He Doesn’t Want to F$#@ You Anymore

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“Goddess Energy”
Art by Salkis Re

 

 

When you beg for love, attention, affection or sex within a relationship, it means that the intimacy you provide no longer holds any value or meaning. If you are a woman Begging for any of those things, this means that you are leading with your vagina and have *used it to assert (total) value. But after something has been experienced, the *want for it decreases as with all things that you acquire. People grow resentful when you respond to them in spite of their unfairness because they know they haven’t earned nor do they deserve what you give. Familiarity breeds contempt is the old saying and it rings true unwaveringly.

 

Sex is exciting when it is wrapped around a woman who is constantly changing and growing and improving herself. When you maintain your mystery, a curiosity for life, and you should NOT be the same person you were the year before.

You must make it a point to become

  • better,,
  • smarter
  • faster,
  • efficient,
  • sleek,
  • clever,
  • charming and the like in order to hold a man’s interest captive for the duration.

Showing excessive need for attention means that you are bored with YOURSELF, and you need him to entertain and distract you from your internal dislikes. This is the reverse order, for we as women provide the “escape” and the fantasy for men. Begging is like a magician revealing the secrets behind his magic tricks: if you know how he does it, you would be as amazed by the presentation.

You think seduction is something literal and obvious when it has nothing to do with reality at all. It is the spark of one’s imagination in anticipation if what I’ve might receive.

Your man should wonder if you love him occasionally. He should always be concerned with measuring up. If you allow him to be rewarded through your initiatives towards sex, then where will the incentive to please YOU come from?

Hard questions, harsh realities, but knowledge is POWER!

The routine breeds contempt. Furthermore, you give your body over in spite unsavory conditions, lack of production, out of boredom and desperation and wonder why there’s no incentive for him to show you love.

“Mistress of Words”

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“Spiritual Advisor” ~Salkis Re

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🤗Art by Salkis Re
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Don’t Have Sex Anymore!

I know, I know… some of y'all nymphs got to have sausages in your cookies on a daily basis. I'm not of that school at all. I do think less is more when it comes to intimacy simply because the more you do it, the more pressure it is to be creative and skillful  and "new". I don't think I ever bought into pressure of being the 'best' lover. I actually cringe at the thought of it! To me, it takes the love out of love-making and turns it into a rate card.

I remember meeting this guy once. I really liked him. He was sexy and very 'intellectual' but I could tell he was a sex hound. You know them guys that look at girls booties while they talking to you but they are so entranced that they didn't realized they almost stopped talking in order to look at them, lol. We finally got around to the subject of sex and he called himself a "Performance Lover". I said, "What's that?!" while frowning. He said that he aims to please women in bed. So I asked him being pleasured and he kind of brushed it off as unimportant.

That had me thinking. If you are seeking to make a good impression over sharing and expressing love through sex then its not about love at all, it's about satisfying your ego and positioning yourself to manipulate your partner. There really is no other reason to aspire to be the best at sex other than that. Of course no one wants to be awful in bed, but to me the sex act should be instinctive, not switching positions because you're timing your moves.

After we talked about sex, I was kind of disappointed because I knew he wasn't interested in me on an emotional level and I wasn't about to try break his 'best lover' record. Karma sutra be damned! Cause you do all that pole dancing acrobatics and the end result is the same: worrying if you're are just as hot to him as the first time you met...

Annie Art Series

Annie Art
“Annie” Original acrylic art by Salkis Re
art African
Sketching Annie’s mentor ‘The Kitty”
sketch art by Salkis Re
Playing with background colors, never know until the end what it will be.
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Editing and i paint to get things just right..

 

All of my art pieces seem to have a theme of sadness. I don’t know why I gravitate towards the sad things of my life but to me they hold the most emotion. They give me the reason to pick up a paint brush.

I don’t think I would have to inspiration to create without going to the dark places of my mind. In some weird way it fuels all this creative energy in me.  I think I’m even a good kisser because of heartbreak..lol I know.. I know… lol

The Story of this painting: The Kitty ask Annie to come play and Annie said sadly,”I can”t move from this spot!” Why can”t you move, said the kat. “Because mommy said not to move”. Kitty said, “Well where is your leash to keep u from moving?” Annie thought about for a moment.. Oh I know! It’s in my mind! “Eye Love Your Eyes” by Salkis Re