Stop Being A Fuk Buddy and Get Married!

Every two years or so, you are some new guy’s girlfriend.

Doesn’t that worry you? Doesn’t the thought of being some dude’s boy toy make you emotionally uneasy?

I mean granted, you’re having fun going out to eat, bar hopping maybe, decent frequency of sexual activity, but in the back of your mind, you know this has got to end cause theres no real commitment there.

The old folks call it “Playing House”, and that’s exactly what it is: A Game. You are in an imaginary existence with a man who hasn’t decided to truly commit ALL THE WAY.

But you are sacrificing time, your vagina and more than likely your money to buy the ILLUSION of a relationship he’s giving you.

Cam Newton and his Now EX GIRLFRIEND of 6 years..

Men will suck you dry: literally!

And they gave an uncanny ability to waste your time while maintaining imagery of forward movement. But you are boxed in as a girlfriend, unable to have an absolute say about your future and direction you would like to take the relationship.

Why?

Because you are there for a good time. You are there to warm his bed or distract him from the work self improvement IF your remain JUST his girlfriend.

I Know That Marriage Isn’t The Goal for every Woman BUT>>>>>

Now, I not a total prude here. I get that marriage isn’t every woman’s goal, but the women who say this are usually those who’s phone still rings for offers of sex or situationships or Zaddy trips etc… Yet and still, when they no longer have to put that iphone on silent cause the calls start to slow down or come to a screeching halt, THEN the thought of finding that ONE life partner starts to make practical sense.

GUYS DO HIT THE WALL TOO!

You don’t want to end up like a lot of these “Hit The Wall”-“After The FactHoes out here who can’t do nothin but peddle Level Up courses that don’t even work for them!

Give these “boyfriends” expiration dates to make a decision on pulling the trigger or not because being some dude’s girlfriend for 3-5-8 years with no end game insight, will cost YOU what he can’t pay you for: which is TIME!!

Beautiful Black Women in relationships

Salkis Re is an artist, writer and Self Esteem Coach for black women. You can find her unique art pieces here And visit her YOU TUBE channel for tips on surviving in a world that has very little love for black women.

Ugly Women Get Fukked Too!

Listen, if you believe what men say about looks, you are foolish and naive!

Black men are complaining about black women being fat, unfeminine, uncooperative and unlovable but babies are still being born unto them. Kniggerspaining and ejaculating are happening simultaneously which means that black men are still engaging with women they claim to be divested from.

Self Esteem Coach, Salkis Re

Mgtow Is Folklore for Men!

Movements like mgtow [Men.Going.Their.Own.Way] are nothing more than internet based social clubs that black men are using to coop the talking points of disgruntled white men have concerning dating and divorce and child support.

And black women are constantly used aa emotional targets for frustrated, disempowered black men. We don’t act like civilized white women. We don’t fit into a size 5 dress that conscientious white women do. We are dispossessed of the proper pedigree and genteel femininity training like that of other races of women.

Dark and Lovely Lauren Hill

BLACK MEN GOING OVERSEAS FOR GIRLFRIENDS

And now they have threats of taking their diks overseas to give to real feminine women who respect masculinity like women of The Dominican Republic and other small island woman looking for sponsorship dollars and U.S visas.

Should black women divest from black men because of this? And if we do, where are we gonna seek acceptance and refuge from? White men? Or maybe some Sand kniggas in Saudi Arabia? The stats on swirling success is dismal at best, so running to other races isn’t the aswer.

You Need to Know Why You Are Dating a Man

The immediate cure for this social status problem that we as black women face should be addressed in a moral way. By moral I mean GOAL FOCUS MATING. We are too liberal with our sexuality and this so-called sexual liberation has reduced us to subhumans, for if its one thing we have never has an issue with, it was the notion that we are physically built for ejaculation purposes ONLY…

Create a framework of tasks called [customs] for men to do in order to qualify for access to your your mind and your body. We have to be clear, crystal clear about our worth, and develop the swag to communicate that worth to weed out lames, clowns, deadbeats, predators and the like.

Men want to control women emotionally but without shouldering any tangible responsibility on a physical level. He wants you to obey him, but he don’t want to commit to you. He wants your loyalty but wants you to pay your own way.

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They Say They Want a Good Woman But…

Men in general have major conflicts between what they are attracted too and what they claim to want.

So at the end of the day, its not about racking your brain taking level up classes and wife school courses when all you need to learn is how to love yourself in order to be loved and appreciated by men…

Dark Skin Women

Salkis Re is an Artist, Self Esteem Coach, Writer, Poet

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Dark Skin Women Are Not Feminine?

Y’all, im so over this bias it’s not even funny. But it has to be addressed because its a living, breathing folklore of sorts and its picked up some heavy steam in the past few years.

I have always has an over sensitivity to the awareness of being perceive as masculine BECAUSE of my skin tone.

“Colored Girl” Original Art by Salkis Re

At one time, I decided that I would practice talking softer and vowed to find a superior hair gel that would lay down my edges for 8 hours straight; in doing so, I thought I could achieve the pinnacle of femininity [straight hair, with a soft spoken tone as a bonus].

I abandoned the voice lessons and got fed up of the self inflicted anxiety induced by my edges curdling back like clockwork every two hour.

I didn’t feel good about me.

And I because I was more stressed than confident while doing the hair strengthening, the skin lightening, the dressing different and the talking different, I finally mustered up the courage to say “Fuk It!”

Why?

Because I was imitating and mimicking what I was not biologically designed to be. And that put me in the category of a BEGGAR!

“Skylar” Original Art by Salkis Re

I don’t believe that the darkskin woman’s problem is that she isn’t feminine, I believe that her problem is her inability to respect who and what she is..

And I know you’ve got reasons and justifications for playing the game, like you need straight hair for your corporate job or you need to look this way because thats what brother’s are attracted too, but you will never be able to out-white a white woman, EVER!

“Colored Girl”#5 Original Art by Salkis Re

We’ve got our on lane yuh know, an entire arena where we are the status quo, yet it is on the bottom..

But in my opinion, that’s not a bad thing. Any position you play within the social pecking order has rules, our problem as darkskin women is that it’s so obvious that we are trying to play in an arena we don’t belong in so that we can be accepted by other people that we actually PURCHASE our degradation with cash!

To emulate other women is to claim self neglect and a lack of self honoring. And it doesn’t falking matter “Why” you are doing it. We get no respect because we have none for ourselves.

1970’s Beauty

And what’s even more asinine is that think we can shame people into including us; I waiting on the other side of the fence for y’all to finally figured out that the shaming-shyte doesn’t for fat women and it ain’t gonna work fir DARKSKIN women either!

Salkis Re is a Self Esteem Coach, Artist, Author, Poet who uses her creative gifts to help repair the emotional wounds of black women. You can find her work at: www.iloveherart.com And her coaching on You Tube

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Class and Status Are ILLUSIONS

We are lied to about pedigree and class you know. We’ve been conditioned to think that looking good, tailored clothing and speaking in the Queen’s English is a measure of status and even God’s favor.

Ask a maid next time you really want to know about “CLASS. I’ve had a few in my family, and they can tell you what goes on in these deluxe apartments in the sky.

How The High Status Front!

How the babies don’t get bathed or their hair combed until the nanny’s arrive even if it’s 3 days until her shift starts again.

How these privileged employers constantly short their checks and “miscalculate” their wages.

How their elderly people are alone with no one to talk to until the maid comes to clean the house and change the Depends the elders sat in all day. How they “reused” dirty panties and the wife is on some drug to keep her mania at functional levels.

How the men suggest “favors” for salary increases or for the “help” to stay past shift hours and not get compensated for it.

We’ve won every pageant but it doesn’t matter!

You mimic what you don’t truly understand and you don’t respect your own value.
We even have a Miss Teen USA, a Miss USA, a Miss America AND a Miss Universe who’s from Africa. THEY gave you a full court press win across the board, so Do we love ourselves and our likeness any more today because of it?
Is the stock market value of cake soap and skin bleaching creams dropping?

No.
Because the image of social status and even the lie about our economic power is still transfixed in our minds. And pageants nothing more than validation farms just all bureaus and judging panels: Whomever crowns you is STILL KING!!

Class and Status Are Games

You are intimidated by the STAGE PLAY called SOCIETY and the GAME called LIFE because you aren’t fully aware that this is nothing more than smoke and mirrors that holding up the appearance of “class and status”.

Waiting On Their Trophies

They claimed who “They” are and you have the power by your birthright to do the same, but you want to wait for them to knight you so that it’s more “Official”. You seek authentication from those who feel that a dog’s life is worth fighting for more than yours, but rationalize your mimicry of them as a choice instead of insanity?
It’s time to align yourself with YOUR CREATOR.

GET UP!!

“Self Esteem Coach”
“Artist”
“Author”
“Poet”
And founder of “The Ugly Girls Club”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re

Need a mentor? Email me at info@salkisre.com

Do Not Have Sex!

Sex Deteriorates A Woman’s Body

The some total of what I’ve studied on intimate relationships with men is that they is a HIGH probably of mental and physical deterioration involved with romanctic mating.

Your body is NEVER the same after starting sexual intercourse, niether does it completely restore itself after childbirth. These are what i call “little deaths”.

Issues with hormones fluctuations, excess weight, depression, bloating bellies, heart disease, brain fog, fits of rage, eat disorders, stink vaginas, reproductive issues, low self esteem, loss of creativity and definite purpose can all be attributed to the trauma induced by improper mating.

This is why recreational sex should be forbidden altogether.

Say what??
You lame Selkis, Sarkis, Sulkus Salukus!👀

Transmute Sexual Energy Instead

Sex drains our life force energy, causes premature aging, disease etc…

Feminine vitality comes withholding sex and transmuting that energy towards other aspects of her feminine essence.

Women Who Have Frequent Sex Look Drained

Women who have a lot of sex, have a certain look.

They talk fast.

Never quite content with anything.
Nervous energy.

You talk to her and you can sense that she isn’t present.

Always “acting”, never genuine engagement.

Need constant stimulation and attention.

Manipulate others for personal gain.

Don’t Even Sleep With Your Husband Too Much

It is better for a woman’s physical wellbeing to sleep with one man and NOT to even sleep with him too frequently so that you maintain optimal health.

How You Doin!?👀

“Self Esteem Coach”
“Artist”
“Author”
“Poet”
And founder of: “The Ugly Girls Club”
~Salkis Re

Need to talk?

Email me at info@salkisre.com

The Best Way To GetWhat You Want!

Every woman should think of the “Bigger Picture”.

Never make decisions based on the moment…..

Always think of your future when you are trying to decide what to do.

You will change.

You will age.

You will be less in demand sexually later than you are now.

SO you must plan.

Do what is best for your future.

This means that you will have to withhold your pleasure.

This means that you are not a slut for instant gratification.

abstract portrait painting
Art by Salkis Re

This means that you know that anything quick diminishes in value quick as well.

So Plan.

Eat your veggies with a plan.

Have sex with a plan.

Have a baby with a plan.

Get married with a plan.

Work to finance your future plans..

Why Should You Heed My Advice?

Because I’m CRAZY, a nonconformist,

AND an introvert who had to bind her insecurities

and throw that bitch in the closet so

I could pound the pavement and be found by good women like you!

“Your Self Esteem Coach”
~Salkis Re

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Should We Stop Wearing Weaves?

“Everybody Wants to Look Better Than They Actually Are”
January 24, 2019 8:04 a.m.

Women wear WIGS to be more attractive, and Men wear 👉WOMEN to be more attractive..

Your Self Esteem Coach, Salkis Re


Everbody trying to look better than they actually are out here..

Shaming You is a Subjugation Tactic

I’ll tell you why Shaming women is so effective, it’s effective because we WANT to subjugated, we WANT to comply, we WANT to help, we WANT fairness.

And because we are by nature inclined to comply, these campaigns to make us feel worthless and nonsensical work because women are NOT negotiators.

I have never met a man yet who felt “shame” about what he liked have , be or do!! But women are put on blast accused of being unreasonable, impractical, delusional and emotionally unstable at every turn.

This is because men know that more times than not, we want give in, we’d rather have fairness than GET WHAT WE WANT..

Please stop taking men seriously


How Sway?

Please stop taking men seriously. It’s all a game, chess moves if you will. The way to get you to become a team player is by “leading” you and to lead you he has to show you that he knows what’s best for you.

He has to establish that his goals should be yours (this is what get you to open your legs for him before it safe or profitable to do so).

This is also why “showing” that you are smarter than him or 👉aggressively noncompliant is makes you unattractive in general to men..


Have your convictions and your boundaries set in STONE..

Your “Self Esteem Coach”

~Salkis Re

“Assertiveness Training for So-Called Unattractive Women”


January 18, 2019

Let me tell you unattractive women

and the rest of you unattractive women that pretend

like you DON’T think you are Unattractive. 
It’s not about your looks you know..
That’s not why you are mistreated and disregarded by men. 


This has more to do with your “agreeableness” and proclivity to “comply” as a WOMAN and in particular as an unattractive woman..

If you were born with a face that’s only your mother thinks is beautiful

If you were born with a face that’s only

your mother thinks is beautiful or that people

assume easy advantage over, then you have to put aside your virtue

and that “turn the other cheek” mentality to unearth your “INNER BITCH”. 

Yes, I said inner bitch! That part of you that

you’ve repressed in hopes that people look pass your

face to find something likeable about you.

Agreeableness is not an effective strategy for getting people to like you, ESPECIALLY when you are dealing with men!

You can’t distract men from your face!!

You can’t distract men from your face by “acting” kind and sweet: you have to DEFEND yourself as an unattractive woman!!

And this mean that you allow your spine to grow, that you show people that you are unafraid and unbothered by what they think,

and you are not EASY to befriend or have sex with!!

See a lot you cowering in a corner.

You never have anything of substance to share,

you never tell a joke, or say you are proud of yourself.

You never voice a thought or string opinion about anything…

Cause you’re trying to stay invisible so sees you as a target to ridicule.


GET UP! And show the world who you are, what YOU feel about things, share your intellect, your ability to create and medicine woman ways.

Stop trying to be liked when people are offended by your looks.

You have to walk another route so that your life becomes a fantastic ride!
TAKE THE BLACK PILL

Artist/Life Coach/Medicine Woman: Salkis Re

If you need help with self improvement and/or relationships challenges, please contact me via email at salkis @iloveherart.com