Being a Dumb Woman IS Profitable!

Transit Time 7:32 a.m. Well I’ve been up since 4 a.m. actually. Early rising helps bye think about the message I want to convey. So I thought about. And this post came to mind because of an exchange I had about relationships with a man on my facebook page Men LOVE to tell a woman […]

Why You Can’t Get a Man: And It’s Not Because of How You Look!

You don’t have love and you think it’s because you are an unattractive black woman with a: dark skin, big nose, overweight, uneducated, no curves etc…It’s not because of ANY of those reasons!!Yes. People you who are apart of this society will come to you with their “programmed” perceptions of your worth. So WHAT!!! Who […]

You Are Leaving Him Because You Are Bored???

As I coach women lately, I’m finding that many of you are considering ending stable relationships because the man is “boring” and seems to be unable to stimulate you emotionally.   He pays the bills He pays the bills, you don’t have to wonder where food and shelter will come from. You get what ever […]

The Best Way To GetWhat You Want!

Every woman should think of the “Bigger Picture”. Never make decisions based on the moment….. Always think of your future when you are trying to decide what to do. You will change. You will age. You will be less in demand sexually later than you are now. SO you must plan. Do what is best […]

The One Way to a Healthy Lifestyle

    Doing what you don’t want to do is usually the best thing that you should do.. This is how life goes. All the pleasurable things cause tummy aches, unnecessary loses, lies, betrayal and hardships… I have been talking about simplification for weeks now, and I guess this will be the theme for the […]

Beauty for Black Women

So I’ve been hammering at the point of arresting the worry and self doubt you may harbor over how you look. I have had to battle with my self esteem for most of my life. I did things to try to fit on, to try to e liked, try to be LOVED.. And there was […]

Pretty But You Sick???

If your goal is to truly love yourself   If your goal is to truly love yourself and you are not adding what you eat into your transformation cocktail, then you are playing games and fooling yourself at the same time too. Holistic living requires that your diet be in line with nature.   Triggered […]

The Ugly Girls Club!!

The narrative that you have to look a certain to be classified as a woman is agreeing with people who profit from your violation of how NATURE MADE YOU. Stop cowering down and watering down your magic!!Rise black bird, RISE!! You can pretend that you mimic people for whatever reason makes you comfortable. Maybe you […]

1# BEST Way to Accomplish ALL Your Goals

Achieving Your Goals Is Not Done With Vision Boards! Authenticity is overrated. And it will halt all your goals. And people will shame you for pretending. And you’ll feel ashamed for pretending. Then you will go back to what you know. Then realize -AGAIN- that it doesn’t work. Then you’ll revisit trying to change. And […]

To Know You Is To Control you!

“I Wanna Know You” Written by Salkis Re  I want to know if YOU MEAN what you say, if YOU ACT like you say, if YOU DO what you say… This is the goal of anyone who wants to get to know you. And they will find out, just as YOU WILL for them, that […]