How you “show up” in this world is how you will allow people to treat you.
I tell many of my sisters that displaying self pity is not way to win friends
or foster good relationships but you are so used to expressing your self deprecation,
that you have lost awareness that you are even doing it.
You sound more like a defeatist, than a woman who is ready for love.
You write these exhaustive dissertations about what you are looking
for in a man as if making known what you are wanting will
thwart off any snakes from coming to bite you.
The problem is NOT in the way you look!
The problem is that you are hollow and you lack substance because
you want to be sexy and desired instead of healthy, competent and virtuous.
The very things that will set you apart from other women, are the very
things you disregard as having no intrinsic value.
There are things you are here to do, and being a sex object is NOT one of them…
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about anything but complaining that nobody wants you.
You as an “Ugly Girl” have resolved to a life of mediocrity and self pity,
and you’ve killed your dreams simply because you don’t look a certain way.
The Ugly Girls Club is a coalition of women who are
not cowering down because society has placed our looks in a negative category.
We are defining ourselves by how we look.
That game is a losing game for most women, and we have accepted it as such.
SO now that we’ve let that nightmare go, we’ve got all this room to learn
and grow and express how we feel about our lives and the things
we want to do or become to live our fullest lives.
Now as for these dating sites like OkCUPID, Plenty of Fish, E Harmony etc.. I want you to treat these sites like just another form of social media, because is what they are.
Don’t go thinking that you’ll win cool points for putting all your business on the street, for being transparent and term I think I hate most of all “OPEN MINDED”
You can’t vet a person effectively through a dating app or a profile.
And what you should do is just keep it light enough to spark interest and curiosity.
Yes you are going to get crazy nut jobs coming to you to solicit you for fun, and your success rate is shit on these sites.
You should assume that you’ll need to go thru 30 -50 contacts to get one that is decent enough to give a shot.
And Im going to add this as well, leave the booty pics, the cleavage pics and lease for God sake, close your mouth if you are not smiling.
You don’t want to send messages to these perverts that they can ask you for Netflix and Chill! OK!
Now back to the point of it all…..
The Ugly Girl SHOWS THE WORLD WHAT SHE CAN DO!
And her goal is not too be anybody’s reject version of a Video Vixen.
She is not waiting for men to have mercy on her and that her as a charity case.
She walks with her head up and DOES EVERYTHING to nature her body,
mind and soul.. GET UP UGLY GIRL!!
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It is time to step your game up!
NOT FOR MEN!! For yourself… If I could shake the degradation out of you, I would gladly do it. But this is something you have to feel inside of you. You have to be tired of being lied to, tired of being led to create frivolous personas based on pageantry and not any real substance.
Men are craving this actually. To be turned on in an untypical way.
Everything about you should be UNTYPICAL if you are an ugly girl!
Soft porn is everywhere, whispering to women subconsciously
about how we should look and feel about ourselves and
women with their knees wide open, looking ready to insert things into their mouths,
appearing to not have a care in the world because lustful men
are sprawled helplessly around her,
That’s what you think you have to have..
You are being programed to feel insecure.
You are being programmed emotionally
to want what the manufacturer sells.
You will be wanted if you buy this.
You will be respected if you buy that.
You will get married if you buy 10 of these etc etc..
And you think your desires are “natural”
when everything you think about yourself,
every emotion you express is a manufactured one.
They target your Limbic Brain, that part of your brain
They target your Limbic Brain, that part of your brain that’s
responsible for memory and emotions and reward seeking.
EVERYTHING you do which includes what you eat, who you have sex with,
how you have sex, what you wear, your job, how many children you have,
your likes and dislikes are shaped by our fear a LOSS or the gain of a REWARD.
You think you will be rewarded if you have sex with men. You think you won’t experience loss if you look pretty. You think you will be rewarded if you comply. You think you won’t lose friends if you think the same..
And down the rabbit hole you go, deeper and deeper into the abyss of illusion…
Wake Up “Mummy”
Why should you listen to me?
Because I’m CRAZY, a nonconfirmist, AND an introvert who had to bind her insecurities and throw that bitch in the closet so I could pound the pavement and be found by good women like you!