Should We Stop Wearing Weaves?

“Everybody Wants to Look Better Than They Actually Are”
January 24, 2019 8:04 a.m.

Women wear WIGS to be more attractive, and Men wear 👉WOMEN to be more attractive..

Your Self Esteem Coach, Salkis Re


Everbody trying to look better than they actually are out here..

Shaming You is a Subjugation Tactic

I’ll tell you why Shaming women is so effective, it’s effective because we WANT to subjugated, we WANT to comply, we WANT to help, we WANT fairness.

And because we are by nature inclined to comply, these campaigns to make us feel worthless and nonsensical work because women are NOT negotiators.

I have never met a man yet who felt “shame” about what he liked have , be or do!! But women are put on blast accused of being unreasonable, impractical, delusional and emotionally unstable at every turn.

This is because men know that more times than not, we want give in, we’d rather have fairness than GET WHAT WE WANT..

Please stop taking men seriously


How Sway?

Please stop taking men seriously. It’s all a game, chess moves if you will. The way to get you to become a team player is by “leading” you and to lead you he has to show you that he knows what’s best for you.

He has to establish that his goals should be yours (this is what get you to open your legs for him before it safe or profitable to do so).

This is also why “showing” that you are smarter than him or 👉aggressively noncompliant is makes you unattractive in general to men..


Have your convictions and your boundaries set in STONE..

Your “Self Esteem Coach”

~Salkis Re

To Know You Is To Control you!

“I Wanna Know You” Written by Salkis Re 

I want to know

if YOU MEAN what you say,

if YOU ACT like you say,

if YOU DO what you say…

This is the goal of anyone who wants to get to know you.

And they will find out, just as YOU WILL for them,

that they don’t entirely mean what they say or do what they say.

We call it being cordial or having manners, or establishing rapport.

The goal in any courtship, in any “I want to get to know you”

session is to simply to establish that you are EQUALLY YOKED

The, (I’m just like you, and that’s why you should like me) thing.

It’s all a feast of selling yourself until one of you is no longer

afraid of how you are perceived by the other.

When he is no longer afraid of LOSING you, then he

will start to show you who he really is…

Carry On

Your Life Coach” ~Salkis Re

Art by Salkis Re

Single Mothers Be AWARE!

“Single Mothers”
From the Desk of Salkis Re January 2, 2019

You Are a High Risk Investment

If you are a single mother, you are automatically classed as emotionally unstable, wounded, used up, and a financial trap!!
Now, those of you single mothers who do make “good” money may fair a (little) better as you will get men who want to commit, BUT you are getting offers because you can shoulder your own (weight/burden/financial risk) when you are offered a relationship.

Order in the court here!!!!

Our BLACK PILL compendium states that any man who is in your face and digging in your vagina as a single mother, isn’t there because he’s so “IN LOVE”, he is there because he’s counting YOUR money as a to subsidize his income..

“For All that I Do” Art by Salkis Re

Let me make something clear here for slow folks: Every person wants SOMETHING from a relationship, so this isn’t about accusing anyone of immorality because they have agendas for their self interests. This is about YOU understanding that as a SINGLE MOTHER the likelihood of you being taken advantage of both sexually and financially is VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY HIGH.. 


WHY?

BECAUSE THE ASSUMPTION IS THAT YOU DON’T HAVE OPTIONS!!!!

So you cannot afford to believe in any fairytales, or allow your positive thinking to make decision on your behalf when the majority of men you reveal your “situation” to will have pseudo psycho analyzed you as a woman with little to NO OPTIONS and in desperate need of “quality time” with any man who seems to have tolerance for your children..
TAKE THE BLACK PILL!!
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“Your Spirit Healer”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re

New Year’s Eve Message

New Year’s Eve Message:

How to Transform

Written by Salkis Re
This is the last day of 2018.

Abstract portrait painting, African Art
“Amara” African Art by Salkis Re

You made it through…
2019 approaches and she a dinner plate placed in front of you with nothing on it, ready for you to fill it with delicious experiences, more confidence and self actualization than the year before.

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But you will have to get over your need to be accepted though. You’ll have to learn to appreciate your alone time whether it’s experienced on purpose or by consequence.You will need to accept that you are not as perfect as you try so hard to make people believe. You may have to conclude that you are that smart or that your looks are just “mildly” attractive.

Disarm the Critic!

And the addition of the truth is not a downplay or self degradation because truthfully, you do that to yourself even with a cheering squad at your disposal..It’s about disarming the critic in your head once and for all..

What is your sweet spot,

your niche and where is that little corner called the “square” that your feet occupies for which no other feet can share? You cannot be everything, but its time to be DO what you actually can do. It’s time to pull off what fits YOU, not what’s trending. You jump around in emotional discord which you prefer to call *boredom, but *Boredom is just a kinder title for depression..

And you are depressed because you don’t like what you are.

SO we need to fix that.

Not with lies, but with the TRUTH for 2019..
Who Am I?

“Your Spirit Healer”~Salkis Re

Art by Salkis Re

Painting: “Amara”

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