Why Aren’t You Winning in Life?

African Abstract Art
“To Be Brown” Oil Painting BY Salkis Re

Why Cant You Win?

Little Black Girl, why do you feel like you can’t win?

Was it your mommy who told you that you were no intelligent enough to win?

Was it your father’s indifference about soending time with you?

Was it your pretended to be your friend just to play with your toys?

Was it the teacher who was to impatient to help you understand the math equations so you could pass the test?


Was It Your First Love?

Was it your first love who only held your hand when no one was looking because he only want to give you attention to have access to your body?

Was it the employer at work who berates you in front of your colleagues even though you work harder than the rest?

Justification for divesting from life is abundant for you, but will it serve a purpose that benefits you in the end?


Can I Love On You?

Can I say that I love you since your Momma didn’t say it?

Can I tell you that i will protect you since your Father didn’t do it?

Can I say that I care about you since your Boyfriend never meant it?

Can I say that you have my loyalty since your Friends have never been it?


I need you to come play with me
Let’s dance and dream again.
Let’s create our reality like we did with mud pies and tea parties and catching fireflies…

Recreate Yourself today!

“Self Esteem Coach”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re
Paintong: “To Be Brown”

Trumpty Dumpty

We are in a time right now that includes a lot of tension and stress,but i invite you to consider that society is a nothing more than a stage play,

but the bad part is that human beings are collateral damage to ego shrug.

Remain emotionally stable and do not submerge into the obyss of fearmongering.

Politics is theater.

And life is a stage.

So when you think you will look inauthentic if you decide to ahift and make a change in your own life, i invite you to consider your environment and all the ILLUSIONS you are fed on a daily basis that youve come to believe why FEELINGS loke something is off.

It’s all a choice at the end of the day.

Fear, hate, love.

All decisions.

I choose LOVE!!

What do you choose?

Why Our Black Men Date Outside

He said that he’s tired of hearing from black women “But Your Momma is Black” when he dates out because most black women are hoes and tricks anyway.

His advice: Stopping hating black men and love yourself!

My RESPONSE:

Was this suppose to be you showing support brother?
Cause it doesn’t read that way.
Yes black women do say “Your Momma Black”. And why does she say this?

Because she knows that her womb created you and to see you in the arms of other than self and kind goes against natural law.

We Push Our Men Into The White System

You are in the white man’s system and you are conditioned to seek what he has and the black woman pushes you to do so (at her own expense). And then she watches you get exploited and used by the white women within the environment that she encourages you to strive for.

A “No Good Woman” is created through the emotional schooling she gets from wounded men! And this is why SHE has to be meticulous in who she chooses because a relationship builds her CHARACTER or ALTERS it depend on who’s sperm she’s ingesting.

But MEN have minds and understanding here too.

Your momma might not have been shyte to you, but the black women you barrel through as penance for the lack of nurturing you received didn’t deserve your intent for retribution either.

You bring Bad Karma to Your Own Daughters

You men bring bad karma to your own daughter’s with the abuse you bring to women. And you think fukking around with someone else’s daughter won’t affect your own and I’m here to tell YOU that nature doesn’t work that way.
You keep that in mind when you’re tossing salads and making more baby mommas out here.🤘🏿
PERIODT!

“The Ugly Girl’s Ambassador”
~Salkis Re

Do Not Have Sex!

Sex Deteriorates A Woman’s Body

The some total of what I’ve studied on intimate relationships with men is that they is a HIGH probably of mental and physical deterioration involved with romanctic mating.

Your body is NEVER the same after starting sexual intercourse, niether does it completely restore itself after childbirth. These are what i call “little deaths”.

Issues with hormones fluctuations, excess weight, depression, bloating bellies, heart disease, brain fog, fits of rage, eat disorders, stink vaginas, reproductive issues, low self esteem, loss of creativity and definite purpose can all be attributed to the trauma induced by improper mating.

This is why recreational sex should be forbidden altogether.

Say what??
You lame Selkis, Sarkis, Sulkus Salukus!👀

Transmute Sexual Energy Instead

Sex drains our life force energy, causes premature aging, disease etc…

Feminine vitality comes withholding sex and transmuting that energy towards other aspects of her feminine essence.

Women Who Have Frequent Sex Look Drained

Women who have a lot of sex, have a certain look.

They talk fast.

Never quite content with anything.
Nervous energy.

You talk to her and you can sense that she isn’t present.

Always “acting”, never genuine engagement.

Need constant stimulation and attention.

Manipulate others for personal gain.

Don’t Even Sleep With Your Husband Too Much

It is better for a woman’s physical wellbeing to sleep with one man and NOT to even sleep with him too frequently so that you maintain optimal health.

How You Doin!?👀

“Self Esteem Coach”
“Artist”
“Author”
“Poet”
And founder of: “The Ugly Girls Club”
~Salkis Re

Need to talk?

Email me at info@salkisre.com

Being a Hoe Is Better

You “love” or accept love based on how you perceive your own worth. Deciding NOT to identify with a culture or a race or dating outside your race is a irreality because when you look at your reflection, you are reminded of WHO YOU ARE.

Abandoning identity is something EASY to propagated to low value people or poor people to mitigate the internal struggle and shame about who they are.

A black man can date white women and still claim identity

A black man can date whomever he wants and still position himself as a voice for “his” people. He can rally people around eloquent speeches of racial injustice while enjoying a white wife and biracial offspring and his “brothers” will overlook it and won’t bat an eye.

He isn’t seen as trauma based dating like the black woman. But he also isn’t compelled to “act” different in any way because his choice to love is simply a “choice” independent of how he feels about himself.

👉🏿Yeah Right.

But how and why we choose mates isn’t seperate from our culture, our fears, our self image and trauma. You choose partners by the sum total of your experiences, good, bad, easy, tough etc..

We are sold on the virtue of emotional dependency

Women are always sold on the virtue of displaying a “personality” instead of who they are because our value is not in how secure we are,
it’s in how emotionally dependent (feminine) we can pretend to be while simultaneously pulling off an image of value/beauty ..

But The Mother represents customs and culture and morality of society. How and who you choose to reproduce with is a bank deposit into the quality of future generations. You pass that on to her children, and if the FEmale/M-Other abandons her scientific role as decision maker for who gets to pass on their genetics, the quality of offspring will diminish within our society as a WHOLE!

Women get caught up in the salesmanship of men

Women get caught up in the salesmanship of men because we need men to see us and DESIRE us in order to EXPERIENCE value and an identity.
This is why a woman can/does feel worthless when rejected by MEN.

But there was a time when this was NOT so, when vanity did not make YOU an emotional prisoner, when you were not underneath MEN.
And this isn’t a feminist “I hate men ” rant!

This is a Ringing of THE ALARM!!

  1. It’s the need to be desired that lands us in bed with men who do not care.
  2. It’s the need to be seen as valued that lands us in these labor and delivery rooms by ourselves.
  3. It’s the need to be identified through the eyes of men that has us casting our pearls to swine.

We have a responsibility that’s bigger than burden of being beautiful for men!

We have a responsibility that’s bigger than burden of being beautiful for men! And when you release yourself from FEARING men, from seeking their lust, you will begin to bloom as you will finally utilize the sun and rain that M-other Nature AS ALWAYS provided you!

GET UP!
“The Ugly Girl’s Ambassador”
~Salkis Re

The Ugly Girlfriend

Ugly Women are objectified by everybody

Ugly Women are objectified by everybody including lovers but especially your nothing ass friends who encourage you to wear shyte that don’t fit and funk for coins so that you can buy them free liquor.

2020 is the start of accepting the wissom and knowledge you’ve accumulated throughout your life.
No more second guessing intent when someone blatantly disrespects you under the guise of constructive criticism or “love“.

Only Value the Opinions You Ask For

The only opinion you should ever consider is the one you actually “ask” for or “PAY” for,
then take the rest as banter with 3 grains of salt.

2020 Is the year I’m dedicating to decreasing my hesitation with educating black, unattractive women about your pathologies and that of the women you are jealous of, intimidated by or fearful of.

A New Focus For 2020

I’m expanding my coaching skills for a SPECIFIC class of women, so GET READY for THE BLACK PILL.

Why?

Because objectification isn’t going to cure your self esteem. Neither is wearing a dress nor talking in a whisper going to make you look more feminine.

Sure, acting more feminine will assure you a “Stepford Wife” result, but intrinsic self worth, a relaxed mind, and self actualization won’t ever be realized when you are forking ACTING 24 hours a day..

You Won’t Marry A Millionaire

The truth is that You/we/us will mostly likely have to create your own millions before you find a millionaire who wants to participate in anything more than fetish Mami Sex with you, and I’m NOT just talking about white men here either!👀

I’m moving FULL COURT PRESS with The Ugly Girl’s Club for 2020!
GET UP!!!

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You want me to write a post about a particular topic?

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Then send your thoughts to: info@salkisre.com

Why Black Men and Women Don’t Love Each Other AnyMore..

How is he able to actualize his full potential in a world where his right to freedom and the pursuit of happiness cannot be realized outside of a womans crotch?Justified, yes! Justifiable, no!

Jason Pope Black Girl Pimpin

Jason Pope

White Guy Lures Black Women for Sex

This news story came across my newsfeed on facebook two days ago.

Apparently this white man Jason Pope, also known as DJ KID, has been enticing black women and minors to have sex with him in exchange for concert tickets and other medial trinkets for years.

He is an accused pedophile who has been rumored to have exposed over 600 black women to HIV also.

What’s more is that he has been arrested and charged with sex trafficking minors and has a non sexually related criminal history going all the way back to 1995.

Jason Pope
Jason Pope, Aka DJ KID

 

He BlackMailed One of His Victims

He had blackmailed an underage victim in 2017 and pressured her into performing sex acts after she left him for two weeks.

He then proceeded to trash her all over social media when he couldn’t get her to comply.

Six months later, this same victim’s mother alerted deputies that Pope was luring girls for sex off of Facebook and Snapchat by promising prizes..

So apparently this creep would pay these girls for sex then talk about the experience on social media to entertain his followers.

 

 

Dark Skin Women, Unloved Everywhere

I think what disturbs me the most about this is that he strategically targeted dark skin black girls 

and women to solicit sex for money.

Every picture I’ve seen to date with this criminal has been in the arms of a dark skin black woman.

Reading and viewing the commentary about the pictures, I’ve heard these women described as “Duties”, Section 8 Recipients and Monkeys for the most part.

Jason Pope

Speaking as a Dark skin black woman myself, I know all too well the underlying bias and prejudice that society has for us. We are the rejects even amongst our own people, the throwaways of society if you will.

And I warn black women to stop sexualizing themselves and making themselves agreeable and available to men for pleasure or a few coins.

When you are considered unattractive, there’s no moral instinct in a man to not want to harm you.

And that is the cold, hard, facts of life.

 

 

Leave Vanity ALONE

The women I coach get an earful of that medicine because I want them to be aware and prepared emotionally so that they can resist the emotional mind f*(k  people, BOTH MALE AND FEMALE with play on them.

Dark skin women are always used for sexploitation because we are like animals to men in our society whether they are white OR black.

 

And this is why I telling all my black Doves, my clients, to LEAVE VANITY ALONE.

Women end up in the arms of men like this fool because you are seeking validation and a sense of self worth that you feel only a man can give you.

You want to be wanted, even if it’s only for sex.

And the temporary affection you get during the sex act satisfies a need to feel loved. But it also puts you in harms way. You can destroy your life while chasing a fantasy. And the sorrowful part about many of us ark skin women is that we turn to sexual freedom experience worthiness and the only attention many of us get is sexual attention.

It’s a GAME, and men will play with you LIFE if you let them.

Don’t give any man the authority to affirm you, to upgrade you, to give you an identity.

Your life is your responsibility. Clean it it. Clean yourself of the filthy thoughts of low self worth through RIGHT ACTION.

 

 

Salkis Re is an artist, author, poet, relationship expert, CowGirl, Life Coach and the founder of The Ugly Girl’s Club

When she is slapping paint on a canvas, she’s helping women across the globe heal emotionally from toxic relationships and societal conditioning.. Visit her art site too iLoveHerArt.com

Should We Stop Wearing Weaves?

“Everybody Wants to Look Better Than They Actually Are”
January 24, 2019 8:04 a.m.

Women wear WIGS to be more attractive, and Men wear 👉WOMEN to be more attractive..

Your Self Esteem Coach, Salkis Re


Everbody trying to look better than they actually are out here..

Shaming You is a Subjugation Tactic

I’ll tell you why Shaming women is so effective, it’s effective because we WANT to subjugated, we WANT to comply, we WANT to help, we WANT fairness.

And because we are by nature inclined to comply, these campaigns to make us feel worthless and nonsensical work because women are NOT negotiators.

I have never met a man yet who felt “shame” about what he liked have , be or do!! But women are put on blast accused of being unreasonable, impractical, delusional and emotionally unstable at every turn.

This is because men know that more times than not, we want give in, we’d rather have fairness than GET WHAT WE WANT..

Please stop taking men seriously


How Sway?

Please stop taking men seriously. It’s all a game, chess moves if you will. The way to get you to become a team player is by “leading” you and to lead you he has to show you that he knows what’s best for you.

He has to establish that his goals should be yours (this is what get you to open your legs for him before it safe or profitable to do so).

This is also why “showing” that you are smarter than him or 👉aggressively noncompliant is makes you unattractive in general to men..


Have your convictions and your boundaries set in STONE..

Your “Self Esteem Coach”

~Salkis Re