You Are Leaving Him Because You Are Bored???

As I coach women lately, I’m finding that many of you are considering ending stable relationships because the man is “boring” and seems to be unable to stimulate you emotionally.   He pays the bills He pays the bills, you don’t have to wonder where food and shelter will come from. You get what ever […]

Why Women Stay With Bad Men!

Someone “made” you feel ugly? Some “made” you feel insecure? Someone “made” your worthless? All he did was express how he felt about you.. He gave you his perspective and packaged it with a sales pitch. He habitually stated that pitch until your resistance withered away. Why didn’t you defend yourself? Why didn’t YOU walk […]

The One Way to a Healthy Lifestyle

    Doing what you don’t want to do is usually the best thing that you should do.. This is how life goes. All the pleasurable things cause tummy aches, unnecessary loses, lies, betrayal and hardships… I have been talking about simplification for weeks now, and I guess this will be the theme for the […]

Soft Porn Everywhere!

“Soft Porn” Written by Salkis Re   Soft porn is everywhere, whispering to women subconsciously about how we should look and feel about ourselves and  women with their knees wide open, looking ready to insert things into their mouths, appearing to not have a care in the world because lustful men are sprawled helplessly around her, […]

Beauty for Black Women

So I’ve been hammering at the point of arresting the worry and self doubt you may harbor over how you look. I have had to battle with my self esteem for most of my life. I did things to try to fit on, to try to e liked, try to be LOVED.. And there was […]

Pretty But You Sick???

If your goal is to truly love yourself   If your goal is to truly love yourself and you are not adding what you eat into your transformation cocktail, then you are playing games and fooling yourself at the same time too. Holistic living requires that your diet be in line with nature.   Triggered […]

The Ugly Girls Club!!

The narrative that you have to look a certain to be classified as a woman is agreeing with people who profit from your violation of how NATURE MADE YOU. Stop cowering down and watering down your magic!!Rise black bird, RISE!! You can pretend that you mimic people for whatever reason makes you comfortable. Maybe you […]

1# BEST Way to Accomplish ALL Your Goals

Achieving Your Goals Is Not Done With Vision Boards! Authenticity is overrated. And it will halt all your goals. And people will shame you for pretending. And you’ll feel ashamed for pretending. Then you will go back to what you know. Then realize -AGAIN- that it doesn’t work. Then you’ll revisit trying to change. And […]

We Are Not Like Men, But We Can Be Guided By Them”

“We Are Not Like Men, But We Can Be Guided By Them” Transit time January 25, 2019 3:45 a.m. 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻 👉Men: Give Love / Women: React 👉Men: Say What They Have Knowledge In/  Women: Say What you Want to hear. 👉Men: Are Vulnerable Mentally / Women: Are vulnerable Physically 👉Men: Are Impersonal / Women: Take […]

So You Wanna be a Sister Wife???

A viewer came to me expressing her desire to be a sister-wife..Here’s what I shared with her: I have not seen any long term success with it anyone really. Not sure what it is but it seems like that relationship dynamic has a high turnover rate and the lifespan is usually 2 years no more […]