Why Is It So Easy to Con Women?

Criticism leads to a need for one to defend her position. Whether it’s right or wrong is not as important as feeling demeaned by another person. This is why it’s so effective to just tell you what you want to hear. Make it sounds supportive, beef it up with praise and your “Wulls” come tumbling […]

Why You Need to Be Different!

It Must be emotionally exhausting carrying around feelings of self doubt of your low self worth every day of your life right? You wake up unexcited, barely looking at yourself in the mirror and if you do, you grimmace with dissapointment at your reflection!Day in, day out, the same secret sentiments of self loathe and […]

Being a Dumb Woman IS Profitable!

Transit Time 7:32 a.m. Well I’ve been up since 4 a.m. actually. Early rising helps bye think about the message I want to convey. So I thought about. And this post came to mind because of an exchange I had about relationships with a man on my facebook page Men LOVE to tell a woman […]

You Are Leaving Him Because You Are Bored???

As I coach women lately, I’m finding that many of you are considering ending stable relationships because the man is “boring” and seems to be unable to stimulate you emotionally.   He pays the bills He pays the bills, you don’t have to wonder where food and shelter will come from. You get what ever […]

How To Love You!

Self Love is a Relationship With Your Body Sitting at my desk with my yoga gear on, all prepped for my home yin yoga session and I’m thinking about why I am doing this. I workout, eat right and stay of ¬†trouble because that is the way I express love for myself. I have come […]

The Best Way To GetWhat You Want!

Every woman should think of the “Bigger Picture”. Never make decisions based on the moment….. Always think of your future when you are trying to decide what to do. You will change. You will age. You will be less in demand sexually later than you are now. SO you must plan. Do what is best […]

Why Women Stay With Bad Men!

Someone “made” you feel ugly? Some “made” you feel insecure? Someone “made” your worthless? All he did was express how he felt about you.. He gave you his perspective and packaged it with a sales pitch. He habitually stated that pitch until your resistance withered away. Why didn’t you defend yourself? Why didn’t YOU walk […]

The One Way to a Healthy Lifestyle

¬† ¬† Doing what you don’t want to do is usually the best thing that you should do.. This is how life goes. All the pleasurable things cause tummy aches, unnecessary loses, lies, betrayal and hardships… I have been talking about simplification for weeks now, and I guess this will be the theme for the […]

1# BEST Way to Accomplish ALL Your Goals

Achieving Your Goals Is Not Done With Vision Boards! Authenticity is overrated. And it will halt all your goals. And people will shame you for pretending. And you’ll feel ashamed for pretending. Then you will go back to what you know. Then realize -AGAIN- that it doesn’t work. Then you’ll revisit trying to change. And […]

Dark Skin Women Get No Love From Dark Skin Men???

One of my viewers made a comment on my “Are Dark Skin Men The Enemy” I did that video because Sooooooo many dark skin women have sentiments of struggle and trauma around getting a dark skin man want her or keeping the relationship positive and respectful. She Stated: “I was told by a Light Skin […]