Men are curious creatures ready to play.
The problem is that they have no conscious about “playing” with YOUR life and your emotions.
Given the opportunity they will test you, and the testing assists them in finding a way into your heart.
That’s all courtship is really.
Courtship is the process of making you feel good while he takes you through behavioral modification.
His job is to alter your perception, to make you feel something for him,
to move away from your normal programming so you will want to fit him into your life..
So what’s the true tea here?
DECEPTION and COURTSHIP go hand in hand.
But it’s a beautiful thing. Courtship is seduction and seduction feels really good
because it allows us the opportunity to escape reality through his pleasantries..
Because you’re doing also, you are doing it so he can fall in love, and he’s doing it so he can fuck you into loving him!
And the gag is that men will lay the burden of truth on you.
They will say that “you should’ve know better” or “you should’ve chosen better”
which is an admission that you shouldn’t choose with your heart but with your heart.
But the quagmire here is that they don’t feel that you value them UNTIL you display an emotional investment in them.
So what should you do?
Should you maintain your reasonableness and risk being viewed as a contemptuous,
heartless-bitch, or do you strive for creating a “real” emotional bond,
throw caution to the wind, and give him what he desires most?
I’d say that your lane oscillates between the two.
You want to show that you are interested, but not gullible.
You want be kind, but not compromising.
You want to be optimistic, yet sensible and observant.
You cannot be just one or the other because on one end you’ll look like a desperate fool,
and other you’ll look like a desperate bitch!
Most men will talk your panties down are pimps.
And pimps are: smooth talking ramblers who speak in ELOQUENT INSINCERITY.
Know this, what he wants to do, what he would like to do,
what he wishes he could do,
what he’s “going” to do
and what he’s thinking about doing have NOTHING to do with you!!
Making decisions about the direction of your life based on the “hypothetical” indecisions of men will be round about the time you make your biggest misjudgment.
All these do is serve to create a “feeling” that “something”
is about to be done so you can gamble on your faith that it will.
So the order of the day is to take optimal care of yourself FIRST!
This means that you trust your instincts;
you move only when you are comfortable;
you keep your purpose and your mission in the forefront of your mind
ALWAYS! And know that what he offers you has to be in line with your purpose PERIOD!
If you need to talk, I’m HERE