“Black Men Are ALL Colorists!!!!
Written by Salkis Re
So word on the street is that NON black men love and appreciate black women more than our own black brothers do. The word on the street is that all black men are “colorists” and prefer light skin black women with straight hair and acquiline features. Word on the street is that black men HATE women who have dark skin and “nappy hair”.
This is just the word on the street, so I can’t definitively say that I agree that ALL our brothers feel this way NOR that these accusations hold no merit.
Well, I have been slighted, passed over and berated for the tone of my flesh by my “brothers”. I have been called a big-lipped, MonKey by brothers before. I have been exploited and degraded by my brothers because of how I looked..
My SISTERS did all those things to me too, lest the sexual part. There’s a Big, Fat, Game being played here.
The Name of this game is called:
“Point the Finger”.
And all this “THEY don’t love us” talk, if we are going to be totally transparent, should include SISTERS TOO!
We don’t love ourselves.
And sadly even some of our chocolate sistren shout self praises around how “exceptional” they are because they have smaller noses and lips “IN SPITE” of being dark skin. What is she really saying here: I may have darker skin put my features are like white women, so I’m NOT THAT UGLY!!
We class and caste our sisters with as much fervor as any man outside our circles. We say we are abused by them but offer no emotional refuge for our castaways to run too.
We say “Well honey, truth be told is that it’s not because you are dark, it’s because you are an ugly woman who HAPPENS to be dark”.
The Game is a Full Cord Press!
If you are a dark skin woman facing travail because of your tone AND features, alas my love, you have NO REAL ALLIES.
You are alone in your sorrows, but that is not necessarily a bad thing.
You simply are given by the grace of nature an opportunity to be a “sovereign thinker”. No one wants you to be a member of their club, but this means you get to be totally YOUR SELF instead of assimulating to the pressure and anguish that EVERY WOMAN puts herself through to conform to the rules of society and the social clubs they desperately want to be apart of.
You are alone.
And the beauty of that is that YOU have Card Blanche authority over the rules and regulations of your Mental Terrain..
And trust me, if you seize the opportunity that being on the outside of the pretentious, degradation fest that most of our women put themselves through, you will become a GOD/DESS over your precious gift called YOUR LIFE!!!
“Spiritual Advisor” “Artist” “Writer” ~Salkis Re
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I want to hammer that point home today.
Because you and many MANY others are under some impression that in this life,
all you have to do is be good and your actions will be reciprocated by the other you are being selfless with.
Nothing can be further form he truth.
The truth is that BAD people often win in this world, and that reality for freakin unfair
YET it is entirely true.
_Open your eyes._.
Look who is winning in your circle, in the world.
Is it the bruised knuckle man **working 3 jobs** to keep up payments on his trailer home?
Is it the virtuous housewife who is in love with a husband,
**the only man she’s ever slept with** whom she hardly sees because he’s at his other
woman’s house to get a peaceful sleep and a break
from the constant racket of his screaming kids?
How many women you know who sacrifice their entire
lives and sadly get people who feel the need to muster up a
“thank you” for her selflessness and sacrifice?
You know people like this everywhere.
You may be one of them yourself!
To be GOOD is something you do to feel self esteem, to feel good about yourself. I get it. I AM it.
But there is another side that is necessary to bring forth when you want
to accomplish things, and unfortunately VIRTUE DOES NOT GET THE JOB DONE.
Virtue will have you excusing mistreatment.
Virtue will have you passing up opportunities to
further yourself because it may cause inconvenience for another person.
Selflessness will have you depleted and and drained and badly in need of self replenishment and self care.
Bad people give themselves what they need, no matter who gets hurt or disrupted in the process.
And the BiGGEST of all secrets is that you will have to adopt selfishness to accomplish your goals.
There is no way to climb the ladder of success without a few bruises, self inflicted and administers to others.
I don’t care what they say.
Now you can opt for virtue and sleep in your car, or bum food off your family and friends because you are anti “the System” or anti government.
You could certainly say you’ve had it with the world system and move to a hut in some remote island and live off potatoes and water while laying in the sun all day.
BUT YOU ARE IN THE SYSTEM!!!
GET OVER IT!
You have a cell phone?
Great. You are a customer of enterprise, of slave labor and unfair pay.
You like designer clothes?
PERFECT you are participant in an economy that creates caste systems and greed , low class and high class, welcome home!
You like movies? Then you support and industry that perpetuates unbalance and propaganda to control the masses.
NOW, you’ve got to make a decision here in what part you want to play in it and how much control you want to have over your own life.
I know, I know, listen you are probably not as religious as I am or as I have been.
I have been radical about sin in my past and I still hold some virtues in pocket to keep me from going over the edge.
But what I am talking about is simply this: There is good, and there is bad within you.
There is hate and there is love within you.
If you think you are going to make it through life without displaying and actively
participation in ALL the emotions between love and hate, good and bad YOU ARE FOOLING YOURSELF!
Not if you want to be excellent!
Excellence take pain my darling, pain in the form of sacrifice and discipline
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Should you maintain your reasonableness and risk being viewed as a contemptuous,
heartless-bitch, or do you strive for creating a “real” emotional bond,
throw caution to the wind, and give him what he desires most?
I’d say that your lane oscillates between the two.
You want to show that you are interested, but not gullible.
You want be kind, but not compromising.
You want to be optimistic, yet sensible and observant.
You cannot be just one or the other because on one end you’ll look like a desperate fool,
and other you’ll look like a desperate bitch!
Most men will talk your panties down are pimps.
And pimps are: smooth talking ramblers who speak in ELOQUENT INSINCERITY.
Know this, what he wants to do, what he would like to do,
what he wishes he could do,
what he’s “going” to do
and what he’s thinking about doing have NOTHING to do with you!!
Making decisions about the direction of your life based on the “hypothetical” indecisions of men will be round about the time you make your biggest misjudgment.
All these do is serve to create a “feeling” that “something”
is about to be done so you can gamble on your faith that it will.
So the order of the day is to take optimal care of yourself FIRST!
This means that you trust your instincts;
you move only when you are comfortable;
you keep your purpose and your mission in the forefront of your mind
ALWAYS! And know that what he offers you has to be in line with your purpose PERIOD!