How Not to Influence People

You Can’t Get to Freedom by thinking that Life is Journey***Only poor, undisciplined, insecure people talk that nonsense about a journey!

You Are Leaving Him Because You Are Bored???

As I coach women lately, I’m finding that many of you are considering ending stable relationships because the man is “boring” and seems to be unable to stimulate you emotionally.   He pays the bills He pays the bills, you don’t have to wonder where food and shelter will come from. You get what ever […]

Why Women Stay With Bad Men!

Someone “made” you feel ugly? Some “made” you feel insecure? Someone “made” your worthless? All he did was express how he felt about you.. He gave you his perspective and packaged it with a sales pitch. He habitually stated that pitch until your resistance withered away. Why didn’t you defend yourself? Why didn’t YOU walk […]

The One Way to a Healthy Lifestyle

    Doing what you don’t want to do is usually the best thing that you should do.. This is how life goes. All the pleasurable things cause tummy aches, unnecessary loses, lies, betrayal and hardships… I have been talking about simplification for weeks now, and I guess this will be the theme for the […]

1# BEST Way to Accomplish ALL Your Goals

Achieving Your Goals Is Not Done With Vision Boards! Authenticity is overrated. And it will halt all your goals. And people will shame you for pretending. And you’ll feel ashamed for pretending. Then you will go back to what you know. Then realize -AGAIN- that it doesn’t work. Then you’ll revisit trying to change. And […]

3 Simple Ways to Get Him Chasing You Again!

You try to fix your relationship When you try to fix a relationship by giving, you actually make him pull away further. You don’t reward a complacent heart with charitable humility!!! Don’t be so hard on yourself, you will do better. What happens with most of us is that at the first sign of trouble, […]

We Are Not Like Men, But We Can Be Guided By Them”

“We Are Not Like Men, But We Can Be Guided By Them” Transit time January 25, 2019 3:45 a.m. 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻 👉Men: Give Love / Women: React 👉Men: Say What They Have Knowledge In/  Women: Say What you Want to hear. 👉Men: Are Vulnerable Mentally / Women: Are vulnerable Physically 👉Men: Are Impersonal / Women: Take […]

What Self Esteem NEVER IS!!

“What They See is NOT What You Are!” Transmitted on January 23, 2019 7:43 a.m. Self esteem has NOTHING to do with how you look! You planned your look in the bathroom, You rehearsed in your head people’s reactions and responses to how you look . You’ve spent money to create an image in hopes […]

So You Wanna be a Sister Wife???

A viewer came to me expressing her desire to be a sister-wife..Here’s what I shared with her: I have not seen any long term success with it anyone really. Not sure what it is but it seems like that relationship dynamic has a high turnover rate and the lifespan is usually 2 years no more […]

“Assertiveness Training for So-Called Unattractive Women”

January 18, 2019 Let me tell you unattractive women and the rest of you unattractive women that pretend like you DON’T think you are Unattractive. It’s not about your looks you know..That’s not why you are mistreated and disregarded by men.  This has more to do with your “agreeableness” and proclivity to “comply” as a WOMAN […]