Selfish people are full of complaints and convoluted notions about love. They want what they NEVER give, yet call the world unfair.
If no one wants to love you, there is a reason for that. Search for why that is..
Then Start BEING the love you wish to receive ..
I really give a side eye to people who say this because it reflective of a disconnect with people a humanitarian level.
We are all here to help people you know.
By working for them,
caring for them ,
If no one can say they have benefited from your existence, then you are not using your life in way that invites reciprocity you think you are entitled too.
We want love, right? But most want to hide behind the emotions of other people to disguise how they feel about themselves.
More people abuse love than cherish it, then regret and try to repair the corrupted hearts they’ve created, and it just becomes this endless cycle of
BEG FOR FORGIVENESS/
HURT YOU etc….
Why are people so naturally fucked up in the first place?
Why is it that we respect what we LOSE rather than cherish what we have?
Because this society is the THROW AWAY Society
We are constantly waiting for the next NEW thing to come out, even if the old phone works fine.
You wait in line and pay inflated prices for the NEW thing in order to feel like SOMEBODY.
We trade people in as well. The moment a flaw surfaces, we are outa there.
How self righteous of us indeed!
To maneuver as if parts of you do not have to be “tolerated” by another person,
to act like you are so perfect that you cannot allow anyone around you to slip: How Sway?
You want microwave food and microwave love.
No one wants to take time to cultivate a relationship anymore.
But those blazing hot relationships fizzle out just as fast though.
Sex will get boring no matter who you are screwing, especially if you are doing it too often.
There is no other solution for boredom and the contempt of familiarity than ABSTINENCE and DISCIPLINE.
You build together.
You grow love for each other based on time spent together learning and improving individually and as a unit.
If you have the same conversation that you had 5 years ago: you are dead.
If you haven’t tried anything new to challenge your abilities: you are dead.
If you have not done anything to support your physical health: you are dead.
Good Relationships are about MOVEMENT and PROGRESS…
This is Not about pole dancing, and other unnecessary acrobatic bedroom antics…
A person doesn’t want to kiss you because you’re a good kisser,
a person will want to kiss you are using your lips as an instrument to express emotions for them.
Love( which is PASSION) is not that hard to attain if you are to fulfill your needs BY fulfilling the needs of others.