Early rising helps bye think about the message I want to convey.
So I thought about.
And this post came to mind because of an exchange I had about relationships with a man on my facebook page
Men LOVE to tell a woman what to think..
To them, we all have the mentality of a 10 year girl who needs to be taught what to feel and what to think..
When you start trusting yourself, your own wisdom that your experiences have taught you, your eyes will become WIDE OPEN to the fallibilities of men.
Your insecurities and self doubt are how men get their needs met for little to no cost, for their mission (not all but most) is to either become the source of your confidence or knock you down a peg or two if you come equip with your own self governance…
The weekend is almost here. Another week gone with tasks incomplete and more to hope to accomplish than anything actually done.
It’s easy not to try, but its cost will steal currency throughout your entire life. Not trying means that nobody gets hurt, no one suffers disappoint or the shame that comes from failing, but what also doesn’t happen is that you never get to experience what you could have become. You then live out your days in the shadow of quiet agony over what might have been.
Not trying is a the purchase of certain failure, it’s a sort death really, which is what surpression gifts you. Life is hard but it’s exciting too, and it becomes quite the game that it really is when you approach it as no big deal.
You lose, so what.
You gain, so what.
You keep moving at all costs, testing and stretching your abilities. This is ALL that life is about: trial and error.
Get out of your own way and fly my darling. Fall on your face just like a child first learning to walk. Don’t be ashamed to learn from your lessons, for this is how wisdom is obtained.
When they tell you that you can’t, don’t believe it. You must stretch past their doubts so you can see it.
And know that how people feel is not your fault,
so don’t spend time worrying about what they have thought.
You must learn that your value is a matter of what you say,
because society has convinced us to be proud of how much we have to pay.
And you have the right to dictate exactly what you are worth,
but you have to understand that it starts with you becoming self-assured.
I know this because I was unsure for most of my entire life.
Wondering why my kindness never afforded me very many likes.
Then I released my responsibility for other’s emotions,
and turned inward to build control in what I have control over.