She Taught Me How to Use Men!!

Abstract Portrait Painting
“I Want You to Want Me” Art by Salkis Re

 

How do you get love?

Is it by being beautiful?

By speaking softly?

By being skilled at sex?

By learning how to cook?

By doing pretty hair styles?

By paying have the rent?
How do win the heart of a man?

 

He Kept Running Behind Her Ass

I was perplexed about this because I saw many women who couldn’t cook, but had a man who loved them to pieces. I know many women who are average looking, questionable hygiene, spastic, aggressive personalities, beautiful “bitches” who had men hearts on life support, but he KEPT running behind her ass!

 

She Took His Veterans Check!!

I remember when I had my salon, I had a client who would come in only on the 1st and the 15th of the month to look cute for her “visits” to some of Veteran companions.

She would doll herself up to go sit on their laps and if they broke off enough money, she’d play with their balls for an hour or two. These gentle would give her portions of their Social Security check as compensation for the “happy hour” Now, she wasn’t particularly spectacular looking, a some of her teeth were noticably gone whenever she smiled really wide, and she was fat but her fat was nicely distributed with a good hip to waist ratio.

Her Personality was larger than life!!

Her personality??? OMG her personality was truly larger than life. She would shut the entire salon down because we could stop laughing at her stories, and she orated with bravo and self confidence. She assumed what she did with the old men as “Good Samaritan” work, and I fell out my chair with roaring laughter at her comedic convictions..

 

Crippled Midgets and Ugly Husbands

What was more astonishing to me was that her main man knew about these seniors “Breaking Bread” with his girl. I asked her how she kept Harmony in her household with her man knowing what she does, and she simply said to him “I’m Going to Get OUR MONEY BOO”. Well, I flat lined again laughing so hard that I couldn’t breathe.

But I was examining her quietly too. I assumed that her man must have been an unattractive, crippled midget (no offensive to any cripple midgets reading this) but when we walked to PAY for her hairdo and gas for her car and brought her lunch, I was flabbergasted. He was cute!!! He was VERY attractive and well built too.

Huh?

Who’s Your Daddy?

I Flat Lined Again!!!!

 

Abstract Portrait Painting
“Here I Am” Art by Salkis Re

So what is the lesson she can teach us as women about love?

She is an example of a woman who is NOT conflicted AT ALL about her value.

And her value was not predicated upon how she looked. Whether her hair was done or makeup on or not,

she commanded a room, she was the center of attention because her value wasn’t determined by your judgement of her.

She knew what to say, and more importantly, she knew HOW to say it.

Those that needed to feel in control (like her man), were allowed to think they were so that she could extract what she needed.
And her mouth was like Cannon FIRE,

she could cus on an executive level,

but she didn’t unsheathe​ her tongue gun unless it was necessary.

So the conclusion is this: be what you need to be for the situation at hand.

Play up your strengths and give ZERO energy to your weaknesses

unless they are something you’re incentivized to change.

 

Abstract Portrait Painting
“Eva” Art by Salkis Re

Understand that your self worth is not a community event and

true self worth doesn’t fluctuate in accordance with how good you look.

And lastly, being congruent with your wants and needs is essential to the manifestation of them.

If you feel ashamed about what you want, you will not get it,

and if you manage to get it, you won’t be able to hold it for long…

That is what my darling client taught me about being a woman…

Now lets be what we need to be, to get what we want to have…

~Salkis Re

 

African American art

So Who Am I?

“Artist/ Life Coach”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re
Get My Artwork and Coaching Services here: www.iloveherart.com

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Don’t Quit!!

“Master Your Craft!
Written by Salkis Re

How you gonna quit when you’ve already started? 
Don’t stop till use your body 
moves the finish line tape aparted!

You will only hate yourself if you stop,
and you will sabotage the rest of your life 
if you don’t ride this thing till your efforts make it pop.

What else will you do other than this?
You gonna go back to dreaming
like your other loser friends?

There’s more grind left for you to do 
and it’s not over until you have
to mastered what you like to call YOU.

So you tryna quit the game?

To do what exactly?

Oh it’s hard?

AND????

Anything you worked for, had a bit of challenge

that came with it.

And guess what you did?

You trotted on anyway, wiped the

blood off your knuckles ,and kept the pace until

your chest broke that finish line tape!

African Art
The Art Process and all my Mistakes.. Salkis Re

You have to ride your purpose until the wheels fall off

so that by the end of your time on this earth, your soul has no reason to

wrestle with the anguish of unfinished business.

Empty yourself! Don’t hold back anything.

Don’t be afraid of anyone!!

You will fall, so laugh when you fall.

You will be unsure, so chuckle at your confusion.

You will feel pain, so eat your pain and keep going.

Stop looking back!!!

There is nothing BACK THERE that can help you.

because the promise land is in your windshield not your rear view mirror.

Come on girl!! GET UP!!

 “Here I Am” Art by Salkis Re

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African American art

So Who Am I?

“Artist/ Life Coach”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re
Get My Artwork and Coaching Services here: www.iloveherart.com

Who to Forgive?

 

 

witches
“Life Coach” ~Salkis Re

What is the necessity of forgiveness?
To expunge the sins of another?
To wipe the slate clean?
Can you pretend that you were never hurt?
That is what forgiveness requires.
A forgetting.
An exoneration of an act, so that person can move without shame in your presence.
But you never truly forgive because the potential to commit a crime has made you aware of a new possibility that could happen again at any moment.
How can you trust “potential” or a proclivity that comes out of hiding?
You can’t.
And no one should ask that of you.
You can live on of course.

abstract art
Can You See Me?”
Art by Salkis Re

You CAN live on the “bright” side to salvage what’s left over from the damage done.

You CAN live a dynamic life after a broken heart!!!

The most beautiful things are created from the longing of a broken heart.

Pain helps you to focus IF you use it correctly.

Many of you can’t fathom how pain and anger are the emotions for transformation, but they absolutely are!

Joy gives you hope.

BUT pain makes you change!

You can rebuild****
But to REBUILD means to make something new, thus the old way is no more.
Who can you swear by?
YOURSELF.
WHO can you trust 💯 percent?
YOURSELF!
Carry on…

🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
“Black Hat Society”
“Spiritual Advisor”
“Life Savor”
~Salkis Re
www.iloveherart.com

Are you ready for the secrets of mind control and self esteem? These are the two things you need to acquisition what you want from this life of yours.

As an underdog my entire life, I was on a personal question to understand worth and my value in this world. And what I have found is this: when you rid the of shame and guilt you begin to SOAR.

You have to heal

You have to believe.

And you have to do!

Allow me to help you..

Email: salkis@iloveherart.com

Website: www.iloveherart.com

 

 

 

 

Stitching Up the Cut!

 

 

Sketch by Salkis Re

“People want trust, they want a guarantee. But they don’t keep their word to themselves. They do not honor personal commitment but quickly cite it as a character flaw in people they are expecting to produce for them. How can you trust anyone when you do have trust in yourself? You break vows you’ve made to treat your *own self better, yet you assert harsh criticism and disappointment in others who failed in keeping their pledge to treat you better. Better than what? How you treat yourself?¿

abstract portrait
Art by Salkis Re

To heal, you don’t “Ignore”, you “Expose” it. You have to acknowledge and face your own corruption and the graveyard of broken promises you’ve made to yourself. Don’t expect people to bandaid you. Stop expecting people to treat you better than you treat yourself. All a relationship amounts to is an outward extension of how you feel about you. The bandaid is not enough; you need clean out the wound and stitch it up so that it/you can heal.
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
Mistress of Words”
“Spiritual Advisor”
“Creative Soul”
~Salkis Re
☆Art by Salkis Re
Website: www.iloveherart.com
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