you cannot afford to believe in any fairytales, or allow your positive thinking to make decision on your behalf when the majority of men you reveal your “situation” to will have pseudo psycho analyzed you as a woman with little to NO OPTIONS…
“The Way To Win His Heart”
Written by Salkis Re
Men are not happy when you give them everything they want, they are happy when you make them work for what they get. Your “habit” is to keep him excited about having you, motivated to please you, and lucky to have you. Comfort does NOT inspire excitement; it yields complacency, disregard and familiarity blindness for your presence in his life…
Will he appreciate your unconditional love for him?
Yesssssssssssssss( me hissing like a snake)
He will appreciate that you will stay put if he strays, that you are committed to your subordinate role and appreciative of the emotional and animate provisions he provides you with…
And those of you women who do not fall into the category of a “great beauty”, fear not!
Your finesse ( well ALL women actually) is based on *stratagem* NOT in the way you LOOK!
Some of you are waiting for permission from men to “act worthy”. You are nothing until you are loved by a man. I suppose this has some truth to it, but your order of modus operandi , or your HABITS I should say, are displaced.
You cannot assume your self a treasure if you wear the stench of desperation in your garments.
You must walk untethered. Your temperament must be one of unadulterated sweetness. Your smile because you are happy, not because he has made you so.. Let him wonder how you feel about him, IF you feel anything about him..
You need not confirm or deny ANYTHING about you! Are you a mystery, or has he got you all figured out?
yessssssssssssssss( hissing again)
Stratagem, not honesty or fairness will get you the results you require to ‘feel’ happy…
Sit back and relax…… That is the correct temperament for planning seduction…
“The Pressure to Look Sexy”
Written by Salkis Re
Listen, I’ve been accused of being undercover feminist lesbian when I get into my cautionary rants;
the resistance usually comes from men who feel in threatening a reduction in their prospects/prey or women
who believe they are more attractive than I am which makes my message inapplicable to them…
The reoccurring theme here, the message within all of my writings is that you see the truth of how your emotions become weaponized and used against you.
The pressure to “look valuable” is real.
This is why we wear the form fitting clothes, plaster makeup on our faces, post selfies, wear weaves and high heels that some of can’t even walk in..
Somebody told you that you had to do this in order to be relevant and “considered”.
And MOST of us are looking like desperate fools in clown makeup and
clothing with spandex material in that that makes you assume you’ve bought the right size.
No. Waking here!
Wake up to the fact that you are in a game that’s set up for you to lose,
because when you lose (of feel lost) you turn into a consumer/believer/minion
for those that make sales to help cure your low self esteem.
What’s the truth here though?
The truth is that we are different, but different doesn’t necessarily mean better or worse; it simply means that I cannot be you and you cannot be me…
I’m interested in sisterhood.
I’m interested in sisterhood . Though I cried it down as an impossible task -because women are emotional conn artists- I am renewing my vision for this because it is needed.
We are sick, depressed, suicidal, impoverished in every way because we sit around telling lies to each other, initiating new recruits into old sorrows,making it seem like even the mistakes you made in your life was “all planned out before your birth”.
Where are the healers?
Where are the watchers?
Where are the CRONES to help and guide young women?
Are you sitting around to busy plucking your hormonal chin hair to care about the ones coming after you?
Looking good is a blessing and a curse for those of us who can transform to an acceptable level;
you WILL be picked, used, trophied, and discarded more than those if us who have minimal options.
You Can’t Quite Level Up
And the ones of who can’t quite “level up” feel that we live without luck or grace because the prospects are low,
so we go to extremes, often corrupting our health while making fool-hearty investments in so-called improvements,
and the only return you get on your alterations is laughed and more Usury than your previous looks allowed for..
So both spectrums meet pain and degradation, and the reason we do is because we do not help each other.
and diminish each other’s value by forming social cliques where women
that aren’t a threat to each other just pass around lies and swap war stories…
And so it goes..
But I’m looking for my lost sheep just like Jesus did..
I’m here to help with the bitter BLACK PILL…
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Had a conversation with a sister about “nappy hair”.
She said that the MONEY has increased and so has the QUALITY of eligible black men.
She said that when she traded it those things in for straighter hair and form flattering clothes her entire life changed!…
I nodded my head pretty much through out her entire rant,
Listen, I have nappy hair and dark skin, that what “The Game of Thrones” would classify as a person of “Low Birth”.
Natural girls are put into a category like:
“She’s DOWN to Earth”
“She EASY going”
“She’s in tune with nature= doesn’t want material things”.
“She doesn’t have high standards”
“She is not hard to please”
“She’s is free spirited and sexually fluid”
“She’s is anti system and will struggle and turn her back on modern conviences”..
ETC ETC ETC…
If you are natural, you are put into a “poverty” class my dear, though you will enjoy the game of objectification if you have the perfect hip to waist ratio
They will oooh and ahhh at your physique, you’ll get offers for things from married and single men in your inbox, and all will feel right for a while in your world..
Now the deal is this: men generally do not want to give you ANYTHING.
You have to REQUIRE and REQEST what you want.
But what they will do is run an AUDIT on YOU! Your age. If you have kids.
Do “our” brothers revere us as “natural women”?
We are assumed to be easier to get, easier to lead, easier to influence and control.
You are simply categorized as “Reachable” especially with men of meager stature and means..
They will say they want a woman of moral character don’t they? But become defensive and condescending whenever we huddle together for “course correction” or to “clean up our act and limit frivolous sexual access to our temples”.. Here they come to critique and criticize and propagate that it’s better to be in tune with the natural fiction of sex than to have requirements to have sex with YOU.
HE does not have an issue with your promiscuity, his ISSUE arises when he is NOT given a chance to BENEFIT from YOUR promiscuity because your criteria to “play” is higher than what he can afford to give…
And so it is with us “natural” sisters too. No thrones are going to be erected in your honor just because you feel you represent “goodness” and “natural” things.
He sees you as “LESS”:
And on and on…..
Do you want this BLACK PILL today ladies?
👉No. You don’t but giving to yuh anyway!
I am about do the most craziest thing I have ever done. This is the epic sale of all sales, never been done before but its going down right now.
If you have ever wanted to start an art collection, if you’ve had your eye on a couple of pieces for some time,
NOW is that type to get started. It’s Buy One get one FREE! You heard me right, but this epic sale ends midnight tonight!!
Blow Out Sale!!
Written by Salkis Re
It’s more beneficial to think realistically than it is to think positively.
But to think realistically can offer up as much delusions as bright-side thinking too.
Positive thinking feels good, but it does not contain a *sense of urgency and the FIRE of discomfort that is the 👉blood supply of transformation.
And realistic thinking at times makes it difficult for you to perceive the potential you posses to be more than what you are at this moment.
I see so many of you who are professional complainers, you cry yourselves down obsessing over the “flaws” of their bodies.
And those flaws might very well be “real”, but the potential to be better through diet and exercise,
going out and touching your feet to earth, prayer or mediation all are tactics to improve but are negated to wallow in pity.
All practical things to change your reality are thwarted and exchanged for excuses which give you a painless “OUT”.
This is really what positive thinking amounts to for many women: a stall!
Do diligence is needed here.
Do not think that things are worse than what they are(realistic) and do not think things are just fine(positive)
Accept what you SEE as real and then start the active task of self improving.
In others words: just be honest with yourself and stop making up delusions of grandeur or defeat!!
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Being yourself is going to hurt people.
Its going to dispassion people against you.
Because they will not be able to control you,
to manipulate you to do things that are not in line with your safety or life goals.
The only reason you have friends or lovers is because they like the way you make them feel.
But once you step away from he act of pleasing and choose to be passionate and purposeful
about the act of self fulfillment, people are going to take issue with you.
They will stop calling you, stop inviting you, stop fucking you, stop buying gifts for you and so on…
And then the harsh reality of your aloneness will start to take form.
Do you know when the revelation of aloneness usually hits?
When you start to get old..
And you realize that all your sacrificing didn’t afford you their loyalty or undying concern.
then you become old and bitter because you have to face that you wasted so much time TRYING.
Trying to get LOVE.
Trying to get RESPECT.
What matters is your time and how much of ti you spend on frivolity or purpose.
And your purpose will need most of your energy because
you will have to fight the status quo of mediocrity and the fear that others try to infect you with…
You are your OWN GOD/ESS because your ACTIONS determine your road and your destination…
Be a god today…..
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We are too cavalier when it comes to that gateway that is nestled betweenour knees.
Too many men have had access to it for nothing more than a kind word and Big Mac with super sized fries…
It takes no effort to get inside of you. You don’t require him to do any grand in exchange for the risk you take in opening your uterus and cervix to his bacteria and anxiety..
Trash receptacles for sperm is what many women have become, and we are having more sex than ever before in history, yet we are more depressed and dissatisfied than ever before too.
Now men want to claim that they are the prize because they do all the work. They have to entertain us, feed us, cloth us, teach us, protect us, yet we bring nothing to the table according to them.
To answer that, I will ask this: what price should you pay to have lifetime access to my body, my heart and my mind? How much is gaining almost total control over me worth?
👉How much is my nurturing and forgiveness worth?
👉How much are the babies that I will give birth to worth?
👉How much is all the time I have taken preoccupied with while simultaneously being taken off the dating market worth?
You can make the money back that you’ve given me should you decide that I am not the one for you, but what you can’t give ME back is the time I put into a relationship with you.
That part is gone forever. Every year that I am with you, the pool of other candidates that could take your place diminishes.
And you expect that a woman isn’t entitled to care and resources when she’s dealing with a race against the clock from you and any other man who shows interest?
Your role is your role and you are curse to work and I am cursed to obey you. Live with it!
Or don’t take on the responsibility…
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Older women are seen as the bitter, jealous,expired enemies of younger women. This is done deliberately to keep us out of the “catacombs” where we can,exchange secrets and confer “degrees” amongst each other. There isn’t a “new” that you’ll experience heartbreak so nothing that any woman knows could ever be “antiquated”….
The narrative of competition is heavily perpetuated within our society, and as a result younger women throw away and totally disregard the wisdom right within their reach. Older women were young once and if you are young now, old age is walking by your side too.
The appropriate way to view your world as a woman is with insatiable curiosity and respect for knowledge wherever it may reside. You are no better than any other woman, not really. You have the same fears and desires as all of us no matter what your station in life may be at this moment.
Talk to you mothers, your grandmothers, women you meet bump into in the fitting room or while standing at the check out isle.
Every woman you meet can potentially solve a problem you are facing, any woman you talk to could change your life in a few words..
Your “sisters” are everywhere…
New Art Piece:
This painting symbolizes everything I’ve discussed here today. We are no different than any other woman. Lets unite our super powers to strenthen each other! To purchase this original piece, GOTO: www.iloveherart.com
Written by Salkis Re
Perfection is something none of us possess but we all criticize others for not being…
And the more critical you are of others,
the more it exposes of the secret hell you live in as you surround yourself with persistent, private condemnation.
When you release your desires for perfectionism, you can AND will enjoy your life a whole lot more…
You will give yourself permission to make mistakes, to take chances, to explore the unknown.
You will become intriguing and exciting to be around.
You will give every inhale and exhale of your lungs a purpose outside of causing others pain…
And then your soul will begin to create your mission, a reason for living,
and a good reason for living is what your life will become when you inspire others,
when you uplift the weak, when you encourage the fearful instead
of the being the one fueling discouragement in others…..
This is what God’s children do…
Who’s child are you?
Art by Salkis Re
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