“Ugly Girls Need Discipline”

How you “show up” in this world is how you will allow people to treat you. I tell many of my sisters that displaying self pity is not way to win friends or foster good relationships but you are so used to expressing your self deprecation, that you have lost awareness that you are even […]

Black Women Dating Sites

If I could shake the degradation out of you, I would gladly do it. But this is something you have to feel inside of you. You have to be tired of being lied to, tired of being led to create frivolous personas based on pageantry and not any real substance.

So You Wanna be a Sister Wife???

A viewer came to me expressing her desire to be a sister-wife..Here’s what I shared with her: I have not seen any long term success with it anyone really. Not sure what it is but it seems like that relationship dynamic has a high turnover rate and the lifespan is usually 2 years no more […]

Regrets For Not Pulling The Trigger

“Again”Written by Salkis Re When you realize that you could’ve done what you didn’t do.Then you come back around  to vow that you’ll follow through.Then you wait cause it’s not the perfect time,but then you wait so longthat again you change your mind.Then your mind reminds yourself of it again,but you still do nothing for fear you cannot win.And […]

The Way to A Man’s Heart

“The Way To Win His Heart” Written by Salkis Re Men are not happy when you give them everything they want, they are happy when you make them work for what they get. Your “habit” is to keep him excited about having you, motivated to please you, and lucky to have you. Comfort does NOT inspire excitement; […]

Lions and Tigers and Bears Dorothy!!! Follow The Yellow Brick Road

I have been added without request several crazy groups where women post provocative pics and guys, well guys get all excited and complimentary or at least they give the illusion of being complimentary, but some of these women are getting clowned and they are not well versed in communication, but I guess who needs to […]