Listen, anything and Everything can be justified.
It doesn’t take much to justify why you did something or why you’ve allowed it be done to you.
All that’s required is some intense emotion like anger or fear, and you can carefully craft a whole imaginary story around it.
We are “Imaginators” like Walt Disney called his cartoonists back in the day.
So the ingredients for justification is emotional conviction and repetition to become the standard in your life..
It means that you can also justify the things that give you pleasure,
Because your justification creates the importance behind anything you do or don’t do,
and you decision to reason with or against anything you want or don’t want is based in a FEELING, nothing more.
There are people who can argue the right want children sexually.
There people who can justify drinking urine.
There are people who can reason out the benefits of slavery.
There are people who justify cooking and then eating a new mother’s *placenta to celebrate the birth of a child.
There are people who justify killing people over animals.
There are people who justify the mistreatment of dark skin, black women.
I can go on, but I think you get the point.
So the question what makes a justification right or wrong?
Nothing other than how you feel about a thing.
Take me for instance, I am ANTI PORN in relationships
because I think it disables strong intimate sexual connects between male and female.
I think porn creates false expectations and performance anxiety for both men and women.
The pressure to have a pretty “Pu$$y” with no bumps or stretched out labia’s,
or a baby arm size dick that shoot cum all the way across the room, is that realistic?
I think it makes people dissatisfied with each other and it’s a form of infidelity in my book.
So I don’t partake.
I don’t want to need to imagine having sex with someone else so that I can be wet enough to fuck you!!
And I would hope that declaration could be made on my behalf also vice-versa of course.
But people swear by the benefits of it, and some have claimed that it saved their sex lives.
So who’s right here?
I’m right to me and they are right to them: Justification!!
So how will you justify what you need and want?
Are gonna start this year playing passive by waiting for the North Star to shine down into your apartment while you are meditating,
or are you gonna CREATE your justification like you do for alllllllllllllllllllllllll those things you don’t want to face or do?
That’s all this life is really, a game to me played as you wish.
You want something different? Then you have to deliberately create it. Justification is the spice that can fuel a new point of view.
Make up your FACTS based on what you FEEL.
Let’s Do This!!
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