How Not to Influence People

You Can’t Get to Freedom by thinking that Life is Journey***Only poor, undisciplined, insecure people talk that nonsense about a journey!

Why You Can’t Get a Man: And It’s Not Because of How You Look!

You don’t have love and you think it’s because you are an unattractive black woman with a: dark skin, big nose, overweight, uneducated, no curves etc…It’s not because of ANY of those reasons!!Yes. People you who are apart of this society will come to you with their “programmed” perceptions of your worth. So WHAT!!! Who […]

Why Women Stay With Bad Men!

Someone “made” you feel ugly? Some “made” you feel insecure? Someone “made” your worthless? All he did was express how he felt about you.. He gave you his perspective and packaged it with a sales pitch. He habitually stated that pitch until your resistance withered away. Why didn’t you defend yourself? Why didn’t YOU walk […]

Soft Porn Everywhere!

“Soft Porn” Written by Salkis Re   Soft porn is everywhere, whispering to women subconsciously about how we should look and feel about ourselves and  women with their knees wide open, looking ready to insert things into their mouths, appearing to not have a care in the world because lustful men are sprawled helplessly around her, […]

Beauty for Black Women

So I’ve been hammering at the point of arresting the worry and self doubt you may harbor over how you look. I have had to battle with my self esteem for most of my life. I did things to try to fit on, to try to e liked, try to be LOVED.. And there was […]

1# BEST Way to Accomplish ALL Your Goals

Achieving Your Goals Is Not Done With Vision Boards! Authenticity is overrated. And it will halt all your goals. And people will shame you for pretending. And you’ll feel ashamed for pretending. Then you will go back to what you know. Then realize -AGAIN- that it doesn’t work. Then you’ll revisit trying to change. And […]

We Are Not Like Men, But We Can Be Guided By Them”

“We Are Not Like Men, But We Can Be Guided By Them” Transit time January 25, 2019 3:45 a.m. 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻 👉Men: Give Love / Women: React 👉Men: Say What They Have Knowledge In/  Women: Say What you Want to hear. 👉Men: Are Vulnerable Mentally / Women: Are vulnerable Physically 👉Men: Are Impersonal / Women: Take […]

Should We Stop Wearing Weaves?

“Everybody Wants to Look Better Than They Actually Are” January 24, 2019 8:04 a.m. Women wear WIGS to be more attractive, and Men wear 👉WOMEN to be more attractive.. Everbody trying to look better than they actually are out here.. Shaming You is a Subjugation Tactic I’ll tell you why Shaming women is so effective, […]

What Self Esteem NEVER IS!!

“What They See is NOT What You Are!” Transmitted on January 23, 2019 7:43 a.m. Self esteem has NOTHING to do with how you look! You planned your look in the bathroom, You rehearsed in your head people’s reactions and responses to how you look . You’ve spent money to create an image in hopes […]

So You Wanna be a Sister Wife???

A viewer came to me expressing her desire to be a sister-wife..Here’s what I shared with her: I have not seen any long term success with it anyone really. Not sure what it is but it seems like that relationship dynamic has a high turnover rate and the lifespan is usually 2 years no more […]