The “What You Bring to the Table” part…
Let me be clear here, I’m not saying that a woman should just be a pretty dimwit and nothing more.
I’m saying that the bring to the table” question directed towards her should be focused on the
nurturing aspect that every woman is capable of bringing if she is incentivized to do so.
Most women that work “hard” DO NOT want to work hard, and they would prefer alpha men who can fully finance her wants and needs.
An occupation doesn’t give you an IDENTITY, it gives you a CHECK.
What you are able to do without needing to be paid for it is more of an expression of identity.
Women don’t want “Independence/HARD WORK”, we simply do not want to be ABUSED because we depend on MEN.
Education is still important because intelligence is required whether you are raising children or in a corporate job.
The last half of life is going to look real ugly for many of us.
We make decisions based on “current options” instead of the 5-10-20 years down the line that sure like the air you breath COMING.
So the “struggle love” who’s narrative always seems to find it’s way to our compassionate hearts
. We always got to be grateful for the opportunity to struggle with black men.
No other woman, not white, not Indian not none of them
have exclusive terminology to emotionally express this ideal like US.
That “Ride or Die” shyte!
The fact that you are willing to endure SUFFERING and infidelity,
and mistreatment of every sort makes you a suitable candidate for respect and honor and Marriage???
You better think about that one again…
“Black Hat Wisdom”
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