“Everybody Wants to Look Better Than They Actually Are” January 24, 2019 8:04 a.m.
Women wear WIGS to be more attractive, and Men wear 👉WOMEN to be more attractive..
Everbody trying to look better than they actually are out here..
Shaming You is a Subjugation Tactic
I’ll tell you why Shaming women is so effective, it’s effective because we WANT to subjugated, we WANT to comply, we WANT to help, we WANT fairness.
And because we are by nature inclined to comply, these campaigns to make us feel worthless and nonsensical work because women are NOTnegotiators.
I have never met a man yet who felt “shame” about what he liked have , be or do!! But women are put on blast accused of being unreasonable, impractical, delusional and emotionally unstable at every turn.
This is because men know that more times than not, we want give in, we’d rather have fairness than GET WHAT WE WANT..
Please stop taking men seriously
Please stop taking men seriously. It’s all a game, chess moves if you will. The way to get you to become a team player is by “leading” you and to lead you he has to show you that he knows what’s best for you.
He has to establish that his goals should be yours (this is what get you to open your legs for him before it safe or profitable to do so).
This is also why “showing” that you are smarter than him or 👉aggressively noncompliant is makes you unattractive in general to men..
Have your convictions and your boundaries set in STONE..
“Single Mothers” From the Desk of Salkis Re January 2, 2019
You Are a High Risk Investment
If you are a single mother, you are automatically classed as emotionally unstable, wounded, used up, and a financial trap!! Now, those of you single mothers who do make “good” money may fair a (little) better as you will get men who want to commit, BUT you are getting offers because you can shoulder your own (weight/burden/financial risk) when you are offered a relationship.
Order in the court here!!!!
Our BLACK PILL compendium states that any man who is in your face and digging in your vagina as a single mother, isn’t there because he’s so “IN LOVE”, he is there because he’s counting YOUR money as a to subsidize his income..
Let me make something clear here for slow folks: Every person wants SOMETHING from a relationship, so this isn’t about accusing anyone of immorality because they have agendas for their self interests. This is about YOU understanding that as a SINGLE MOTHER the likelihood of you being taken advantage of both sexually and financially is VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY HIGH..
BECAUSE THE ASSUMPTION IS THAT YOU DON’T HAVE OPTIONS!!!!
So you cannot afford to believe in any fairytales, or allow your positive thinking to make decision on your behalf when the majority of men you reveal your “situation” to will have pseudo psycho analyzed you as a woman with little to NO OPTIONS and in desperate need of “quality time” with any man who seems to have tolerance for your children.. TAKE THE BLACK PILL!! ————— Contact me by email for private consulting.. at email@example.com
Had a conversation with a sister about “nappy hair”.
She’s been proudly rocking her natural hair for most of her adult life but of late had an epiphany
about her direction towards financial independence. It required her to do a total 180 degree turn in her
habit and her physical presentation so she straightened her hair as part of he transformation. 🐾
She said that the MONEY has increased and so has the QUALITY of eligible black men.
She says that she is now treated like a “classy” woman, given money, offers for marriage etc
shea butter slathering, cowie shell and stiff-ass wax fabric tent dresses wearing shill.
She said that when she traded it those things in for straighter hair and form flattering clothes her entire life changed!…
I nodded my head pretty much through out her entire rant,
and I had to disappointedly agree with the changes she has experienced by changing her look. 🌸
Listen, I have nappy hair and dark skin, that what “The Game of Thrones” would classify as a person of “Low Birth”.
The love of women with natural hair ALSO includes a “Totem pole” or “caste system”
where the most desirable of hair types in the natural hair category are the ones that have 3B or curly, long hair. 4C hair (“nappy hair”) is only celebrated if its suffocated with gel and stretched to its fullest elastic capacity, otherwise it’s the question is asked “What are you going to do with your hair?” 🌹
Natural girls are put into a category like:
“She’s DOWN to Earth”
“She EASY going”
“She’s in tune with nature= doesn’t want material things”.
“She doesn’t have high standards”
“She is not hard to please”
“She’s is free spirited and sexually fluid”
“She’s is anti system and will struggle and turn her back on modern conviences”..
ETC ETC ETC…
If you are natural, you are put into a “poverty” class my dear, though you will enjoy the game of objectification if you have the perfect hip to waist ratio
and a decent face you most certainly will go viral online if you can get a friend to film you on your camera phone
while you playfully dance around and drop it low in a tube dress and heels.
They will oooh and ahhh at your physique, you’ll get offers for things from married and single men in your inbox, and all will feel right for a while in your world..
Now the deal is this: men generally do not want to give you ANYTHING.
You have to REQUIRE and REQEST what you want.
But what they will do is run an AUDIT on YOU! Your age. If you have kids.
Your weight, and your overall looks are what he uses to quantify your VALUE and what he is willing to LOSE/SPEND or GIVE UP to have possession of you.
Do “our” brothers revere us as “natural women”? No.
They do not.
We are assumed to be easier to get, easier to lead, easier to influence and control.
They is no real “respect” or “reverence” happening just because you don’t straighten your hair!!!
You are simply categorized as “Reachable” especially with men of meager stature and means..
They will say they want a woman of moral character don’t they? But become defensive and condescending whenever we huddle together for “course correction” or to “clean up our act and limit frivolous sexual access to our temples”.. Here they come to critique and criticize and propagate that it’s better to be in tune with the natural fiction of sex than to have requirements to have sex with YOU.
HE does not have an issue with your promiscuity, his ISSUE arises when he is NOT given a chance to BENEFIT from YOUR promiscuity because your criteria to “play” is higher than what he can afford to give…
And so it is with us “natural” sisters too. No thrones are going to be erected in your honor just because you feel you represent “goodness” and “natural” things.
He sees you as “LESS”:
And on and on…..
Do you want this BLACK PILL today ladies?
” 👉No. You don’t but giving to yuh anyway!
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“Black Men Are ALL Colorists!!!!
Written by Salkis Re
So word on the street is that NON black men love and appreciate black women more than our own black brothers do. The word on the street is that all black men are “colorists” and prefer light skin black women with straight hair and acquiline features. Word on the street is that black men HATE women who have dark skin and “nappy hair”.
This is just the word on the street, so I can’t definitively say that I agree that ALL our brothers feel this way NOR that these accusations hold no merit.
Well, I have been slighted, passed over and berated for the tone of my flesh by my “brothers”. I have been called a big-lipped, MonKey by brothers before. I have been exploited and degraded by my brothers because of how I looked..
My SISTERS did all those things to me too, lest the sexual part. There’s a Big, Fat, Game being played here.
The Name of this game is called:
“Point the Finger”.
And all this “THEY don’t love us” talk, if we are going to be totally transparent, should include SISTERS TOO!
We don’t love ourselves.
And sadly even some of our chocolate sistren shout self praises around how “exceptional” they are because they have smaller noses and lips “IN SPITE” of being dark skin. What is she really saying here: I may have darker skin put my features are like white women, so I’m NOT THAT UGLY!!
We class and caste our sisters with as much fervor as any man outside our circles. We say we are abused by them but offer no emotional refuge for our castaways to run too.
We say “Well honey, truth be told is that it’s not because you are dark, it’s because you are an ugly woman who HAPPENS to be dark”.
The Game is a Full Cord Press!
If you are a dark skin woman facing travail because of your tone AND features, alas my love, you have NO REAL ALLIES.
You are alone in your sorrows, but that is not necessarily a bad thing.
You simply are given by the grace of nature an opportunity to be a “sovereign thinker”. No one wants you to be a member of their club, but this means you get to be totally YOUR SELF instead of assimulating to the pressure and anguish that EVERY WOMAN puts herself through to conform to the rules of society and the social clubs they desperately want to be apart of.
You are alone.
And the beauty of that is that YOU have Card Blanche authority over the rules and regulations of your Mental Terrain..
And trust me, if you seize the opportunity that being on the outside of the pretentious, degradation fest that most of our women put themselves through, you will become a GOD/DESS over your precious gift called YOUR LIFE!!!
“Spiritual Advisor” “Artist” “Writer” ~Salkis Re
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Me and my boyfriend, (hehe) Sebi talked for hours about healing and he told me that healing was a psychological thing, and that most of us are angry and suppressed which is why we are sick.
He said that we should strive to be “child-like” which is a ‘free thinking” way to be, but that it was difficult because we are so attached to what we identify with.
Food he said, was part of a person’s identity because it’s attached to their culture. “When I take away someone’s food, I take away someone’s IDENTITY and most people can’t deal with that, he said.
He also said: “This is why I had no luck in Africa, I couldn’t get past the “witch doctors” to help the people heal… They had too much “belief” in spirits and things to listen to me… And it’s the same thing here in America.
I can’t get a man from Louisiana to stop eating his ‘dirty rice’ cause that’s what he grew up on….
In fact, my success rate with healing people from there is very low!
Listen to me, if you really want to heal yourself, you have to let go of everything you think you NEED to be: EVERYTHING!!!
Let it all go and strip yourself down to a NAKED baby because the identity you have now is what created the environment for disease the to manifest…
SO BECOME WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO BE TO HEAL YOURSELF!!!
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Why is it so hard for you to consider how you feel FIRST??
I will tell you why.
Because a long time ago, when you were just a little girl, someone you loved and depended on told you it was wrong not to want to share.
These people were giants to you and you looked up to them literally and figuratively. They told you that you have to listen to what you are told regardless of what your desires were. They told you that it was wrong and disrespectful to be or show anger.
So you learned to hide your emotions.
You learned that for people to love you, you could not disagree with them in anyway lest you become a disappointment to them and yourself.
And so, here we are today…
And the same reasonings, the same thinking process you had as a little still prevails.
So what is the truth here?
The truth is that this all proves how “conditional” love actually is.
It also proves that what you thought you had to be was never the TRUTH, for it was merely
Indoctrination to conform you for easier control over your behavior and actions.
You are FREE now baby girl…
You are no longer under the jurisdiction of your parents; furthermore, lovers and husbands that enter your life are there by your grace and the generosity within you to give them the opportunity to be a “part” of your life…