If you want to get money or resources out of a man, then NEVER act like you like sex as much as he does. Its masculine, and to get taken care of, you must act feminine or a “damsel in distress”.
If you are showing lust and encouraging talks about how you can do Olympic feats of Water Park style SQUIRTING on your 300 thread count sheets, you are going to make him think that his “peens” can be EQUAL in exchange of value when you do have sex..
NOT if you are trying to be cared for: HELL NAWL its NOT!
Hide your lust. Do not offer conversations about how skilled YOU are.
If you must go there, simply indulge in his need to express what he likes and take note,
giggle, blush, and keep it classy…
Why would you do this?
To establish that you are here to RECEiVE and his JOB as a man to to give IN EVERY WAY.
AND the sex he offers is NOT PAYMENT or COMPENSATION for the time your are spending with him..
That is the trap you pseudo feminists are getting yourself into.
The equality of the sexuality is NOT beneficial to women who want to portion themselves to be some man’s SUGAR BABY.
In order for a man to feel compelled to take care of you in any way,
he has to feel like you NEED him, he has to feel like he can solve your problems and rescue you.
And you cannot pull of the DAMSEL ideal by matching him it wit and sexual brawn.
RUN from the modern notions of womanhood and all that WOMAN CAN DO WHAT MEN DO
IF the goal is to be a woman getting her bills paid by a ma who is madly in love with her.
It takes work. More work than I care to admit or WANT to do myself.
I fought the need to do all this nonsense for soooo many years and pissed away a large portion of my own sexual fertility shadow boxing with the notion that I too had to be vulnerable.
But I was thinking of it all wrong, it’s not about BEING vulnerable, its about ACTING vulnerable.
And these are two entirely different things.
So my advice to you is not think of yourself as dumbing down your brilliance .
Think of all the feminine charm as a TOOL to sift your brilliance through,
because if your smarts doesn’t pad up your bottom line, then you are living “stupidly” anyway…
Fight this if you want too, and all you’ll have left is a mouth full of spermatozoa and an empty change purse..
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