Stop Being A Fuk Buddy and Get Married!

Every two years or so, you are some new guy’s girlfriend.

Doesn’t that worry you? Doesn’t the thought of being some dude’s boy toy make you emotionally uneasy?

I mean granted, you’re having fun going out to eat, bar hopping maybe, decent frequency of sexual activity, but in the back of your mind, you know this has got to end cause theres no real commitment there.

The old folks call it “Playing House”, and that’s exactly what it is: A Game. You are in an imaginary existence with a man who hasn’t decided to truly commit ALL THE WAY.

But you are sacrificing time, your vagina and more than likely your money to buy the ILLUSION of a relationship he’s giving you.

Cam Newton and his Now EX GIRLFRIEND of 6 years..

Men will suck you dry: literally!

And they gave an uncanny ability to waste your time while maintaining imagery of forward movement. But you are boxed in as a girlfriend, unable to have an absolute say about your future and direction you would like to take the relationship.

Why?

Because you are there for a good time. You are there to warm his bed or distract him from the work self improvement IF your remain JUST his girlfriend.

I Know That Marriage Isn’t The Goal for every Woman BUT>>>>>

Now, I not a total prude here. I get that marriage isn’t every woman’s goal, but the women who say this are usually those who’s phone still rings for offers of sex or situationships or Zaddy trips etc… Yet and still, when they no longer have to put that iphone on silent cause the calls start to slow down or come to a screeching halt, THEN the thought of finding that ONE life partner starts to make practical sense.

GUYS DO HIT THE WALL TOO!

You don’t want to end up like a lot of these “Hit The Wall”-“After The FactHoes out here who can’t do nothin but peddle Level Up courses that don’t even work for them!

Give these “boyfriends” expiration dates to make a decision on pulling the trigger or not because being some dude’s girlfriend for 3-5-8 years with no end game insight, will cost YOU what he can’t pay you for: which is TIME!!

Beautiful Black Women in relationships

Salkis Re is an artist, writer and Self Esteem Coach for black women. You can find her unique art pieces here And visit her YOU TUBE channel for tips on surviving in a world that has very little love for black women.

What Do You Want to Be?

Art by Salkis Re

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Fight your self doubt because you don’t get any rewards for being pitiful.

Fight mediocrity, because you don’t get any rewards for not doing your best.

Fight conformity because you don’t get a reward for attempting to be a lesser version of what’s already been done.

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Beautiful Black Women

Why Does Attractiveness Destroy US

This is what chasing VANITY does.

It causes mental senility and physical neglect!
Why?
Cause you won’t go to the gym if you can’t get a bubble butt.
You won’t eat the salad if your friend doesn’t eat it too.

Class and Status Are ILLUSIONS

We are lied to about pedigree and class you know. We’ve been conditioned to think that looking good, tailored clothing and speaking in the Queen’s English is a measure of status and even God’s favor.

Ask a maid next time you really want to know about “CLASS. I’ve had a few in my family, and they can tell you what goes on in these deluxe apartments in the sky.

How The High Status Front!

How the babies don’t get bathed or their hair combed until the nanny’s arrive even if it’s 3 days until her shift starts again.

How these privileged employers constantly short their checks and “miscalculate” their wages.

How their elderly people are alone with no one to talk to until the maid comes to clean the house and change the Depends the elders sat in all day. How they “reused” dirty panties and the wife is on some drug to keep her mania at functional levels.

How the men suggest “favors” for salary increases or for the “help” to stay past shift hours and not get compensated for it.

We’ve won every pageant but it doesn’t matter!

You mimic what you don’t truly understand and you don’t respect your own value.
We even have a Miss Teen USA, a Miss USA, a Miss America AND a Miss Universe who’s from Africa. THEY gave you a full court press win across the board, so Do we love ourselves and our likeness any more today because of it?
Is the stock market value of cake soap and skin bleaching creams dropping?

No.
Because the image of social status and even the lie about our economic power is still transfixed in our minds. And pageants nothing more than validation farms just all bureaus and judging panels: Whomever crowns you is STILL KING!!

Class and Status Are Games

You are intimidated by the STAGE PLAY called SOCIETY and the GAME called LIFE because you aren’t fully aware that this is nothing more than smoke and mirrors that holding up the appearance of “class and status”.

Waiting On Their Trophies

They claimed who “They” are and you have the power by your birthright to do the same, but you want to wait for them to knight you so that it’s more “Official”. You seek authentication from those who feel that a dog’s life is worth fighting for more than yours, but rationalize your mimicry of them as a choice instead of insanity?
It’s time to align yourself with YOUR CREATOR.

GET UP!!

“Self Esteem Coach”
“Artist”
“Author”
“Poet”
And founder of “The Ugly Girls Club”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re

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Black Girl IS MAGIC!!

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2020 is HERE! and we need to stop walking around here waiting on permission to breathe the air we take into our lungs. We need to assert our authority over our own lives by the mimicry of other races behind.

we can say what is opulent and quality verses what is not if we run this race TOGETHER!

 

Decide that you matter.

decided that you deserve love.

Decide that abundance is your birthright as well as health and happiness!

So Let It Be Done!!

 

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2020 New Year for Manifesting!

Are you gonna REALLY be about Black Girl Magic for 2020?
I believe that the forces of nature will help you now more than ever before.

I also believe that the price to pay for what you want will be the greatest its ever been.
You will have to bleed for it, but it WILL come.
You will have be disciplined for it, but it will come.
You’re gonna be uncomfortable,
unsure,
maybe even a little afraid: BUT it will come.

“Colored Girl” Original Art by Salkis Re

Yes.

Whatever you focus on WILL come!.
But the key is to relax.
Your BREATH determines outcomes.
They make you think it’s luck or pedigree that dictates your fate, but no little dove, it’s your BREATH.

Breathing Regulates EVERYTHING!

What do you mean Salkis?
The breath holds the key to how you process food,

stress,

energy,

ecstasy,

perception,

fear,

depression,

anxiety,

insecurities etc..

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What are you doing right now?
You are breathing shallow..

Why?
Because you are bracing yourself.

Why?
Because you dont want to get hurt.

๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸฟYou breathe like you are in pain.
And this causes a depletion of oxygenated blood, which inhibits proper nervous system function.
๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸฟYou breathe like you are scared.
And this is why you fail at love, at weight loss, at abundance, and creativity..

Dark Skin women
Babies breath correctly..

BABIES CAN TEACH YOU TO MANIFEST

Watch how babies breathe.
They take full diaphragmatic breaths.
Why?
Because they haven’t learned to brace themselves for the “anticipation” of pain..

๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸฟYou want to manifest?
It’s not about a vision board or a better business plan if you are creating these while holding your breath in fear.
Breathe through your self doubt.
Breathe through the physical pain.
Breathe through your low self worth.

The year of BEING is upon us.

You will have to stop all the excuses and being ruled by your fears now.. You have to become a woman who lives in the realm of certainty.

And your certainty get’s its nourishment from our daily activities.

You need to be careful what you absorb. This means, what you eat, what you hear, what you see, what you think, who you screw and what you say..

ALL of this plays a role in outcomes that show up as fate in your life.

Never again presume that you can write a vision and not FEEL IT, TALK ABOUT IT, LEARN IT and ACCEPT IT!

Yogic Breathing

What makes You A LIVING SOUL?

Give yourself the breath of life!
Were you not told that the breath made you a “Living Soul”?

Inhale completely, pause, then empty your lungs completely.
20x every day.
Then sit still.
Close your eyes and enjoy tingling as your body experiences

full nourishment for the first time since you were a youngling…

Do your breath ritual before you meditate,

eat food,

make love,

pray or anything requiring your full attention and you will become more confident,

efficient and stronger physically and mentally too.

Breathe.
Then you will MANIFEST.

Dark Skin Women
“Artist”
“Author”
“Poet”
“Self Esteem Coach”
~Salkis Re
Art by Salkis Re
Painting” Colored Girl”

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T.I Says That Black Women Are Happier Alone!

What black women have to keep in mind, especially those of us who want marriage with black men’s to ditch the badge of honor over your need to do what you need to do to survive.

Don’t ever allow your sacrifice to be center of your value when it comes to black men.

Why Evil is Stronger Than Good

And nothing you think about yourself will stick unless its backed by HEAT.

What do I mean by heat?
When you are angry, you are hot! Your heart beats fast and your body literally raises in temperature.

Are You Clowning Yourself?

African Art by Salkis Re; Clowns
Salkis Re, Artist, Author, Poet

Are You A Clown?

I was one for most of my life. Trying hard to make people laugh and smile and like me.

Masking how I truly felt for fear of experiencing rejection and loneliness.

The more I tried, the more invisible I felt as I never got what I wanted.

Some of us are used for the entertainment of others who never seem to feel an inclination to reciprocate the generosity and care they’ve received.

I came to the conclusion that being kind wasn’t the way to get love. I figured out that being selfless wasn’t the way to want he hearts of others..

What would give me a quality experience when interacting with other souls is to LOVE MYSELF.

Joaquin Phoenix

Are you playing the Clown in real life?

Are you doing things for laughs and cheers at the expense of your ideals and self esteem?

Are you afraid to ask for what you need from those whom you give too?

Then you are playing a clown, and it’s time to stop entertaining people at the cost of your identity.

 

Energy is EVERYTHING..

The respect you want to enjoy requires ENERGY.

The love you want to experience requires energy.

What signal are you sending out into the world?

What are you eating to support your cells and organs?

What are you thinking in order to change the way your genes express themselves?

Joker Abstract Art , African Art, Cowns, Scary Clown, Sad Clown
“Joker” Original Art by Salkis Re

Feeling good about who you are requires new thought patterns and a new environment to support a new thought.

You ever rearrange the furniture in your bedroom and feel like its a brand new room? That the same concept needed to change the results you get in your life. Rearrange your thoughts by manipulating your environment.

The game of life and abundance and wellness is about about changing your perception of your reality.

feel love permeate through your body. When you go out the door, breathe deeply and think positively about yourself.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Salkis Re is an artist, author, poet, relationship expert, CowGirl, Life Coach and the founder of The Ugly Girl’s Club

When she is slapping paint on a canvas, she’s helping women across the globe heal emotionally from toxic relationships and societal conditioning.. Visit her art site too iLoveHerArt.com

Sexual Energy: How to Get An Abundance of it!

Beautiful Black women

Sexual energy is about -energy- not so much about intentionally looking sexy. And the truth that some of are trying so hard to look sexy that it reads like desperation instead of attractiveness.

Eye contact can transmit sexual energy, so can your scent, how you walk and how you talk..

Does proper hip to waist ratio help: of course.

But if you do not posses this it does not mean you are out the game.

Black women with short hair
You are only out the game when you are ashamed of yourself, when you’ve given in to excuses and vices to distract you from the reality that you need to change..

A few things that will boost your sex appeal:

Less Makeup.

Ditch the -beat face- for a fresh face look.. When you wear excessive amounts of makeup you hide your natural beauty which is your fertility.

Beautiful natural black women

Workout.

Working out will change your body composition but more importantly it will regulate your hormones. It helps to keep you emotionally grounded and it should be seen as a self honoring ritual rather than torture.

Ditch the Sugar.

Eating process sugar causes cellular death. It dries out the skin and causes it to thin and sag. It dries out the vagina too. Depression and food are linked and sugar causes you to lose mental focus and invites hallucinations like depression and boredom when your blood sugar crashes after the high.

Wash your Vagina:

A stink vagina can cause a lack of confidence too.๐Ÿ‘€ If you open your legs and it smells like tilapia and hot blue cheese, you need to douche that playground and go on a dik diet. Diks make the vagina itch and smell, so if you are fuccing several men at the same time, I know your puwsy smells like a butcher’s box. Stop believing these hoes who tell you that you are “winning” when you can get a nut from men who don’t even really like you. ISSA LIE!

Don’t be Afraid of Men!

Corny Black Men
STOP taking men so seriously too. Men are scared of being hurt and wished they didn’t have that bell pepper nose or that dark skin just like you.๐Ÿ‘€
Some wish they had more money or bigger diks but they manage to still feel entitled even with the shyte load of flaws they posses.
Understand that they want something from you, and work out what your exchange rate is- i.e. marriage/money/girlfriend/lover etc..

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“Black” Art by Salkis RE

And I need for you to resist the conditioning of “pricing” yourself as a supposed negative concept.

Everyone around you is judging your worth.

It may be based on how you look, or you talents and intelligence, but everybody is “adding you up”.

From your employer to your boyfriend, everyone is quantifying and making assessments about your value.

SO you need to have a number in your head  that you’ve reached through introspection and self evaluation.

If you feed people nourishing food from scratch, that’s worth SUMthing.

If you are extremely efficient and conscientious, that’s worth SUMthing.

If you are a healer and generous, that is worth SUMthing.

What is your worth black woman?

“The Ugly Girl’s Ambassador”
~Salkis Re

Salkis Re is an artist, author, poet, relationship expert, Pirate, Life Coach and the founder of The Ugly Girl’s Club

When she is slapping paint on a canvas, she’s helping women across the globe heal emotionally from toxic relationships and societal conditioning.. Visit her art site too iLoveHerArt.com