She said that he told her that his clientele want lightskin women exclusively and wanted to know my take on the matter.
She specifically wanted me to respond to this as I’ve been telling black women to stop the foolish thinking that look ack men do not want us.
Here was my response:
And I say that he is right as a “rule” about his evaluation of “his” clientele. But he is not telling the “law” about all black men wanting light skin women. There’s a difference between being “rule” and being “law”.
want me to add to the doom and gloom narrative because when I tell “US” that it’s not fact, I get the they said and he said and she said to discredit the thought process I want us to adopt collectively.
Your results are not based on what black men want or what a relationship coach tells you that ‘his’ clients want.
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