Decisions based solely on emotion NEVER stick.
You may be able to garner their pity and remorse for a little while,
but eventually that person goes back to his/her old ways after their emotions have settled back down,
This is why men feel sorry about about cheating when they get caught, and after the dust settles,
they are back out there at it again.
Black women are getting pimped out of their vaginas by everybody,
black men, white men, even other women…
people generally do not change unless they experience some
tremendously emotional event that breaks the patterns within their nervous system.
For the most part, we are all fixed as adults. Fixed in what we believe about ourselves,
how we perceive love, how we quantify our value.
Relationships are about the decision to share a life with someone as they are,
and with your love and encouragement,
you can “Influence” them to become “Improved” partners IFFFFFFFFFFF that is what HE desires to be…..
Black women are emotionally exploited by everybody because our pathologies are well known and easy to recognize
while others enjoy living with the ambiguity of their depression and low self esteem whiling concealing
pharmaceutical remedies for their suicidal thoughts properly fitted garments, scantily clad pics or perfectly
coiffed hair that serve to disguise their emotional dysfunction.
Our pathology includes the admiration and support of anybody who do not resemble ourselves,
and the admiration and support of people who mock, mimic and make fun of us.
We are enemies of each other perception based on “collective” biases that are based on propaganda and indoctrination.
Redeem yourself. Pull yourself up from the muck and Myer….
Divorce yourself from anything or anyone who’s opinions are self serving and decide that a
feeling is not a truth unless you start living in agreement with it,
and that goes for yourself or anyone else…
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