You “love” or accept love based on how you perceive your own worth. Deciding NOT to identify with a culture or a race or dating outside your race is a irreality because when you look at your reflection, you are reminded of WHO YOU ARE.
Abandoning identity is something EASY to propagated to low value people or poor people to mitigate the internal struggle and shame about who they are.
A black man can date white women and still claim identity
A black man can date whomever he wants and still position himself as a voice for “his” people. He can rally people around eloquent speeches of racial injustice while enjoying a white wife and biracial offspring and his “brothers” will overlook it and won’t bat an eye.
He isn’t seen as trauma based dating like the black woman. But he also isn’t compelled to “act” different in any way because his choice to love is simply a “choice” independent of how he feels about himself.
But how and why we choose mates isn’t seperate from our culture, our fears, our self image and trauma. You choose partners by the sum total of your experiences, good, bad, easy, tough etc..
We are sold on the virtue of emotional dependency
Women are always sold on the virtue of displaying a “personality” instead of who they are because our value is not in how secure we are,
it’s in how emotionally dependent (feminine) we can pretend to be while simultaneously pulling off an image of value/beauty ..
But The Mother represents customs and culture and morality of society. How and who you choose to reproduce with is a bank deposit into the quality of future generations. You pass that on to her children, and if the FEmale/M-Other abandons her scientific role as decision maker for who gets to pass on their genetics, the quality of offspring will diminish within our society as a WHOLE!
Women get caught up in the salesmanship of men
Women get caught up in the salesmanship of men because we need men to see us and DESIRE us in order to EXPERIENCE value and an identity.
This is why a woman can/does feel worthless when rejected by MEN.
But there was a time when this was NOT so, when vanity did not make YOU an emotional prisoner, when you were not underneath MEN.
And this isn’t a feminist “I hate men ” rant!
This is a Ringing of THE ALARM!!
- It’s the need to be desired that lands us in bed with men who do not care.
- It’s the need to be seen as valued that lands us in these labor and delivery rooms by ourselves.
- It’s the need to be identified through the eyes of men that has us casting our pearls to swine.
We have a responsibility that’s bigger than burden of being beautiful for men!
We have a responsibility that’s bigger than burden of being beautiful for men! And when you release yourself from FEARING men, from seeking their lust, you will begin to bloom as you will finally utilize the sun and rain that M-other Nature AS ALWAYS provided you!
“The Ugly Girl’s Ambassador”