A viewer came to me expressing her desire to be a sister-wife..
Here’s what I shared with her:
I have not seen any long term success with it anyone really.
Not sure what it is but it seems like that relationship dynamic has a high
turnover rate and the lifespan is usually 2 years no more than 5 years if you are lucky.
The ones that have babies will be motivated to stick it out as longer
but not with heavy indoctrination from the husband.
He will tell you that you are “smarter” than other women for accepting
this way of life, that you are intelligent and pragmatic and in tune
with nature, that you lack selfishness and material greed like those other women out there (who get his d^&k hard)
and your title of Queen is repetitively used to stroke your ego and to assure you of your special place (that none of his other women have) in his life.
Inserts sarcasm right about now!
You want to know the truth?
Only Unattractive Women Fall for this!!
Most women that do this or get picked for this sort of relationship style are usually unattractive or insecure women.
Well not “or” because women you are one are usually the other too.
I don’t know what you don’t like about yourself.
Maybe it’s your age or your gap teeth, or the cellulite on your thighs thats got you settling for this rank and file lifestyle.
Maybe this is all you can really get in the grand scope of things
But what I want to know, all I want to know is if you are doing it because HE told you that this is what you are worth,
or because you have given yourself a brutally honest evaluation and this is what you feel will bring you peace and some semblance of joy…
The clock is ticking my dear..
No more time for bluffing yourself. What do YOU want?