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“Hitting The WALL at 40🤔???”
Ok so apparently, these MGTOW men are learning terms to shame and devalue women. One in particular is “women over 40 hitting a wall”, and it means that she is “stuck” because her sexual market value is on the decline.
Let me tell you ladies something, you are going to have to burst these men’s bubbles in a “ladylike” manner.
Too many of them feel they have the right to berate your value/looks and take pleasure in doing so.
And you have remained tactful and sensitive to their feelings your entire life just for these fools to call you old and worthless??
I’m sure in your love life, you’ve given ugly men a chance,I’m almost sure that the majority of men you’ve slept with were NOT better looking than YOU!
I’m sure that many of your sexual encounters were only worth anything because YOU knew how to bring YOURSELF to orgasm.
And you let these second rate, fifth rate mudducks set the stage for you to question your worth???
You’d better thing again!.
You better scan them for flaws IMMEDIATELY when a man pursues you. And tell him that he’s too short; or his nose is to big for his face; or that his hands are smaller than yours; or that his mother should have made his slew-footed ass wear corrective shoes as a kid; or ask him how it feels to be able to see his peenus cause his gut is in the way; or that he needs more testosterone for that “struggle beard” to grow; or that his “peenus” is “just average” or below average in size AT BEST.
Long gone are the days for which you could “gingerly imply” dissatisfaction. These men nowadays are be coached by disgruntled, miserable, blue pill popping, lonely ass men to treat women like shyte because we are looking to “level up”. You have get over or should I say “cure yourself” of any idealism you have around romantic relationships and the ACTUAL value that a man can bring to your life.
Do NOT entertain emotional manipulation AT ALL!!!!
And that usually starts with them expressing what they feel about how you look, then he will call you insecure if you reject his sexual advances and cautious nature, and all this is done for you to doubt your VALUE, arrest your MORALS so that you can OPEN you legs to HIM..
These men have to know from day one that you are unbothered, relaxed, USE to *excellent treatment and hard to impress! Whether it’s a lie or not is FORKING irrelevant! You have to show “privilege”, mentally, physically and emotionally.
When you are over 40 the dream is OVER: Let the GAMES begin..
“What Woman Are You?”
Faith in yourself is built on a foundation of work not hope or prayer or wishing.
You have a mind and you know what you “should be doing”, yet you wrestle with yourself.
You allow other women to rate your your level of competence and relevance on a
“fact sheet” derived from their summations if how you look.
Women perpetuate division and the casting of other women, and we are fervently vicious in that regard.
So where is this fairness that nostalgically speak of, cause I’ve never seen it!
Worried about what the next woman has but you do nothing
outside the level of laziness to change your own condition, to improve yourself.
Everybody’s FUGAZI out here:Everybody!!
Listen woman, yeah you!
What do you know about women? If you are a woman, you should quite a bit,
but if you are liar to yourself you might struggle in seeing under the veil of those around you.
I said before and I will say it again so that you can Direct your energy to pursuits that will pay you dividends.
You are unlike any other woman.
This is a fact.
And this means that you have to own that.
And accept what comes with that.
The fact that you are unlike other women means that there is no such thing as equality.
To execute Equality would mean that you and I were born at the same time,
have the same anatomical structure, emotional development, share the same IQ, biological functions and so on.
But we do not.
And it’s because you and I cannot physically, mentally nor emotionally
be identical that we should not spend one fucking moment fretting over “comparisons”.
I Wanted to Be So Many Things..
I am not academically astute. I struggled in school something awful. I thought I wanted to be a Nurse,
but I hated blood. I wanted to be a Lawyer but my self esteem was to low to accept that vision.
I wanted to be a Clinical Psychologist but the amount of schooling for that just disgusted me.
What was I looking for above all else? To be “somebody”.
I thought an academic route would give me the respect and the love that my esthetics could not afford me.
Everything I used to do was for THEM to accept me.
For black people to care about me, for white people to respect me, for men to Love me etc…
Chasing what I wasn’t designed to do or be took a massive chunk out of my life!
Don’t waste time.
Read what I’m about to say carefully, this is the KEY to success.
Figure out what you are capable of being and then figure out what you are willing to SACRIFICE to become that.
Please understand that you must choose your “SACRIFICE”
or should I say the “PRICE” you are willing to pay to be the woman you want to be.
Because everything COSTS.
And if you don’t choose your SUFFERING (yes I said suffering)
deliberately, you will end up sacrificing something
other than what’s needed to become the woman you aspire to be!
Be what you want to be, but being what you CAN be trumps ALL!
on matters of self esteem, relationships, wellness and sexuality .
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So Who Am I?
Artist/Life Coach/ Medicine Woman
Art by Salkis Re
What people have the time to speak about is what they have concern for, and this includes you. Take criticism as inverted care, a destructive side of passion and admiration, and more often than not, self reflection.
Nonetheless, you are charged with fluidity, to keep your heart moving and your soul occupied with whatever you are called to do.
Life is truly to short to give such heavy credence to the emotional whims of others. In fact, objective criticism usually followed by a solicited quest for help, and it should be sought after by those who are further along than you are.
This is the parameters necessary to CARE what one thinks about you or what you are doing.
Remember, you ARE what YOU say you are.
A Life Coach
A Black Woman who has sojourned her entire to find peace, self love, and the expression of a purposeful life. I have taken on the task of HEALER using my creative/art skill and communicative means. I hope you share this message with all you know. I hope you reach out to if you need guidance and instruction. Let’s make 2018 truly the best year ever!
“Artist/ Life Coach”