How Not to Influence People

You Can’t Get to Freedom by thinking that Life is Journey***Only poor, undisciplined, insecure people talk that nonsense about a journey!

Go to The Gym!

Self care supports your desires. Self care makes you feel good about who you are. Self care is a soup of oily habits that can also seal your fate! But I am not talking about soaking in a bubble bath or eating some calorically dense powdered donut. I am talking doing what I’m about to […]

You Are Leaving Him Because You Are Bored???

As I coach women lately, I’m finding that many of you are considering ending stable relationships because the man is “boring” and seems to be unable to stimulate you emotionally.   He pays the bills He pays the bills, you don’t have to wonder where food and shelter will come from. You get what ever […]

The Best Way To GetWhat You Want!

Every woman should think of the “Bigger Picture”. Never make decisions based on the moment….. Always think of your future when you are trying to decide what to do. You will change. You will age. You will be less in demand sexually later than you are now. SO you must plan. Do what is best […]

Black Women Dating Sites

If I could shake the degradation out of you, I would gladly do it. But this is something you have to feel inside of you. You have to be tired of being lied to, tired of being led to create frivolous personas based on pageantry and not any real substance.

Soft Porn Everywhere!

“Soft Porn” Written by Salkis Re   Soft porn is everywhere, whispering to women subconsciously about how we should look and feel about ourselves and  women with their knees wide open, looking ready to insert things into their mouths, appearing to not have a care in the world because lustful men are sprawled helplessly around her, […]

Pretty Girls Want to Join the Ugly Girls Club

Hey  There UGLY GIRL!”Transit time 6:19 a.m. Feb.8.2019 Pull of a chair, let me have a chat with you for a moment!You wanna know what funny Ugly Girl? Now that I’m focusing all of my energy on YOU, women who are NOT Ugly, who are actually attractive, pretty, beautiful, are coming to me asking to […]

Beauty for Black Women

So I’ve been hammering at the point of arresting the worry and self doubt you may harbor over how you look. I have had to battle with my self esteem for most of my life. I did things to try to fit on, to try to e liked, try to be LOVED.. And there was […]

Pretty But You Sick???

If your goal is to truly love yourself   If your goal is to truly love yourself and you are not adding what you eat into your transformation cocktail, then you are playing games and fooling yourself at the same time too. Holistic living requires that your diet be in line with nature.   Triggered […]

We Are Not Like Men, But We Can Be Guided By Them”

“We Are Not Like Men, But We Can Be Guided By Them” Transit time January 25, 2019 3:45 a.m. 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻 👉Men: Give Love / Women: React 👉Men: Say What They Have Knowledge In/  Women: Say What you Want to hear. 👉Men: Are Vulnerable Mentally / Women: Are vulnerable Physically 👉Men: Are Impersonal / Women: Take […]