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“Black Men Are ALL Colorists!!!!
Written by Salkis Re
So word on the street is that NON black men love and appreciate black women more than our own black brothers do. The word on the street is that all black men are “colorists” and prefer light skin black women with straight hair and acquiline features. Word on the street is that black men HATE women who have dark skin and “nappy hair”.
This is just the word on the street, so I can’t definitively say that I agree that ALL our brothers feel this way NOR that these accusations hold no merit.
Well, I have been slighted, passed over and berated for the tone of my flesh by my “brothers”. I have been called a big-lipped, MonKey by brothers before. I have been exploited and degraded by my brothers because of how I looked..
My SISTERS did all those things to me too, lest the sexual part. There’s a Big, Fat, Game being played here.
The Name of this game is called:
“Point the Finger”.
And all this “THEY don’t love us” talk, if we are going to be totally transparent, should include SISTERS TOO!
We don’t love ourselves.
And sadly even some of our chocolate sistren shout self praises around how “exceptional” they are because they have smaller noses and lips “IN SPITE” of being dark skin. What is she really saying here: I may have darker skin put my features are like white women, so I’m NOT THAT UGLY!!
We class and caste our sisters with as much fervor as any man outside our circles. We say we are abused by them but offer no emotional refuge for our castaways to run too.
We say “Well honey, truth be told is that it’s not because you are dark, it’s because you are an ugly woman who HAPPENS to be dark”.
The Game is a Full Cord Press!
If you are a dark skin woman facing travail because of your tone AND features, alas my love, you have NO REAL ALLIES.
You are alone in your sorrows, but that is not necessarily a bad thing.
You simply are given by the grace of nature an opportunity to be a “sovereign thinker”. No one wants you to be a member of their club, but this means you get to be totally YOUR SELF instead of assimulating to the pressure and anguish that EVERY WOMAN puts herself through to conform to the rules of society and the social clubs they desperately want to be apart of.
You are alone.
And the beauty of that is that YOU have Card Blanche authority over the rules and regulations of your Mental Terrain..
And trust me, if you seize the opportunity that being on the outside of the pretentious, degradation fest that most of our women put themselves through, you will become a GOD/DESS over your precious gift called YOUR LIFE!!!
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Written by Salkis Re
It’s more beneficial to think realistically than it is to think positively.
But to think realistically can offer up as much delusions as bright-side thinking too.
Positive thinking feels good, but it does not contain a *sense of urgency and the FIRE of discomfort that is the 👉blood supply of transformation.
And realistic thinking at times makes it difficult for you to perceive the potential you posses to be more than what you are at this moment.
I see so many of you who are professional complainers, you cry yourselves down obsessing over the “flaws” of their bodies.
And those flaws might very well be “real”, but the potential to be better through diet and exercise,
going out and touching your feet to earth, prayer or mediation all are tactics to improve but are negated to wallow in pity.
All practical things to change your reality are thwarted and exchanged for excuses which give you a painless “OUT”.
This is really what positive thinking amounts to for many women: a stall!
Do diligence is needed here.
Do not think that things are worse than what they are(realistic) and do not think things are just fine(positive)
Accept what you SEE as real and then start the active task of self improving.
In others words: just be honest with yourself and stop making up delusions of grandeur or defeat!!
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We are too cavalier when it comes to that gateway that is nestled betweenour knees.
Too many men have had access to it for nothing more than a kind word and Big Mac with super sized fries…
It takes no effort to get inside of you. You don’t require him to do any grand in exchange for the risk you take in opening your uterus and cervix to his bacteria and anxiety..
Trash receptacles for sperm is what many women have become, and we are having more sex than ever before in history, yet we are more depressed and dissatisfied than ever before too.
Now men want to claim that they are the prize because they do all the work. They have to entertain us, feed us, cloth us, teach us, protect us, yet we bring nothing to the table according to them.
To answer that, I will ask this: what price should you pay to have lifetime access to my body, my heart and my mind? How much is gaining almost total control over me worth?
👉How much is my nurturing and forgiveness worth?
👉How much are the babies that I will give birth to worth?
👉How much is all the time I have taken preoccupied with while simultaneously being taken off the dating market worth?
You can make the money back that you’ve given me should you decide that I am not the one for you, but what you can’t give ME back is the time I put into a relationship with you.
That part is gone forever. Every year that I am with you, the pool of other candidates that could take your place diminishes.
And you expect that a woman isn’t entitled to care and resources when she’s dealing with a race against the clock from you and any other man who shows interest?
Your role is your role and you are curse to work and I am cursed to obey you. Live with it!
Or don’t take on the responsibility…
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Older women are seen as the bitter, jealous,expired enemies of younger women. This is done deliberately to keep us out of the “catacombs” where we can,exchange secrets and confer “degrees” amongst each other. There isn’t a “new” that you’ll experience heartbreak so nothing that any woman knows could ever be “antiquated”….
The narrative of competition is heavily perpetuated within our society, and as a result younger women throw away and totally disregard the wisdom right within their reach. Older women were young once and if you are young now, old age is walking by your side too.
The appropriate way to view your world as a woman is with insatiable curiosity and respect for knowledge wherever it may reside. You are no better than any other woman, not really. You have the same fears and desires as all of us no matter what your station in life may be at this moment.
Talk to you mothers, your grandmothers, women you meet bump into in the fitting room or while standing at the check out isle.
Every woman you meet can potentially solve a problem you are facing, any woman you talk to could change your life in a few words..
Your “sisters” are everywhere…
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I want to hammer that point home today.
Because you and many MANY others are under some impression that in this life,
all you have to do is be good and your actions will be reciprocated by the other you are being selfless with.
Nothing can be further form he truth.
The truth is that BAD people often win in this world, and that reality for freakin unfair
YET it is entirely true.
_Open your eyes._.
Look who is winning in your circle, in the world.
Is it the bruised knuckle man **working 3 jobs** to keep up payments on his trailer home?
Is it the virtuous housewife who is in love with a husband,
**the only man she’s ever slept with** whom she hardly sees because he’s at his other
woman’s house to get a peaceful sleep and a break
from the constant racket of his screaming kids?
How many women you know who sacrifice their entire
lives and sadly get people who feel the need to muster up a
“thank you” for her selflessness and sacrifice?
You know people like this everywhere.
You may be one of them yourself!
To be GOOD is something you do to feel self esteem, to feel good about yourself. I get it. I AM it.
But there is another side that is necessary to bring forth when you want
to accomplish things, and unfortunately VIRTUE DOES NOT GET THE JOB DONE.
Virtue will have you excusing mistreatment.
Virtue will have you passing up opportunities to
further yourself because it may cause inconvenience for another person.
Selflessness will have you depleted and and drained and badly in need of self replenishment and self care.
Bad people give themselves what they need, no matter who gets hurt or disrupted in the process.
And the BiGGEST of all secrets is that you will have to adopt selfishness to accomplish your goals.
There is no way to climb the ladder of success without a few bruises, self inflicted and administers to others.
I don’t care what they say.
Now you can opt for virtue and sleep in your car, or bum food off your family and friends because you are anti “the System” or anti government.
You could certainly say you’ve had it with the world system and move to a hut in some remote island and live off potatoes and water while laying in the sun all day.
BUT YOU ARE IN THE SYSTEM!!!
GET OVER IT!
You have a cell phone?
Great. You are a customer of enterprise, of slave labor and unfair pay.
You like designer clothes?
PERFECT you are participant in an economy that creates caste systems and greed , low class and high class, welcome home!
You like movies? Then you support and industry that perpetuates unbalance and propaganda to control the masses.
NOW, you’ve got to make a decision here in what part you want to play in it and how much control you want to have over your own life.
I know, I know, listen you are probably not as religious as I am or as I have been.
I have been radical about sin in my past and I still hold some virtues in pocket to keep me from going over the edge.
But what I am talking about is simply this: There is good, and there is bad within you.
There is hate and there is love within you.
If you think you are going to make it through life without displaying and actively
participation in ALL the emotions between love and hate, good and bad YOU ARE FOOLING YOURSELF!
Not if you want to be excellent!
Excellence take pain my darling, pain in the form of sacrifice and discipline
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“You Can Be Anything, Now What?”
Written by Salkis Re
You want to learn how to levitate and walk through walls and see auras and things, but you can’t control what you put in your mouth or commit to anything practical that will assist in repairing your physical and mental state?????
Ohhh you better wake up during the “witching hours” and put some energy into your mortal life instead trying to find ways to run from your shame and guilt.
You Hide your low self esteem with finery and excess, and the only emotional sovereignty you can muster up is displayed in your ability to sexually seduce the minds of undisciplined people who are also looking to escape their reality.
And here you are, afraid and hesitant to do ALL the things that offer ACTUAL improvement to your flesh and bone life, so your solution is to fly away…
GROUND yourself and prepare to get your hands dirty rebuilding YOU. Do what you have to do so you can stop wishing you were a balloon…
Art by Salkis Re
Painting: “Am I Black Enough?”
Why is it so hard for you to consider how you feel FIRST??
I will tell you why.
Because a long time ago, when you were just a little girl, someone you loved and depended on told you it was wrong not to want to share.
These people were giants to you and you looked up to them literally and figuratively. They told you that you have to listen to what you are told regardless of what your desires were. They told you that it was wrong and disrespectful to be or show anger.
So you learned to hide your emotions.
You learned that for people to love you, you could not disagree with them in anyway lest you become a disappointment to them and yourself.
And so, here we are today…
And the same reasonings, the same thinking process you had as a little still prevails.
So what is the truth here?
The truth is that this all proves how “conditional” love actually is.
It also proves that what you thought you had to be was never the TRUTH, for it was merely
Indoctrination to conform you for easier control over your behavior and actions.
You are FREE now baby girl…
You are no longer under the jurisdiction of your parents; furthermore, lovers and husbands that enter your life are there by your grace and the generosity within you to give them the opportunity to be a “part” of your life…
Take these broken wings and learn to fly again..
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Written by Salkis Re
Self esteem challenges can happen in people who are attractive,
in people with higher IQs, in people with money, in people who are religious etc.
You’d be surprised at the type of people who really emotionally fragile out here.
Don’t let appearances fool you…
I remember a “Guy Friday” I had working for me at my salon back in the day.
He was dark skin an older man, but you could tell he was extremely handsome
in his youth because he still had six pack abs and pretty white teeth.
He come in a few times a week and clean my shop for a six pack of beer,
pork rinds and on Fridays, I threw in a bucket of Kentucky Fried Chicken just to see his face light up.
He didn’t want much, he didn’t need much really because of his lifestyle.
But he wasn’t ashamed of his standard of living.
He was quick-witted, wisdom filled, and his sense of humor would shortened any difficult day I’d have.
I remember him inviting me to his home that he’d often call his “Palace”.
He was so proud that he had this home and he often told stories of his lovers tryna lay claim to it by leaving panties and toothbrushes behind..lol
So I went to see the palace, and it turned out to be an old, tiny,
Southern Georgia shack! He had a dirty couch on the patio with a rickety table next to it to prop his beer.
He called it his “seating area” lllllmao.
I asked, “You entertain your hoes here Millified?”
“Yes Boss Lady, haha ha ha”, he said with his raspy voice.
He opened the door and invited me inside. The floor boards screeched and some of them lifted when we took a step.
I was scared I was going to fall through the floor, so he took my hand and we zig-zagged through the living.
He chuckled looking at my “wtf” face. But he still wasn’t fazed by my frowning giggles.
The floor of the entire house was on an incline, you could have slid right into the kitchen if the floor was wet.
The walls were painted with dirt. A few water bugs came out to see who was in the house too.
He had plastic lawn cheers in front of a 52 inch TV. That TV was the focal piece of the house and would be the reason all the ladies didn’t want to leave his chateau, hahaha!
He said he had cable and he’d make some squash casserole and fried chicken if I ever wanted to come hang out on Sunday after church.
We went to his bedroom and he had a queen size mattress on the floor that looked like he pulled it out a land fill,
and the bedroom closet was almost as small as a medicine cabinet.
His bathroom couldn’t hold two people at the same time; you could literally shit, shower and shave all in one cause it was so damn tiny!
He said he was ready to whip up a batch of red Kool Aid if I was thirsty and motioned him not to bother.
When the tour was done, I looked at him in disbelief.
I wanted him to see how disgusted I was,
but he continued to look at me and laugh.
He was unfazed by my distain, and I showed my distain because I knew he didn’t give a shit what I thought.
He was proud of himself. He was proud of who he was. He had “pretty teeth” so to him he was a “pretty boy”..lllllmao
He was one of the few people I’ve met that was just unbothered by people’s opinions,
he stated what he was and that was all his heart and mind had room for.
The rest of us have so much more than him, but we disregard it for the perpetual fear that others may feel we are not good enough.
Your self esteem is built on a weaker foundation than his one room shack!
All while you look good, you work a so-called “good job”.
You can save for vacation and occasionally splurge on nonessential things,
but you still are afraid of what people think of you.
You don’t take a chance, because your thoughts of failure plaque you without rest.
You have their degrees, their licenses and certificates but still feel invalid..
Your Perception of who you are has been “Given” to you.
That is why you are not empowered, and that is why you live so unsure of yourself in spite of all your accolades.
My Guy Friday stayed happy, even with what I classified as an impoverished lifestyle, he had a mentality of wealth.
Maybe that was the reason he remained so attractive and charismatic.
He could have been more I suppose had he taken advantage of the education system, maybe he would be more than hustler.
But that was my opinion of him, and one he didn’t share in…
He wasn’t intimidated by others who had more.
He talked to everybody, and free beer and free meals were the regular thank you gifts he received for his humor and charismatic optimism.
So what will you do?
Continue to live in fear of not being good enough,
not living good enough,
not being attractive enough,
not having enough money to be enough?
When will you arrest those hypothesizing thoughts of imaginary restraints?
When you say fuck it, this is what I am and I’m fabulous as is???
You can do it right now.
You don’t need to kneel before a Queen,
or get a certificate in the mail,
or have an engagement ring on your finger to claim your right to feel fantastic about yourself today!!
Make the shift.
Make the decision..
And be what YOU say you are…
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