Stop Being A Fuk Buddy and Get Married!

Every two years or so, you are some new guy’s girlfriend.

Doesn’t that worry you? Doesn’t the thought of being some dude’s boy toy make you emotionally uneasy?

I mean granted, you’re having fun going out to eat, bar hopping maybe, decent frequency of sexual activity, but in the back of your mind, you know this has got to end cause theres no real commitment there.

The old folks call it “Playing House”, and that’s exactly what it is: A Game. You are in an imaginary existence with a man who hasn’t decided to truly commit ALL THE WAY.

But you are sacrificing time, your vagina and more than likely your money to buy the ILLUSION of a relationship he’s giving you.

Cam Newton and his Now EX GIRLFRIEND of 6 years..

Men will suck you dry: literally!

And they gave an uncanny ability to waste your time while maintaining imagery of forward movement. But you are boxed in as a girlfriend, unable to have an absolute say about your future and direction you would like to take the relationship.

Why?

Because you are there for a good time. You are there to warm his bed or distract him from the work self improvement IF your remain JUST his girlfriend.

I Know That Marriage Isn’t The Goal for every Woman BUT>>>>>

Now, I not a total prude here. I get that marriage isn’t every woman’s goal, but the women who say this are usually those who’s phone still rings for offers of sex or situationships or Zaddy trips etc… Yet and still, when they no longer have to put that iphone on silent cause the calls start to slow down or come to a screeching halt, THEN the thought of finding that ONE life partner starts to make practical sense.

GUYS DO HIT THE WALL TOO!

You don’t want to end up like a lot of these “Hit The Wall”-“After The FactHoes out here who can’t do nothin but peddle Level Up courses that don’t even work for them!

Give these “boyfriends” expiration dates to make a decision on pulling the trigger or not because being some dude’s girlfriend for 3-5-8 years with no end game insight, will cost YOU what he can’t pay you for: which is TIME!!

Beautiful Black Women in relationships

Salkis Re is an artist, writer and Self Esteem Coach for black women. You can find her unique art pieces here And visit her YOU TUBE channel for tips on surviving in a world that has very little love for black women.

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