Someone asked me about interracial dating.
I will be asking two questions:
1)do black men watch porn?
2)Do black men have a “type” of female they like?
And then more questions:
3)Do you understand that most of them watch non black women and are very excited by the pink snatch and Tu Ball Cains jumping around ?
4)Do you understand that what they watch is what turns them on?
5)How many times is it going to be someone that looks exactly like you?
6)Do you understand that having a “type” is a prejudice within itself, and that it’s a predisposition towards a particular esthetic?
7)What are you ashamed of admitting exactly?
8)And why when men have no problem objectifying and separating parts of your body into what is valuable and what is not useful?
You are attracted to what you are attracted to and that’s it. We can cradle the politics of it and the turncoat , coon labels can be rather discomforting to say the least. But you must know that what should concern you most is what happens behind the door of your own house. You are ALONE:I keep drilling this into your head because its this collective allegiance to nothingness that as many of us putting opportunity on hold or passing it up altogether.
Prejudice is everywhere. And YES, it is within the ‘black community’ of which there really isn’t a community more so than neighborhoods where we densely reside. The truth of someone’s heart, you can never really know, so why rely on what you hope is comradery when the only man you can put to task on defending you, is the one you go to bed with?! You must narrow your focus and listen to your heart and mind. You make vows to people who will not help you in times of need. You show you are ‘down’ for men who will never consider you as wife material.
Self care is the first and the most important vow you will ever make. Angry people cannot love, hateful people cannot love, racist people cannot love etc.
When you start looking at EVERYTHING for what it really is, you start to really grasp how much “performing” is going on. Some of us have allegiance to those that look at us as an “experiment” or something to do when they are bored or have a dry spell. You are ALONE.. This walk is yours. No one is coming to save you. No revolution. . Look around and you can see if u open your eyes. You are aligned with nostalgia and illusions.
Live YOUR life..
“Life Coach ” ~ Salkis Re
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