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Me and my boyfriend, (hehe) Sebi talked for hours about healing and he told me that healing was a psychological thing, and that most of us are angry and suppressed which is why we are sick.
He said that we should strive to be “child-like” which is a ‘free thinking” way to be, but that it was difficult because we are so attached to what we identify with.
Food he said, was part of a person’s identity because it’s attached to their culture. “When I take away someone’s food, I take away someone’s IDENTITY and most people can’t deal with that, he said.
He also said: “This is why I had no luck in Africa, I couldn’t get past the “witch doctors” to help the people heal… They had too much “belief” in spirits and things to listen to me… And it’s the same thing here in America.
I can’t get a man from Louisiana to stop eating his ‘dirty rice’ cause that’s what he grew up on….
In fact, my success rate with healing people from there is very low!
Listen to me, if you really want to heal yourself, you have to let go of everything you think you NEED to be: EVERYTHING!!!
Let it all go and strip yourself down to a NAKED baby because the identity you have now is what created the environment for disease the to manifest…
SO BECOME WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO BE TO HEAL YOURSELF!!!
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I want to hammer that point home today.
Because you and many MANY others are under some impression that in this life,
all you have to do is be good and your actions will be reciprocated by the other you are being selfless with.
Nothing can be further form he truth.
The truth is that BAD people often win in this world, and that reality for freakin unfair
YET it is entirely true.
_Open your eyes._.
Look who is winning in your circle, in the world.
Is it the bruised knuckle man **working 3 jobs** to keep up payments on his trailer home?
Is it the virtuous housewife who is in love with a husband,
**the only man she’s ever slept with** whom she hardly sees because he’s at his other
woman’s house to get a peaceful sleep and a break
from the constant racket of his screaming kids?
How many women you know who sacrifice their entire
lives and sadly get people who feel the need to muster up a
“thank you” for her selflessness and sacrifice?
You know people like this everywhere.
You may be one of them yourself!
To be GOOD is something you do to feel self esteem, to feel good about yourself. I get it. I AM it.
But there is another side that is necessary to bring forth when you want
to accomplish things, and unfortunately VIRTUE DOES NOT GET THE JOB DONE.
Virtue will have you excusing mistreatment.
Virtue will have you passing up opportunities to
further yourself because it may cause inconvenience for another person.
Selflessness will have you depleted and and drained and badly in need of self replenishment and self care.
Bad people give themselves what they need, no matter who gets hurt or disrupted in the process.
And the BiGGEST of all secrets is that you will have to adopt selfishness to accomplish your goals.
There is no way to climb the ladder of success without a few bruises, self inflicted and administers to others.
I don’t care what they say.
Now you can opt for virtue and sleep in your car, or bum food off your family and friends because you are anti “the System” or anti government.
You could certainly say you’ve had it with the world system and move to a hut in some remote island and live off potatoes and water while laying in the sun all day.
BUT YOU ARE IN THE SYSTEM!!!
GET OVER IT!
You have a cell phone?
Great. You are a customer of enterprise, of slave labor and unfair pay.
You like designer clothes?
PERFECT you are participant in an economy that creates caste systems and greed , low class and high class, welcome home!
You like movies? Then you support and industry that perpetuates unbalance and propaganda to control the masses.
NOW, you’ve got to make a decision here in what part you want to play in it and how much control you want to have over your own life.
I know, I know, listen you are probably not as religious as I am or as I have been.
I have been radical about sin in my past and I still hold some virtues in pocket to keep me from going over the edge.
But what I am talking about is simply this: There is good, and there is bad within you.
There is hate and there is love within you.
If you think you are going to make it through life without displaying and actively
participation in ALL the emotions between love and hate, good and bad YOU ARE FOOLING YOURSELF!
Not if you want to be excellent!
Excellence take pain my darling, pain in the form of sacrifice and discipline
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Should you maintain your reasonableness and risk being viewed as a contemptuous,
heartless-bitch, or do you strive for creating a “real” emotional bond,
throw caution to the wind, and give him what he desires most?
I’d say that your lane oscillates between the two.
You want to show that you are interested, but not gullible.
You want be kind, but not compromising.
You want to be optimistic, yet sensible and observant.
You cannot be just one or the other because on one end you’ll look like a desperate fool,
and other you’ll look like a desperate bitch!
Most men will talk your panties down are pimps.
And pimps are: smooth talking ramblers who speak in ELOQUENT INSINCERITY.
Know this, what he wants to do, what he would like to do,
what he wishes he could do,
what he’s “going” to do
and what he’s thinking about doing have NOTHING to do with you!!
Making decisions about the direction of your life based on the “hypothetical” indecisions of men will be round about the time you make your biggest misjudgment.
All these do is serve to create a “feeling” that “something”
is about to be done so you can gamble on your faith that it will.
So the order of the day is to take optimal care of yourself FIRST!
This means that you trust your instincts;
you move only when you are comfortable;
you keep your purpose and your mission in the forefront of your mind
ALWAYS! And know that what he offers you has to be in line with your purpose PERIOD!
So here is the deal. If you are with a man, and he has fooked you at least 50 times, then he probably,
in all likelihood, wishes he had the opportunity to fook a “new” woman!
It doesn’t matter how pretty your are or “think you are”, HE WILL WANT ANOTHER WOMAN.
Because you are no longer a novelty, that’s why. And being “new” is what creates sexual excitement/attraction in men.
Him only having eyes for you is a joke, an UNREALITY, a delusional of grandeur on your part at best.
He WANT’s TO FOOK ANOTHER WOMAN, SO GET OVER IT!!
I do not care how fat your arse is; I don’t care how perfect your skin is; I don’t care if your hip to waist ratio is spot on. NONE of that matters if he has put his “peenus” in every hole in your body that the Lord hath made…
HE’S DONE WITH YOU. MISSION COMPLETE!
Now, we do try desperately to stave off our worn out vaginas
Now, we do try desperately to stave off our worn out vaginas by wearing new hair do’s and clothes, some of y’all graceless, wobbly arses take poll dancing lessons, role play in bed, and the really desperate ones invite other women in for a knock down drag out mucus, piss and shyte swapping brigade of funk-filled sex (for which I HAVE found my dumb arse recruiting chics to join my ‘team” back in the day, but luckily nobody was interested in fooking the man I was with, *the irony).
Don’t let Yourself GO!
Anyway, So the deal isn’t to let yourself go, you still have to take your fat arse to the gym, eat right , smell good, look good. Don’t stop trying to improve yourself because the odds of infidelity are high.
You want to improve yourself SO that you can COLLECT YOUR COINS so that you are only enduring emotional struggles from a man with resources instead of some hungry-ass, bathing once duh week nagga who washes his car more than he washes his nut sack!
It’s time to stop the fear you have over him wanting another women, he DOES.
What are you going to do to SECURE your life so that whatever happens, you are not left sick, old and penniless?
This is why CONNECTION doesn’t matter.
This is why ATTRACTION doesn’t matter.
This is why VIRTUE doesn’t matter.
This is why BEAUTY doesn’t matter.
This is why CLASS doesn’t matter.
Sis, step back. Take a breath. Stop fighting with the selfishness of his mind.
It’s a waste of time and energy, and you can’t afford to give those away.
But you know what this really means about sexuality?
It means that we are not wired to have sex as frequently as we do.
This means that sex ‘drive’ is manufactured and created through
“over stimulation” through programming social “norms” about what sex drive is.
Biologically, when a man ejaculates in you, and does it a few times, his mission is complete.
His sex drive naturally diminishes and he no longer has
a biological or a psychological need to continue mating with you.
Now some will say that this is because men are wired to spread their seed around
because he could cum every day if he were screwing a new woman every day.
but that is not healthy for HIM either.
Arousal is manipulated by our environment.
And truth be told, men with nothing to do, no goals, or a drive
to make major accomplishments have an excessive drive for sex.
To me, a man who stays busy WORKING, TOILING, INVENTING,
and hardly any time for me, is a perfect guy.
Get the COINS BOO!
What my help to deprogram yourself from your disease to please and worry about men?
The conclusion of relationships is this: you are going to be lied too.
You ARE being lied too.
And the man telling lies is doing it for his benefit.
The man telling you to “build” with him is doing it for his benefit.
The man pumping and dumping you without a condom is doing it for his benefit.
The man who isn’t ready to marry you is doing it for his benefit.
So what is he doing for YOUR benefit?
Absolutely NOTHING more than YOU require him to do…
Love has nothing to do with honesty.
It has nothing to do with commitment.
It has nothing to do with fidelity.
It has EVERYTHING to do with how incentivized a man is to produce for YOU,
and that is based on your own AMBITION and CLEVERNESS.
Nothing is fair and square in love.. This is why are played over and over and over again…
This is why you are a single mother.
This is why you can’t find a “good” man.
The TRUTH?? EVERYTHING YOU DO WITH A MAN should be for a purpose and a quantifiable benefit to you…
It’s YOU that drives a man to produce.
It is you that gives a man incentive to wash his testicles, shave and get dressed to go conquer the world..
If you have no goals, then YOUR man has no reason to work, and no one to work for.
HE is responsible for your safety and wellbeing, and there is no other reasons for him being in your bed or your heart…
PERIOD.. PUT ON YOUR BLACK HAT!!!
“PUT ON YOUR BLACK HAT”
Life Coach| Artist| Author| Poet
Art by Salkis Re
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Why me? Cause I’ve been the underdog for most of my life.
While a painful position it has been, it was also a gift, because people rarely were pretentious around me. People are only compelled to pretentiousness if they feel the need to “Impress” you.
They didn’t with me, BUT this gave me the opportunity to see into people’s souls, to see the true nature of men AND women..
Don’t come to me if you want to feel good. I don’t do any of that. You come to me to solve your problems and most of the time it will not be pleasant, but it will FREE YOU!
Your identity is yours to create, especially if no one wants to claim you. That’s the fate of copper skin tones who are born on Northern soil.
Maybe you are pretending not to know, but your mirror tell NO lies.
Ask your blood to whisper its secrets in your ear. Let the Sequoia trees secrete the tales of those who burned fires and sang songs under the shade of its leaves.
Heal your heart and your confusion by creating your own legends and hero’s. What are you? Who are you?
If you still do not know, then declare yourself an Eagle.
The Eagle NEVER asks what it is. It doesn’t cut through the clouds wondering if it is good enough to fly. She doesn’t perch upon a tree branch contemplating her worthiness to be there.
The Eagle does not spend its days jealous and fretful over not being able to run like those beautiful Lions are down below. The Eagle is just as it, unaware that there is anything better than being an Eagle..
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Art by Salkis Re
Love Games Played on Broken Hearts”
Written by Salkis Re
A broken heart comes as merely a consequence of living.
And it’s because we are “agreeable” as women, more understanding and forgiving, more accepting, and inclined to second, third, tenth chance givings that we inevitably feel the residue of regret for our understandings…
The solution is not to become intolerable, cold hearted spinsters who make love to donuts and pies in the middle of another night in an empty bed.
It is to understand that with your understanding, comes the inevitable display of his character that will surpass your understandings.
And of course we women cannot walk away blameless. In all good conscience, I couldn’t end this utterance without the admission that women enjoy the suffering men display from their passions. We are professional agitators of the attention and lust of men.
How else could men show love for us without the feeling of loss?
It is impossible to show love without fear.
I admittedly am a propagator for love’s cruelty.
Nonetheless, a woman’s game is the heart’s thermometer testing the temperature of the fever in her man, as she makes him “sick” every so often to encourage his “appreciation” to the surface…
So what is love?
Love is Beautiful Suffering for all parties involved….
A black woman who low self worth, low self esteem and self doubt for much of my life. I never felt like I belonged anywhere, well at least anywhere I wanted to be. So I adopted an aggressive, over sensitive attitude to protect myself from being hurt by people. I tried to do things to face like skin bleaching and severe weight loss diets in hopes of transforming myself into a gorgeous woman entitled to respect and love.
I did so many things under the guise of self improvement and ended up damaging by physical body while creating more to hate about myself.
I’ve learned a lot along the way to self efficacy. And it didn’t come from new make up techniques or having longer hair.
It really came from facing my demons and all the repetitive dialog I had in my head about my self worth.
In my awakening, a heightened level of creativity emerged.
A new level of femininity and my own brand of sensuality came to the surface too.
I want to show you how to accept who you are, TOTALLY and open the flood gates to your own authentic, wild, unconventional representation of your best self. FLAWS AND ALL.
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If we as women ask for this thing called **equality**, than the MEN who agree/give it to us still hold the power.
And what they give us is conjectured power for which they can mitigate and temper as they see fit.
Why do men have power?
Why will they always be more powerful than women?
**Because men do not CARE as must as we do.**
They are disagreeable hunters for acquisition AND SPORT.
They TAKE things for fun, to increase their self worth, you to simply outdo other men,
and these attributes are not in line with the natural inclinations
of most women no matter how much she thinks she thinks like a man.
And this is why we will always need men. We need men to do the heavy lifting.
We need men to carry the load because we don’t want to step our anyone to get to the better life.
We want everyone to have a fair shot, and its because of feelings that
we will never reach the heights of material success
that the average man is biologically designed to reach.
This is why hypergamy exists.
This is why men lead.
And this is why a woman beauty is her biggest asset,
because successful men do not need us for much more than what we mostly are.
A Beautiful, Charming Damsel becomes a queen and lives a life of minimal drudgery.
And that’s really what women want.
Men hurt people, berate people, some even conn people to climb the ladder of success.
We damsels have been sold a lot of lies about our values.
We believe that we can do what men do.
We can work and toil and sweat like men and we will gain the power they enjoy.
But the important point, the MOST important point is that no amount of money a woman has will NEVER make her more attractive.
Her value is not in her independence, it’s in her ability to be a beautiful woman in need of rescuing.
But you PLAY the damsel, you act like you are innocent and vulnerable to get him to do his manly thing which is to protect and take care of you.
Will you have to play dumb?
Will you be a man who you may not find attractive?
More than likely YES…
But your future will be one where you are not struggling or working your fingers to the bone with no time for personal self care.
If you are not into being dependent on a man because you feel that your ambitions will win you freedom,
the stats show that you will be working for less money than your male counterparts.
The stats show that women are being hired more than men because they are cheap labor.
Nothing glamorous about typical work my dear.
Creative work however, is something totally different and satisfying on a level that enhanced mental and physical health….
So what’s the moral of this story?
Go to the gym.
Set goals that make you look, feel and be your best.
Read more about seduction.
Have a curiosity for life.
Learn to be charming.
Learn how to communicate without being intimidating and overbearing.
Be a girl again…
And you will get a man who is willing to work hard for you…
Peace and Love…
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