How you “show up” in this world is how you will allow people to treat you.
I tell many of my sisters that displaying self pity is not way to win friends
or foster good relationships but you are so used to expressing your self deprecation,
that you have lost awareness that you are even doing it.
You sound more like a defeatist, than a woman who is ready for love.
You write these exhaustive dissertations about what you are looking
for in a man as if making known what you are wanting will
thwart off any snakes from coming to bite you.
The problem is NOT in the way you look!
The problem is that you are hollow and you lack substance because
you want to be sexy and desired instead of healthy, competent and virtuous.
The very things that will set you apart from other women, are the very
things you disregard as having no intrinsic value.
There are things you are here to do, and being a sex object is NOT one of them…
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“We Are Not Like Men, But We Can Be Guided By Them”
Transit time January 25, 2019 3:45 a.m.
👉Men: Give Love /
👉Men: Say What They Have Knowledge In/ Women: Say What you Want to hear.
👉Men: Are Vulnerable Mentally /
Women: Are vulnerable Physically
👉Men: Are Impersonal /
Women: Take Everything Personally
👉Men: Fascinated by Reasoning/
Women: Bored and find Reasoning exhausting
👉Men: Praise/ Women: Criticize
👉Men: Invent/ Women: Imitate
I am NOT pointing out these thing as a suggestion that we try to act like men, the goal here is for you to start learning about yourself so that you can be a more effective communicator with men AND you will also being to understand why you say/do the thing YOU do.
And this is why we get repetitiously limited results
And this is why we get repetitiously limited results in our lives as women. We need men to balance us, but women are so broken by numerous failed relationships that every character trait you posses is now pathological in scope.
We fake like we are unicorns flowing through life unbothered, yet it’s part of our disposition to be pretentious and critical of everything EXCEPT ourselves.
KNOWING how you tick means that you know what your triggers
KNOWING how you tick means that you know what your triggers are and how to shift away from a behavior that doesn’t give you the results you’re looking for.
We need to be seen, we NEED to be acknowledged and this need is easily exploitable by men people they have the upper hand of logic and analysis.
You THINK with your body
THINK with your body. You filter your world through a sense of what’s hot or cold, not wrong or right.
So walking with the awareness of this truth allows you to step back a bit because you are giving your body time to settle down so that you can THINK instead of REACT.
A little more mindfulness can help you dodge so many bullets
Take your first tiny little step towards happiness by simply acknowledging that you don’t think things through in the way that you should, and vow to only make a decisions after thinking them through first. A little more mindfulness can help you dodge so many bullets and WILL change your entire life!😉
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When you realize that you could’ve done what you didn’t do. Then you come back around to vow that you’ll follow through. Then you wait cause it’s not the perfect time, but then you wait so long that again you change your mind. Then your mind reminds yourself of it again, but you still do nothing for fear you cannot win. And then when you’ve reached the end of your road you regret that you’ve listened to what you were told. And then you feel it’s too late to make amends but your dreams could care less, for they come to your mind again..
Written by Salkis Re This is the last day of 2018.
You made it through… 2019 approaches and she a dinner plate placed in front of you with nothing on it, ready for you to fill it with delicious experiences, more confidence and self actualization than the year before.
But you will have to get over your need to be accepted though. You’ll have to learn to appreciate your alone time whether it’s experienced on purpose or by consequence.You will need to accept that you are not as perfect as you try so hard to make people believe. You may have to conclude that you are that smart or that your looks are just “mildly” attractive.
Disarm the Critic!
And the addition of the truth is not a downplay or self degradation because truthfully, you do that to yourself even with a cheering squad at your disposal..It’s about disarming the critic in your head once and for all..
What is your sweet spot,
your niche and where is that little corner called the “square” that your feet occupies for which no other feet can share? You cannot be everything, but its time to be DO what you actually can do. It’s time to pull off what fits YOU, not what’s trending. You jump around in emotional discord which you prefer to call *boredom, but *Boredom is just a kinder title for depression..
And you are depressed because you don’t like what you are.
SO we need to fix that.
Not with lies, but with the TRUTH for 2019.. Who Am I?
“Your Spirit Healer”~Salkis Re
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Men are not happy when you give them everything they want, they are happy when you make them work for what they get. Your “habit” is to keep him excited about having you, motivated to please you, and lucky to have you. Comfort does NOT inspire excitement; it yields complacency, disregard and familiarity blindness for your presence in his life… ————————————————
Will he appreciate your unconditional love for him? Yesssssssssssssss( me hissing like a snake) He will appreciate that you will stay put if he strays, that you are committed to your subordinate role and appreciative of the emotional and animate provisions he provides you with…
And those of you women who do not fall into the category of a “great beauty”, fear not! Your finesse ( well ALL women actually) is based on *stratagem* NOT in the way you LOOK! —————————————————–
Some of you are waiting for permission from men to “act worthy”. You are nothing until you are loved by a man. I suppose this has some truth to it, but your order of modus operandi , or your HABITS I should say, are displaced. You cannot assume your self a treasure if you wear the stench of desperation in your garments.
You must walk untethered. Your temperament must be one of unadulterated sweetness. Your smile because you are happy, not because he has made you so.. Let him wonder how you feel about him, IF you feel anything about him.. ——————————————————–
You need not confirm or deny ANYTHING about you! Are you a mystery, or has he got you all figured out? yessssssssssssssss( hissing again) Stratagem, not honesty or fairness will get you the results you require to ‘feel’ happy…
Sit back and relax…… That is the correct temperament for planning seduction…