Master The Self

I’m a little girl at heart, so I have to protect her with the big in me too.
There isn’t a woman that I’ve ever met who didn’t want someone to give her a reason to blush or to care for someone besides herself.

This is what we are designed for.
But you have to learn what I had to learn, which was that Self Love is the blueprint that your goals are achieved from.

“Can I Play With You?”

Build a relationship with yourself.

Are you interesting to you?
Can you make yourself laugh?
Do you listen to your own voice?

If not, then you need to fix this TODAY!

And we get what we want

And we get what we want when we master our emotions.

You can’t negotiate for what you want unless you’ve mastered your emotions.
You can’t beat your low self esteem and depression without mastering your emotions
You can’t even maintain physical health without mastering your emotions.

If you don’t like what being you has given you, then become someone else!

Beautiful black women
“Self Esteem Coach” ~Salkis Re

Self Esteem Coach “
“Artist”
“Author”
“Poet”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re

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Can I Play With You”

Trumpty Dumpty

We are in a time right now that includes a lot of tension and stress,but i invite you to consider that society is a nothing more than a stage play,

but the bad part is that human beings are collateral damage to ego shrug.

Remain emotionally stable and do not submerge into the obyss of fearmongering.

Politics is theater.

And life is a stage.

So when you think you will look inauthentic if you decide to ahift and make a change in your own life, i invite you to consider your environment and all the ILLUSIONS you are fed on a daily basis that youve come to believe why FEELINGS loke something is off.

It’s all a choice at the end of the day.

Fear, hate, love.

All decisions.

I choose LOVE!!

What do you choose?

Class and Status Are ILLUSIONS

We are lied to about pedigree and class you know. We’ve been conditioned to think that looking good, tailored clothing and speaking in the Queen’s English is a measure of status and even God’s favor.

Ask a maid next time you really want to know about “CLASS. I’ve had a few in my family, and they can tell you what goes on in these deluxe apartments in the sky.

How The High Status Front!

How the babies don’t get bathed or their hair combed until the nanny’s arrive even if it’s 3 days until her shift starts again.

How these privileged employers constantly short their checks and “miscalculate” their wages.

How their elderly people are alone with no one to talk to until the maid comes to clean the house and change the Depends the elders sat in all day. How they “reused” dirty panties and the wife is on some drug to keep her mania at functional levels.

How the men suggest “favors” for salary increases or for the “help” to stay past shift hours and not get compensated for it.

We’ve won every pageant but it doesn’t matter!

You mimic what you don’t truly understand and you don’t respect your own value.
We even have a Miss Teen USA, a Miss USA, a Miss America AND a Miss Universe who’s from Africa. THEY gave you a full court press win across the board, so Do we love ourselves and our likeness any more today because of it?
Is the stock market value of cake soap and skin bleaching creams dropping?

No.
Because the image of social status and even the lie about our economic power is still transfixed in our minds. And pageants nothing more than validation farms just all bureaus and judging panels: Whomever crowns you is STILL KING!!

Class and Status Are Games

You are intimidated by the STAGE PLAY called SOCIETY and the GAME called LIFE because you aren’t fully aware that this is nothing more than smoke and mirrors that holding up the appearance of “class and status”.

Waiting On Their Trophies

They claimed who “They” are and you have the power by your birthright to do the same, but you want to wait for them to knight you so that it’s more “Official”. You seek authentication from those who feel that a dog’s life is worth fighting for more than yours, but rationalize your mimicry of them as a choice instead of insanity?
It’s time to align yourself with YOUR CREATOR.

GET UP!!

“Self Esteem Coach”
“Artist”
“Author”
“Poet”
And founder of “The Ugly Girls Club”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re

Need a mentor? Email me at info@salkisre.com

Why Our Black Men Date Outside

He said that he’s tired of hearing from black women “But Your Momma is Black” when he dates out because most black women are hoes and tricks anyway.

His advice: Stopping hating black men and love yourself!

My RESPONSE:

Was this suppose to be you showing support brother?
Cause it doesn’t read that way.
Yes black women do say “Your Momma Black”. And why does she say this?

Because she knows that her womb created you and to see you in the arms of other than self and kind goes against natural law.

We Push Our Men Into The White System

You are in the white man’s system and you are conditioned to seek what he has and the black woman pushes you to do so (at her own expense). And then she watches you get exploited and used by the white women within the environment that she encourages you to strive for.

A “No Good Woman” is created through the emotional schooling she gets from wounded men! And this is why SHE has to be meticulous in who she chooses because a relationship builds her CHARACTER or ALTERS it depend on who’s sperm she’s ingesting.

But MEN have minds and understanding here too.

Your momma might not have been shyte to you, but the black women you barrel through as penance for the lack of nurturing you received didn’t deserve your intent for retribution either.

You bring Bad Karma to Your Own Daughters

You men bring bad karma to your own daughter’s with the abuse you bring to women. And you think fukking around with someone else’s daughter won’t affect your own and I’m here to tell YOU that nature doesn’t work that way.
You keep that in mind when you’re tossing salads and making more baby mommas out here.🤘🏿
PERIODT!

“The Ugly Girl’s Ambassador”
~Salkis Re

Ugly Is As Ugly Does

We are under the assumption that the results we get in life are from how we feel about ourselves.

Energy is EVERYTHING!

ENERGY alters our perception of reality, of possibilities, of opportunities.

The wrong energy will inspire destructive behavior.

The right energy can facilitate healing of the body.

You are Energy and Matter

How you THINK creates your energetic body and influences the dysfunction or efficiency of your internal organs.

You feeling ugly is what makes you appear that way to yourself and other people.

You thinking that you are valueless is the reason for all your failed relationships.

Be on guard for the thoughts you allow to reside in your mind

When you begin to understand how influential your thoughts are to the outcomes you are experiencing, you will begin to be more careful in what you allow into your mind.

Listening to stories of defeat, create the environment of defeat within your mind which in turn, plays out in real life.

What you think about is what you become.

What to be attractive? Then you have to think of yourself as such AND perform the actions that are in alignment with what YOU perceive is a character trait of attractive people.

Thought and deed must align themselves for you to manifest the results you want..

Xoxo

~Salkis Re

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Do Not Have Sex!

Sex Deteriorates A Woman’s Body

The some total of what I’ve studied on intimate relationships with men is that they is a HIGH probably of mental and physical deterioration involved with romanctic mating.

Your body is NEVER the same after starting sexual intercourse, niether does it completely restore itself after childbirth. These are what i call “little deaths”.

Issues with hormones fluctuations, excess weight, depression, bloating bellies, heart disease, brain fog, fits of rage, eat disorders, stink vaginas, reproductive issues, low self esteem, loss of creativity and definite purpose can all be attributed to the trauma induced by improper mating.

This is why recreational sex should be forbidden altogether.

Say what??
You lame Selkis, Sarkis, Sulkus Salukus!👀

Transmute Sexual Energy Instead

Sex drains our life force energy, causes premature aging, disease etc…

Feminine vitality comes withholding sex and transmuting that energy towards other aspects of her feminine essence.

Women Who Have Frequent Sex Look Drained

Women who have a lot of sex, have a certain look.

They talk fast.

Never quite content with anything.
Nervous energy.

You talk to her and you can sense that she isn’t present.

Always “acting”, never genuine engagement.

Need constant stimulation and attention.

Manipulate others for personal gain.

Don’t Even Sleep With Your Husband Too Much

It is better for a woman’s physical wellbeing to sleep with one man and NOT to even sleep with him too frequently so that you maintain optimal health.

How You Doin!?👀

“Self Esteem Coach”
“Artist”
“Author”
“Poet”
And founder of: “The Ugly Girls Club”
~Salkis Re

Need to talk?

Email me at info@salkisre.com

Jason Pope Black Girl Pimpin

Jason Pope

White Guy Lures Black Women for Sex

This news story came across my newsfeed on facebook two days ago.

Apparently this white man Jason Pope, also known as DJ KID, has been enticing black women and minors to have sex with him in exchange for concert tickets and other medial trinkets for years.

He is an accused pedophile who has been rumored to have exposed over 600 black women to HIV also.

What’s more is that he has been arrested and charged with sex trafficking minors and has a non sexually related criminal history going all the way back to 1995.

Jason Pope
Jason Pope, Aka DJ KID

 

He BlackMailed One of His Victims

He had blackmailed an underage victim in 2017 and pressured her into performing sex acts after she left him for two weeks.

He then proceeded to trash her all over social media when he couldn’t get her to comply.

Six months later, this same victim’s mother alerted deputies that Pope was luring girls for sex off of Facebook and Snapchat by promising prizes..

So apparently this creep would pay these girls for sex then talk about the experience on social media to entertain his followers.

 

 

Dark Skin Women, Unloved Everywhere

I think what disturbs me the most about this is that he strategically targeted dark skin black girls 

and women to solicit sex for money.

Every picture I’ve seen to date with this criminal has been in the arms of a dark skin black woman.

Reading and viewing the commentary about the pictures, I’ve heard these women described as “Duties”, Section 8 Recipients and Monkeys for the most part.

Jason Pope

Speaking as a Dark skin black woman myself, I know all too well the underlying bias and prejudice that society has for us. We are the rejects even amongst our own people, the throwaways of society if you will.

And I warn black women to stop sexualizing themselves and making themselves agreeable and available to men for pleasure or a few coins.

When you are considered unattractive, there’s no moral instinct in a man to not want to harm you.

And that is the cold, hard, facts of life.

 

 

Leave Vanity ALONE

The women I coach get an earful of that medicine because I want them to be aware and prepared emotionally so that they can resist the emotional mind f*(k  people, BOTH MALE AND FEMALE with play on them.

Dark skin women are always used for sexploitation because we are like animals to men in our society whether they are white OR black.

 

And this is why I telling all my black Doves, my clients, to LEAVE VANITY ALONE.

Women end up in the arms of men like this fool because you are seeking validation and a sense of self worth that you feel only a man can give you.

You want to be wanted, even if it’s only for sex.

And the temporary affection you get during the sex act satisfies a need to feel loved. But it also puts you in harms way. You can destroy your life while chasing a fantasy. And the sorrowful part about many of us ark skin women is that we turn to sexual freedom experience worthiness and the only attention many of us get is sexual attention.

It’s a GAME, and men will play with you LIFE if you let them.

Don’t give any man the authority to affirm you, to upgrade you, to give you an identity.

Your life is your responsibility. Clean it it. Clean yourself of the filthy thoughts of low self worth through RIGHT ACTION.

 

 

Salkis Re is an artist, author, poet, relationship expert, CowGirl, Life Coach and the founder of The Ugly Girl’s Club

When she is slapping paint on a canvas, she’s helping women across the globe heal emotionally from toxic relationships and societal conditioning.. Visit her art site too iLoveHerArt.com

Why You Can’t Get a Man: And It’s Not Because of How You Look!

You don’t have love and you think it’s because you are an unattractive black woman with a:

dark skin,

big nose,

overweight,

uneducated,

no curves etc…
It’s not because of ANY of those reasons!!
Yes.

People you who are apart of this society will come to you with their “programmed” perceptions of your worth.

So WHAT!!!

Who can use you without your participation?
Who can lie to without your belief in them?
Who can string you along without your patience?

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You don’t get what you want because you let “them” beat the PASSION out of you!
You don’t get what you want because you are “The Walking Dead”.
Soulless.
An Inanimate mass of flesh waiting for “them” to “Turn You On”!


This why YOU don’t have what you want.
Being “Nice” or “Good” doesn’t translate into PASSION.
And you have to ask yourself this: What am I willing to lose to show who I truly am?

Can you bear the criticism?
Can you stomach looking like you are crazy?
Can you come to terms with your unconventional looks and the skin suit you wear?

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If you are unattractive AND boring, there is no hope for you. Just jump off the next bridge to put yourself out of your own misery!


But if you don’t want to end it all: THEN RISK IT ALL.
Put yourself on blast!
Speak what’s on your mind!
Do what your God has assigned for you.
And let the chips fall where they got damn may!!
.
“Ugly Girl Ambassador”
Founder of “The Ugly Girl’s Club”
~Salkis Re

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