“Single Mothers” From the Desk of Salkis Re January 2, 2019
You Are a High Risk Investment
If you are a single mother, you are automatically classed as emotionally unstable, wounded, used up, and a financial trap!! Now, those of you single mothers who do make “good” money may fair a (little) better as you will get men who want to commit, BUT you are getting offers because you can shoulder your own (weight/burden/financial risk) when you are offered a relationship.
Order in the court here!!!!
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It’s more beneficial to think realistically than it is to think positively.
But to think realistically can offer up as much delusions as bright-side thinking too.
Positive thinking feels good, but it does not contain a *sense of urgency and the FIRE of discomfort that is the 👉blood supply of transformation.
And realistic thinking at times makes it difficult for you to perceive the potential you posses to be more than what you are at this moment.
I see so many of you who are professional complainers, you cry yourselves down obsessing over the “flaws” of their bodies.
And those flaws might very well be “real”, but the potential to be better through diet and exercise,
going out and touching your feet to earth, prayer or mediation all are tactics to improve but are negated to wallow in pity.
All practical things to change your reality are thwarted and exchanged for excuses which give you a painless “OUT”.
This is really what positive thinking amounts to for many women: a stall!
Do diligence is needed here.
Do not think that things are worse than what they are(realistic) and do not think things are just fine(positive)
Accept what you SEE as real and then start the active task of self improving.
In others words: just be honest with yourself and stop making up delusions of grandeur or defeat!!
Older women are seen as the bitter, jealous,expired enemies of younger women. This is done deliberately to keep us out of the “catacombs” where we can,exchange secrets and confer “degrees” amongst each other. There isn’t a “new” that you’ll experience heartbreak so nothing that any woman knows could ever be “antiquated”….
The narrative of competition is heavily perpetuated within our society, and as a result younger women throw away and totally disregard the wisdom right within their reach. Older women were young once and if you are young now, old age is walking by your side too.
The appropriate way to view your world as a woman is with insatiable curiosity and respect for knowledge wherever it may reside. You are no better than any other woman, not really. You have the same fears and desires as all of us no matter what your station in life may be at this moment.
Talk to you mothers, your grandmothers, women you meet bump into in the fitting room or while standing at the check out isle.
Every woman you meet can potentially solve a problem you are facing, any woman you talk to could change your life in a few words..
Your “sisters” are everywhere…
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I want to hammer that point home today.
Because you and many MANY others are under some impression that in this life,
all you have to do is be good and your actions will be reciprocated by the other you are being selfless with.
Nothing can be further form he truth.
The truth is that BAD people often win in this world, and that reality for freakin unfair
YET it is entirely true.
_Open your eyes._.
Look who is winning in your circle, in the world.
Is it the bruised knuckle man **working 3 jobs** to keep up payments on his trailer home?
Is it the virtuous housewife who is in love with a husband,
**the only man she’s ever slept with** whom she hardly sees because he’s at his other
woman’s house to get a peaceful sleep and a break
from the constant racket of his screaming kids?
How many women you know who sacrifice their entire
lives and sadly get people who feel the need to muster up a
“thank you” for her selflessness and sacrifice?
You know people like this everywhere.
You may be one of them yourself!
To be GOOD is something you do to feel self esteem, to feel good about yourself. I get it. I AM it.
But there is another side that is necessary to bring forth when you want
to accomplish things, and unfortunately VIRTUE DOES NOT GET THE JOB DONE.
Virtue will have you excusing mistreatment.
Virtue will have you passing up opportunities to
further yourself because it may cause inconvenience for another person.
Selflessness will have you depleted and and drained and badly in need of self replenishment and self care.
Bad people give themselves what they need, no matter who gets hurt or disrupted in the process.
And the BiGGEST of all secrets is that you will have to adopt selfishness to accomplish your goals.
There is no way to climb the ladder of success without a few bruises, self inflicted and administers to others.
I don’t care what they say.
Now you can opt for virtue and sleep in your car, or bum food off your family and friends because you are anti “the System” or anti government.
You could certainly say you’ve had it with the world system and move to a hut in some remote island and live off potatoes and water while laying in the sun all day.
BUT YOU ARE IN THE SYSTEM!!!
GET OVER IT!
You have a cell phone?
Great. You are a customer of enterprise, of slave labor and unfair pay.
You like designer clothes?
PERFECT you are participant in an economy that creates caste systems and greed , low class and high class, welcome home!
You like movies? Then you support and industry that perpetuates unbalance and propaganda to control the masses.
NOW, you’ve got to make a decision here in what part you want to play in it and how much control you want to have over your own life.
I know, I know, listen you are probably not as religious as I am or as I have been.
I have been radical about sin in my past and I still hold some virtues in pocket to keep me from going over the edge.
But what I am talking about is simply this: There is good, and there is bad within you.
There is hate and there is love within you.
If you think you are going to make it through life without displaying and actively
participation in ALL the emotions between love and hate, good and bad YOU ARE FOOLING YOURSELF!
Not if you want to be excellent!
Excellence take pain my darling, pain in the form of sacrifice and discipline
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I had a session with a client yesterday and she was explaining
to me how the conversation went on her pseudo date for the evening.
She told me that it basically tuned into a **therapy session**
for him to complain about all the money he was expected to spend in **his previous relationship**
and how he felt it was unfair that he was required to
give her so much of his money among other things…
SO let me tell all of you ladies something that I did want to accept for a long time.
**YOUR APPEARANCE MATTERS!!**
Why do I say this?
Because she saw him for a “quick” informal date,
she wore a new pair of jeans(but they were jeans) and a cute casual looking blouse= **Minimal Effort**
Now she assured me that she looked very **VERY cute.**
But the message she sent to him was that of *convenience and *less requirements because she
And to top it off, he is all of 60 years old man with 4 baby mama’s
to divvy out child support too.
A 60 year old man has to pay to TALK far yes pay for an actual date.
**Get over it!**
Because HE assumed from the gate that this sister
WASN’T WORTH doing as much for like the previous woman was,
cause what? HE SAID HE GAVE THE OTHER WOMAN THE MONEY SHE ASKED FOR…..
SO his complaints are really a mute point AFTER the fact…
Do not ever take that take as some sort of compliment to your **”good girl”** archetype.
Being GOOD serves a purpose, and if that purpose isn’t being met,
then you should walk alone with the virtue you are so proud of.
Bottom line is that he didn’t think my client was on
the level of the previous woman he was complaining about.
You think if he thought she was ‘high maintenance’
AND deserved to be take care of, that he’d suffer her
through the entire date complaining about how much
money he didn’t want to spend on a mother woman????
Men know who they will low ball from the gate.
And they will spend on what they think is worth the effort and the price.
You being a Good Woman, a woman of fairness and honesty is beneficial only if the man has no alter agenda, and what man doesn’t???
A relationship with you becomes something of quality based on how YOU respond to offers and insinuations and sexual advances etc..
You make it ‘something more” than a one night bang” by not banging?
His morals are based on what you require.. PERIOD!!
Do not compromise on your requirements at all! You won’t get a no crown for suffering or not getting your basic needs met!!