This is what chasing VANITY does.
It causes mental senility and physical neglect!
Cause you won’t go to the gym if you can’t get a bubble butt.
You won’t eat the salad if your friend doesn’t eat it too.
You think you will be rewarded if you have sex with men. You think you won’t experience loss if you look pretty. You think you will be rewarded if you comply. You think you won’t lose friends if you think the same..
And down the rabbit hole you go, deeper and deeper into the abyss of illusion…
Wake Up “Mummy”
Why should you listen to me?
Because I’m CRAZY, a nonconfirmist, AND an introvert who had to bind her insecurities and throw that bitch in the closet so I could pound the pavement and be found by good women like you!
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Written by Salkis Re
The truth of the matter is that most women will not change unless
there is some enjoyment attached to the task.
Women always need something new to look like or be.
We don’t innovate, we only mimic and
copy what we see other women do,
partly because we are communal by nature and mainly because
we are emotional and you do not posses the instinct to take risks..
We are unable to be objective because we judge everything by how we feel..
Logic is boring and uninteresting to us and we dismiss things that
do not make us the center of attention.
Your vanity, your need to be SEEN is what has caused most
of the heart break you’ve experienced..
And because you communicate with your
body and you think with your body,
You process your environment by how you feel..
you will more than likely make decisions that are not
reasonable and you will be hurt again…
You need some in your mouth that’s sweet,
you something in your vagina that feels good,
you need constant stimulation or
you feel invisible and a loss of self worth…
MEN: Give Love / Women: React
MEN: Say What They Have Knowledge In/ Women: Say What you Want to hear.
Men: Are Vulnerable Mentally / Women: Are vulnerable Physically
Men: Are Impersonal / Women: Take Everything Personally
Men: Fascinated by Reasoning/ Women: Bored and Exhausted by Reasoning
Men: Praise/ Women: Criticize
Men: invent/ Women: imitate
It is what it is..
But once we have understanding of ourselves we
can manipulate our thoughts to create
different habits and actions…
Everybody can’t be saved..
But I am here to save as many of us as I can..
“The Pressure to Look Sexy”
Written by Salkis Re
Listen, I’ve been accused of being undercover feminist lesbian when I get into my cautionary rants;
the resistance usually comes from men who feel in threatening a reduction in their prospects/prey or women
who believe they are more attractive than I am which makes my message inapplicable to them…
The reoccurring theme here, the message within all of my writings is that you see the truth of how your emotions become weaponized and used against you.
The pressure to “look valuable” is real.
This is why we wear the form fitting clothes, plaster makeup on our faces, post selfies, wear weaves and high heels that some of can’t even walk in..
Somebody told you that you had to do this in order to be relevant and “considered”.
And MOST of us are looking like desperate fools in clown makeup and
clothing with spandex material in that that makes you assume you’ve bought the right size.
No. Waking here!
Wake up to the fact that you are in a game that’s set up for you to lose,
because when you lose (of feel lost) you turn into a consumer/believer/minion
for those that make sales to help cure your low self esteem.
What’s the truth here though?
The truth is that we are different, but different doesn’t necessarily mean better or worse; it simply means that I cannot be you and you cannot be me…
I’m interested in sisterhood . Though I cried it down as an impossible task -because women are emotional conn artists- I am renewing my vision for this because it is needed.
We are sick, depressed, suicidal, impoverished in every way because we sit around telling lies to each other, initiating new recruits into old sorrows,making it seem like even the mistakes you made in your life was “all planned out before your birth”.
Where are the healers?
Where are the watchers?
Where are the CRONES to help and guide young women?
Are you sitting around to busy plucking your hormonal chin hair to care about the ones coming after you?
Looking good is a blessing and a curse for those of us who can transform to an acceptable level;
you WILL be picked, used, trophied, and discarded more than those if us who have minimal options.
And the ones of who can’t quite “level up” feel that we live without luck or grace because the prospects are low,
so we go to extremes, often corrupting our health while making fool-hearty investments in so-called improvements,
and the only return you get on your alterations is laughed and more Usury than your previous looks allowed for..
So both spectrums meet pain and degradation, and the reason we do is because we do not help each other.
and diminish each other’s value by forming social cliques where women
that aren’t a threat to each other just pass around lies and swap war stories…
And so it goes..
But I’m looking for my lost sheep just like Jesus did..
I’m here to help with the bitter BLACK PILL…
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Being yourself is going to hurt people.
Its going to dispassion people against you.
Because they will not be able to control you,
to manipulate you to do things that are not in line with your safety or life goals.
The only reason you have friends or lovers is because they like the way you make them feel.
But once you step away from he act of pleasing and choose to be passionate and purposeful
about the act of self fulfillment, people are going to take issue with you.
They will stop calling you, stop inviting you, stop fucking you, stop buying gifts for you and so on…
And then the harsh reality of your aloneness will start to take form.
Do you know when the revelation of aloneness usually hits?
When you start to get old..
And you realize that all your sacrificing didn’t afford you their loyalty or undying concern.
then you become old and bitter because you have to face that you wasted so much time TRYING.
Trying to get LOVE.
Trying to get RESPECT.
What matters is your time and how much of ti you spend on frivolity or purpose.
And your purpose will need most of your energy because
you will have to fight the status quo of mediocrity and the fear that others try to infect you with…
You are your OWN GOD/ESS because your ACTIONS determine your road and your destination…
Be a god today…..
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Written by Salkis Re
Nearing the completion of this piece. I’m so tempted to put some color on her,
but I have to arrest my ego and let her simmer as she is…
I’m taking the minimalist approach to things lately.
Thinking more and more about how I really enjoy simplicity and less “stuff”.
If the floor is clean, I could sleep on it now problem.
Give me some candles and I don’t need lamps.. I just don’t want to ” need” so much anymore.
I haven’t had food or water anything since last Sunday evening.
👉I’m dry fasting right for a goal of 48 hours for mind control and self improvement purposes.
I’m doing what Mystics I suppose. My sense of smell is acute, my heating too, and I’m trancing out as I work.
Feels more weird than usually but in a very good way.
*Prints will be available when she’s complete..
I had a session with a client yesterday and she was explaining
to me how the conversation went on her pseudo date for the evening.
She told me that it basically tuned into a **therapy session**
for him to complain about all the money he was expected to spend in **his previous relationship**
and how he felt it was unfair that he was required to
give her so much of his money among other things…
SO let me tell all of you ladies something that I did want to accept for a long time.
**YOUR APPEARANCE MATTERS!!**
Why do I say this?
Because she saw him for a “quick” informal date,
she wore a new pair of jeans(but they were jeans) and a cute casual looking blouse= **Minimal Effort**
Now she assured me that she looked very **VERY cute.**
But the message she sent to him was that of *convenience and *less requirements because she
was ok with riding around with him in his car with no plan and no money spent for her time.
And to top it off, he is all of 60 years old man with 4 baby mama’s
to divvy out child support too.
A 60 year old man has to pay to TALK far yes pay for an actual date.
**Get over it!**
Because HE assumed from the gate that this sister
WASN’T WORTH doing as much for like the previous woman was,
cause what? HE SAID HE GAVE THE OTHER WOMAN THE MONEY SHE ASKED FOR…..
SO his complaints are really a mute point AFTER the fact…
Do not ever take that take as some sort of compliment to your **”good girl”** archetype.
Being GOOD serves a purpose, and if that purpose isn’t being met,
then you should walk alone with the virtue you are so proud of.
Bottom line is that he didn’t think my client was on
the level of the previous woman he was complaining about.
You think if he thought she was ‘high maintenance’
AND deserved to be take care of, that he’d suffer her
through the entire date complaining about how much
money he didn’t want to spend on a mother woman????
Men know who they will low ball from the gate.
And they will spend on what they think is worth the effort and the price.
You being a Good Woman, a woman of fairness and honesty is beneficial only if the man has no alter agenda, and what man doesn’t???
A relationship with you becomes something of quality based on how YOU respond to offers and insinuations and sexual advances etc..
You make it ‘something more” than a one night bang” by not banging?
His morals are based on what you require.. PERIOD!!
Do not compromise on your requirements at all! You won’t get a no crown for suffering or not getting your basic needs met!!
Written by Salkis Re
The conclusion of relationships is this: you are going to be lied too.
You ARE being lied too.
And the man telling lies is doing it for his benefit.
The man telling you to “build” with him is doing it for his benefit.
The man pumping and dumping you without a condom is doing it for his benefit.
The man who isn’t ready to marry you is doing it for his benefit.
So what is he doing for YOUR benefit?
Absolutely NOTHING more than YOU require him to do…
Love has nothing to do with honesty.
It has nothing to do with commitment.
It has nothing to do with fidelity.
It has EVERYTHING to do with how incentivized a man is to produce for YOU,
and that is based on your own AMBITION and CLEVERNESS.
Nothing is fair and square in love.. This is why are played over and over and over again…
This is why you are a single mother.
This is why you can’t find a “good” man.
EVERYTHING YOU DO WITH A MAN should be for a purpose and a quantifiable benefit to you…
It’s YOU that drives a man to produce.
It is you that gives a man incentive to wash his testicles, shave and get dressed to go conquer the world..
If you have no goals, then YOUR man has no reason to work, and no one to work for.
HE is responsible for your safety and wellbeing, and there is no other reasons for him being in your bed or your heart…
PUT ON YOUR BLACK HAT!!!
“PUT ON YOUR BLACK HAT”
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Art by Salkis Re
So if any of this resonates with you, and you want MORE wisdom personalized to help you fight your insecurities and mediocre relationships, I am your girl.
Why me? Cause I’ve been the underdog for most of my life.
While a painful position it has been, it was also a gift, because people rarely were pretentious around me. People are only compelled to pretentiousness if they feel the need to “Impress” you.
They didn’t with me, BUT this gave me the opportunity to see into people’s souls, to see the true nature of men AND women..
Don’t come to me if you want to feel good. I don’t do any of that. You come to me to solve your problems and most of the time it will not be pleasant, but it will FREE YOU!