So here is the deal. If you are with a man, and he has fooked you at least 50 times, then he probably,
in all likelihood, wishes he had the opportunity to fook a “new” woman!
It doesn’t matter how pretty your are or “think you are”, HE WILL WANT ANOTHER WOMAN.
Because you are no longer a novelty, that’s why. And being “new” is what creates sexual excitement/attraction in men.
Him only having eyes for you is a joke, an UNREALITY, a delusional of grandeur on your part at best.
He WANT’s TO FOOK ANOTHER WOMAN, SO GET OVER IT!!
I do not care how fat your arse is; I don’t care how perfect your skin is; I don’t care if your hip to waist ratio is spot on. NONE of that matters if he has put his “peenus” in every hole in your body that the Lord hath made…
HE’S DONE WITH YOU. MISSION COMPLETE!
Now, we do try desperately to stave off our worn out vaginas
Now, we do try desperately to stave off our worn out vaginas by wearing new hair do’s and clothes, some of y’all graceless, wobbly arses take poll dancing lessons, role play in bed, and the really desperate ones invite other women in for a knock down drag out mucus, piss and shyte swapping brigade of funk-filled sex (for which I HAVE found my dumb arse recruiting chics to join my ‘team” back in the day, but luckily nobody was interested in fooking the man I was with, *the irony).
Don’t let Yourself GO!
Anyway, So the deal isn’t to let yourself go, you still have to take your fat arse to the gym, eat right , smell good, look good. Don’t stop trying to improve yourself because the odds of infidelity are high.
You want to improve yourself SO that you can COLLECT YOUR COINS so that you are only enduring emotional struggles from a man with resources instead of some hungry-ass, bathing once duh week nagga who washes his car more than he washes his nut sack!
It’s time to stop the fear you have over him wanting another women, he DOES.
What are you going to do to SECURE your life so that whatever happens, you are not left sick, old and penniless?
This is why CONNECTION doesn’t matter.
This is why ATTRACTION doesn’t matter.
This is why VIRTUE doesn’t matter.
This is why BEAUTY doesn’t matter.
This is why CLASS doesn’t matter.
Sis, step back. Take a breath. Stop fighting with the selfishness of his mind.
It’s a waste of time and energy, and you can’t afford to give those away.
But you know what this really means about sexuality?
It means that we are not wired to have sex as frequently as we do.
This means that sex ‘drive’ is manufactured and created through
“over stimulation” through programming social “norms” about what sex drive is.
Biologically, when a man ejaculates in you, and does it a few times, his mission is complete.
His sex drive naturally diminishes and he no longer has
a biological or a psychological need to continue mating with you.
Now some will say that this is because men are wired to spread their seed around
because he could cum every day if he were screwing a new woman every day.
but that is not healthy for HIM either.
Arousal is manipulated by our environment.
And truth be told, men with nothing to do, no goals, or a drive
to make major accomplishments have an excessive drive for sex.
To me, a man who stays busy WORKING, TOILING, INVENTING,
and hardly any time for me, is a perfect guy.
Get the COINS BOO!
What my help to deprogram yourself from your disease to please and worry about men?
Your identity is yours to create, especially if no one wants to claim you. That’s the fate of copper skin tones who are born on Northern soil.
Maybe you are pretending not to know, but your mirror tell NO lies.
Ask your blood to whisper its secrets in your ear. Let the Sequoia trees secrete the tales of those who burned fires and sang songs under the shade of its leaves.
Heal your heart and your confusion by creating your own legends and hero’s. What are you? Who are you?
If you still do not know, then declare yourself an Eagle.
The Eagle NEVER asks what it is. It doesn’t cut through the clouds wondering if it is good enough to fly. She doesn’t perch upon a tree branch contemplating her worthiness to be there.
The Eagle does not spend its days jealous and fretful over not being able to run like those beautiful Lions are down below. The Eagle is just as it, unaware that there is anything better than being an Eagle..
Mistress of Words”
Art by Salkis Re
Love Games Played on Broken Hearts”
Written by Salkis Re
A broken heart comes as merely a consequence of living.
And it’s because we are “agreeable” as women, more understanding and forgiving, more accepting, and inclined to second, third, tenth chance givings that we inevitably feel the residue of regret for our understandings…
The solution is not to become intolerable, cold hearted spinsters who make love to donuts and pies in the middle of another night in an empty bed.
It is to understand that with your understanding, comes the inevitable display of his character that will surpass your understandings.
And of course we women cannot walk away blameless. In all good conscience, I couldn’t end this utterance without the admission that women enjoy the suffering men display from their passions. We are professional agitators of the attention and lust of men.
How else could men show love for us without the feeling of loss?
It is impossible to show love without fear.
I admittedly am a propagator for love’s cruelty.
Nonetheless, a woman’s game is the heart’s thermometer testing the temperature of the fever in her man, as she makes him “sick” every so often to encourage his “appreciation” to the surface…
So what is love?
Love is Beautiful Suffering for all parties involved….
A black woman who low self worth, low self esteem and self doubt for much of my life. I never felt like I belonged anywhere, well at least anywhere I wanted to be. So I adopted an aggressive, over sensitive attitude to protect myself from being hurt by people. I tried to do things to face like skin bleaching and severe weight loss diets in hopes of transforming myself into a gorgeous woman entitled to respect and love.
I did so many things under the guise of self improvement and ended up damaging by physical body while creating more to hate about myself.
I’ve learned a lot along the way to self efficacy. And it didn’t come from new make up techniques or having longer hair.
It really came from facing my demons and all the repetitive dialog I had in my head about my self worth.
In my awakening, a heightened level of creativity emerged.
A new level of femininity and my own brand of sensuality came to the surface too.
I want to show you how to accept who you are, TOTALLY and open the flood gates to your own authentic, wild, unconventional representation of your best self. FLAWS AND ALL.
If that sounds like something that you want, please give me a shout by email: email@example.com
Or if you are ready to take the chance and take a plunge, book a session HERE
“MGTOW Will Let the Devil Take Your Pussy”
Written by Salkis Re
Men are saying that they don’t need women in their lives and that women offer nothing.
And men who think like this absolutely do not gain from being with a woman,
AND a woman gains nothing being with you. That is what I call a fair exchange.!
The truth is that men are hitting a “wall” with or without grey hairs, limps penises and pot bellies.
And the problem is that your complaints about women are inspired by YOUR “wall”.
It is not beneficial for women to attempt to mate with men who aren’t interested in that, so guys actually being honest is sooo f’ing refreshing.
Examine your future as well though, because you have an expiration date too..
The men are advising young men towards MGTOW(Men Going Their Own Way) seem to be complaining about what women ought to be,
YET I fail to see images of a emotional euphoria or any high level of happiness because they are NOT caring for women.
Give me some well defined examples of a man’s happiness that is totally devoid of women in it…
Nikola Tesla is the only man I know of who did, and ended up falling in love with a pigeon later on in life…
So listen up, The stats also state that across the board, women make up 70 percent of University graduates.
Black and Latino women outnumber black men in education, for every 100 men in school, there are 200 women in school as well.
And guess who the employers will hire: women.
Because it’s cheaper to keep her than having to pay more for hiring men.
So very soon my phallus carrying friends, there will be nothing for women to GET from any man other than his penis,
and I going to get the pop corn ready to the mating game tournament into the greatest show on earth
when you guys are reduced to the proficiency of your penises and nothing more.
You men are be suckered in by propaganda and slowly, your relevance is being snatch from under your nose.
Fight for your ability to be self sufficient men!!
Public policy caters to women and you guys don’t have a MGTOW programs that demand and services
and outreach for men in school and the going into the workplace.
What you’d rather do is complain about women wanting to be supported by men when that is the nature of things.
But your wish is coming like a freight train on fire. Be prepared to be happy, and irrelevant guys..
“The Black Hat Society” Life Coach ~Salkis Re
If you would like to speak with me for spiritual advisement as it pertains to love,
relationships, mentoring, wellness/weight management or anything troubling your heart,
“You Will Pick The Wrong Person Again, So Rela
Written by Salkis Re
You pick partners not based on what you want, but what you are familiar with! You have your list of demands and characteristics that a man must have. And you are proud of this well thought out list because it represents a sane mind, a woman who exercises conscientiousness and reasonability.
But your list most likely contains what you’ve been TOLD to look for, NOT what you emotions predisposed you too.
You know how many women actually find the guy that fits all the characteristics on her list, but then she has lunch with her girlfriends and expresses how “boring” he is??
He’s perfect! He has everything, but he bores you.
Because he is unable to give you the “suffering” that YOU have come to associate with the feeling of REAL love.
Your Mother gives you a template for love, and if was irate and loud and intimidating, you will subconsciously seek men who will criticize and berate you.
If you had a Father whom you observed to be weak and emotionally fragile, you will find a partner who is weak and needs constant reassurance which you WILL find frustrating, BUT it provides a LOVE you know!!🤔
If a partner’s personality is NOT familiar with how you interpret love, you are going to consider him a miss-match.
The WRONG guy is the guy you go for because he is represents what REAL love is to you.
It is near impossible to rewire your templates for love, but you can “reframe” how you react and respond to the person representing your love template.
You like bullies? Then don’t let the bully be a bully to YOU.
You like loud, patronizing men?
Do NOT let him define YOU with his insults
And so on..
“The Black Hat Society”
Artist/Life Coach/Medicine Woman
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