How Not to Influence People

You Can’t Get to Freedom by thinking that Life is Journey***Only poor, undisciplined, insecure people talk that nonsense about a journey!

Why You Can’t Get a Man: And It’s Not Because of How You Look!

You don’t have love and you think it’s because you are an unattractive black woman with a: dark skin, big nose, overweight, uneducated, no curves etc…It’s not because of ANY of those reasons!!Yes. People you who are apart of this society will come to you with their “programmed” perceptions of your worth. So WHAT!!! Who […]

Go to The Gym!

Self care supports your desires. Self care makes you feel good about who you are. Self care is a soup of oily habits that can also seal your fate! But I am not talking about soaking in a bubble bath or eating some calorically dense powdered donut. I am talking doing what I’m about to […]

You Are Leaving Him Because You Are Bored???

As I coach women lately, I’m finding that many of you are considering ending stable relationships because the man is “boring” and seems to be unable to stimulate you emotionally.   He pays the bills He pays the bills, you don’t have to wonder where food and shelter will come from. You get what ever […]

The One Way to a Healthy Lifestyle

    Doing what you don’t want to do is usually the best thing that you should do.. This is how life goes. All the pleasurable things cause tummy aches, unnecessary loses, lies, betrayal and hardships… I have been talking about simplification for weeks now, and I guess this will be the theme for the […]

Pretty Girls Want to Join the Ugly Girls Club

Hey  There UGLY GIRL!”Transit time 6:19 a.m. Feb.8.2019 Pull of a chair, let me have a chat with you for a moment!You wanna know what funny Ugly Girl? Now that I’m focusing all of my energy on YOU, women who are NOT Ugly, who are actually attractive, pretty, beautiful, are coming to me asking to […]

Beauty for Black Women

So I’ve been hammering at the point of arresting the worry and self doubt you may harbor over how you look. I have had to battle with my self esteem for most of my life. I did things to try to fit on, to try to e liked, try to be LOVED.. And there was […]

Pretty But You Sick???

If your goal is to truly love yourself   If your goal is to truly love yourself and you are not adding what you eat into your transformation cocktail, then you are playing games and fooling yourself at the same time too. Holistic living requires that your diet be in line with nature.   Triggered […]

The Ugly Girls Club!!

The narrative that you have to look a certain to be classified as a woman is agreeing with people who profit from your violation of how NATURE MADE YOU. Stop cowering down and watering down your magic!!Rise black bird, RISE!! You can pretend that you mimic people for whatever reason makes you comfortable. Maybe you […]

1# BEST Way to Accomplish ALL Your Goals

Achieving Your Goals Is Not Done With Vision Boards! Authenticity is overrated. And it will halt all your goals. And people will shame you for pretending. And you’ll feel ashamed for pretending. Then you will go back to what you know. Then realize -AGAIN- that it doesn’t work. Then you’ll revisit trying to change. And […]